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Sneak peek at what you voted for

7.22.12

I’ve got an obligation to the folks who clicked for us. And, you better believe I’m taking that seriously. Perhaps Dan Cruver should make a name tag up for me that says “Adoption Community Correspondent” or “Adoptive Parent Special Reporter.” I’d wear it with pride since I’m committed to sharing as much as I can with whoever wants to receive it.

Just take a sneak peek at some of what Mark and I will be receiving…

  • A challenge from Jonathan Merritt, a widely published (A Faith of Our Own: Following Jesus Beyond the Culture Wars and Green Like God: Unlocking the Divine Plan for Our Planet)
    and respected teacher and faith and culture strategist. With a passion for the synergy of faith and culture, he’s teaching on how to mobilize the next generation to care for orphans. He’s going to flesh out the stats on this generation’s heart for issues of social justice, critique this generation for often being more cause centered than Christ centered, and then help us cast a vision for mobilizing them rightly. I can’t wait to meet him and have a feeling that this break-out could be a whole conference of its own.
  • Pastor and Preacher Vermon Pierre, first generation in his family to be born in the U. S. with parents from Haiti, will share through his experience as a foster parent about transracial adoption. Recognizing that adoptive parents tend to approach transracial adoption one of two ways–we either over-emphasize race and live in turmoil, afraid we aren’t doing enough to honor our child’s ethnic heritage or we de-emphasize race and act as though it were completely unimportant now that our child is a part of our family. Pierre is going to teach on how the gospel shows us something different. As parents who celebrate our Chinese daughter’s heritage and work to do that in a way that is sensitive and appropriate to her, this one is gonna be good.
  • Lavonne Dideon, one my personal cheerleaders who had all her kiddos routing for our video entry to get us to the conference, is going to be sharing as National Director of Orphan Sunday efforts this year how we can harness Orphan Sunday in our church to grow a heart for orphan care. 
  • Chris Marlow, founder and director of Help End Local Poverty, is going to take on sharing about the pros and cons of short-term missions. As a couple committed to mission work, Mark’s looking forward to this one.
  • Adoptive and foster mom, Dennae Pierre will be challenging us on how we can teach our children to “suffer well,” without a fear of suffering. She’s going to teach on a biblical perspective of suffering and talk about practical ways to teach our children to live out their stories within the context of all that is happening throughout human redemptive history. As parents desiring to both  encourage our children to have a heart for those who are in the midst of suffering as well as walk with our child who has suffered from losses, we are looking forward to hearing how we can use the gospel at their level to help them process the pain around them. 
  • Jason Kovacs, pastor, cofounder of Together for Adoption, and Director of Ministry Development for The ABBA Fund…and father of 5 (4 through adoption), is going to speak to the men specifically in a break-out session simply entitled Men and the Fatherless. Mark’s ready to hear his challenge to man up; bring it on.
  • Meanwhile, I’ll be hearing Jon Bergeron, Director of Hope for Orphans FamilyCare, and Robin Pennington, Cofounder of Hope for Orphans and Executive Director of Sparrow’s Home Adoptions, discuss why difficulties in adoption are the norm and how early supportive intervention by the Church can make all the difference. They won’t shy away from talking about the reality of disruptions and how the Church can come alongside families who are struggling. I really want to step up to this challenge.
How’s that for a sneak peek? 

I wish I could share our special registration code with you all so you could all come with us.

Maybe you should just come.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption

Complete

7.17.12

It’s a different year at the beach this summer. With Lydia wearing big girl pants now and the others getting older, vacations can start to feel like vacations and not simply a change of scenery.

As I sit on the beach, watching my family as I read my book under an umbrella, it struck me.

I feel complete.

I cherish each of my children with each of their unique needs as little people with sensitive hearts being shaped everyday.

I look at the 4 of them jumping in the surf with the man I vowed to love for the rest of my days, and I feel complete.

Things are good. My plate is full. I am content with where He has me, what He has put before me, how He is using me to do good works He has already planned in advance for me to do.

But, even within that fullness, there are images that aren’t far from consciousness that I can quickly conjure up.

Last night, using the marvel of modern technology, we “met” a class of 20 school aged children in China. They pushed and shoved to see us on their small screen, each battling to say the same thing, “hello. How are you? Nice to meet you.” Some covered their mouths and giggled with shyness as their teacher, a friend of my parents, explained that they had never “seen a foreigner.” We asked them a few light questions, even named a few of the students who wanted English names, trying to match American names to the sound of their beautiful Chinese names.

As I went to the bed, the images lingered in my mind of children, not these children whose parents were making sacrifices to have them learn English and have more opportunities. I thought of the children whose faces I see online who have no parents and no opportunities who long for a family, who only know the same routine day in and day out, maybe never even leave the walls of the building where they live.

Yet, I feel complete. At least for this season I do.

For now, I will do what I’m called to do.

Be a wife to my husband. A mother to four treasures. And an advocate as I’m able for the children who wait and for the families who bring them home.

For now.

Ni Hao Yall

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An ebay auction on steroids

7.14.12

Oh. my. goodness. people.

Insanity. 
Back and forth, back and forth. We’re ahead by 10, down by 10, etc., etc. There were some serious people rallying on our behalf. That’s serious people seriously rallying (like asking all their Facebook friends, their teenage children, coworkers, etc. to click for us).  
At a little after 11am, I shut down the Macbook and headed out with the kiddos to the pool since it was at the point that I just couldn’t watch any more (picture me, hands over my eyes, peeking every so often). Every 10 minutes or so, I was checking in to see the status. And, the numbers started going crazy…as did my text messages.
Ahhh!
None of us knew how it actually ended. 
Hours later, we got the official word from Dan at Together for Adoption. He counted up the votes, going through and deleting ones from duplicate IP addresses. 
Can you see this screen shot?
1,624 votes. That’s a whole lotta clicks for us. Geez Louise. Can’t believe it.

What’s Atlanta like in September?
And, if anyone out there knows the Cannings family, tell them we’ve got to meet, hopefully in September in Atlanta.

No. more. voting. contests.

Unless the grand prize is a trip to China or one of my children is running for the Presidency.

I’ll stick to dressing up like cows to get free food at Chickfila ($45 meal for free, people, just for some ears on headbands and black construction paper spots). Totally more our speed.

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Filed Under: The Sparrow Fund

Ahhhh!

7.14.12

The overthinker would be a terrible game show contestant.

Oh my.

Lots of refreshing and checking in today.

And, some of you may have gotten an email from me.

I know, it’s sort of obnoxious of me.

But, did you see the prize?

An all-expense-paid trip to Together for Adoption’s conference in Atlanta in September. A conference that would be so great for Mark and I to go to, particularly as we work to make The Sparrow Fund exactly what God wants it to be.

And, we are oh-so close to winning. Just click here to see for yourself.

Contest ends at noon tomorrow. I may be watching my screen peeking through my fingers.

You think I’m kidding.

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