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Snapshots of Sensory Stuff

7.8.12

We’re no strangers to sensory processing issues in this house. But, we’re used to parenting a child with sensory sensitivity–one who is bothered by clothing tags and collars on shirts and loud noise and crowds.

Parenting our youngest has been a whole other deal.

This girl is sensory seeking. If there’s a chair or a bench or a step stool, she climbs on it (and then jumps on it and off it and on it and off it). If there’s a puddle, she jumps in it. She moves…constantly. Yup, all the time. If there’s a cup, she pours it out and plays in it. If there’s a basket of anything, she dumps it. If there’s a mess, she’s in it.

We used to think she was trouble seeking rather than sensory seeking.

But, the more I study her and the more I read and learn, the more I understand her and all her “trouble-seeking” ways.

She needs more vestibular and tactile stimulation that most kids her age–those fancy words just mean she needs more balance and big movement type of stimulation and lots and lots of touch. And, that really shouldn’t surprise us. Those senses are the ones most fed during those very early baby months. When babies are supposed to be picked up, rocked, held, bounced, touched, and tickled, she spent most her time in a crib.

So, I’m trying to give her an extra dose of vestibular and tactile stuff these days. My concerted effort this week – a rice box.

And, she loved it.

Burying toys, digging them up, filling cups, dumping cups, stepping in the bin, wiggling those toes, letting the rice run between her fingers….and onto my floor.

My attempt to clean this up seemed rather futile. I was getting so frustrated feeling a single rice grain under my bare feet after multiple floor clean ups that I was starting to think I had sensory problems. 
Rice box got kicked to the curb. Literally. Where Lydia proceeded to bury and dig and play and so forth and so forth until my driveway looked like we hosted a wedding here. 

I’ve been getting ideas from The Out-of-Sync Child Has Fun: Activities for Kids with Sensory Processing Disorder. It’s packed full of clever little ways to help our kids with sensory processing stuff goin’ on.

Got any ideas your kiddos love?

Ni Hao Yall

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Filed Under: adoption, Lydia, Sunday Snapshot

Training, Opportunities, and a little bit o’ begging

7.8.12

These last 5 weeks have been pretty amazing. Like pretty life-changing amazing.

Mark and I have had the joy of being trained by the Monroes from Tapestry Ministry over the last 5 weeks. Every Monday, they’ve sent us and a few other couples an email packed with homework assignments, readings, videos to watch, and questions to answer. And, we get to work. Because Saturday is a’ coming when we’ve gotta turn in our assignments and await the next email on Monday.

We’ve read more in the last 5 weeks than we’ve read in a long time. And, it’s all been about kids from hard places and the people who love them and the God who made them all.

And, it’s been amazing.

In a couple weeks, we’ll head on down to Dallas to finish out our training with several days of in-person schooling so that we can come on back to ya’ll on the East Coast and help parents here.

Super exciting stuff to be able to be trained in something we are so passionate about as a couple.

Which brings me to the beggin’ part.

There’s an event in September we’d love to go to so that we can learn more and come home refreshed and ready to serve the people God has called us to serve–Together for Adoption’s national conference in Atlanta.

I entered a wee little contest to try to get us there (of course I did).

But, we need you to help. Would you go to THIS LINK, scroll on down to Video #4 (you’ll see a still image of my sweet baby in her nanny’s arms from the day we received her), click on the little “I like it” circle there and then click on VOTE. That’s it – no signing up or signing in. Takes 2 seconds. (If you have a few more seconds free, watch our video. It’s 70 seconds to be exact and is the equivalent of a video plea, if you will.)

The video with the most votes as of Saturday the 14th (like this coming Saturday…ah man…could we actually win this???) wins an all expense trip to the conference. Which would pretty much rule. Yup. It would.

Can you vote everyday this week and help us get there? Maybe even broadcast it to all your friends, neighbors, grocery store check-out person…you get the point. (I may get a little desperate by the end of the week…)

Okay, back to our Empowered to Connect homework.






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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
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