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A Snow Day in September

9.25.12

I am convinced that snow days are one of God’s ways of making us stop for a bit. Everybody is all ready to go for their day–lunches packed, homework done, clothes out. And, then, all is cancelled and you’re forced to press the pause button on normal life.

Last night, my parents drove 2 hours up and 2 hours back just to say hello, hug on us, and treat us to dinner. All was well. Lydia was a ball of energy and chatty, chatty, chatty. The night was busy with the bedtime routine and getting all ready for today. Then, busy again as Mark and I bonded with our Macbooks over Connecting While Correcting planning and registration details for Together Called and all the business that causes busyness.

As were calling it quits for the night, we heard a door creak and some whimpering. We found Lydia laying on the hall floor with a fever. She was hot and weak in my arms. And, then she started throwing up. And, no one likes throwing up.

Before we were even all cleaned up, I emailed the senior leader of my Bible Study. “Help, I need a sub for tomorrow! I can’t lead my core group. Lydia’s sick.”

It was a long night with Lydia sleeping by my bedside on a crib mattress. This morning, she woke up chipper and chatty again. “Hmmm…could I pull off still going to Bible Study? Maybe I could find someone to stay here with Lyds so that I could still lead…”

And, then she said it to me: “You gonna take care of me today?”

“Oh, yes, sweetie. I’ll take care of you today. That’s my job.”

“Okay, Mommy. And, I’ll take care of you too.”

And, so, we’re home for the day. My Bible Study group met without me. And, I’m sure they were just fine without me. And, Lydia and me? We’re having our own snow day in September. We’re in our comfy clothes and enjoying the quiet house and the sunlight streaming through the windows and the cats curled up in the warmth of that light. And, I’ve pressed the pause button on all else and have been babying my baby today, and we’ve both been eating it up.

Her fever has come back now, and she’s so quiet and gentle. I’m so glad that it’s my job to care for her today. And, I’m so glad she’s taking care of me too.

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Links Worth Lingering On

9.25.12

Since I know not all ya’ll track my postings on Facebook (though you should since I advocate there for some super precious kiddos and share some nonsense sprinkled in with a few good links and such), thought I’d devote a whole post to some links I’ve shared that are worth checking out…or lingering on for the purpose of alliteration.
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As someone who often hears, “Wow! You have your hands full!” This article “To the Mother With Only One Child” is well worth the read. One or Ten, mothering is not easy.

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This article in China Daily starts off with this:

An ancient Chinese philosopher described the perfect society as “living in harmony, treating others as family… there is love and caring for the elderly … nourishment and education for children … kindness and compassion for widows, orphans, the disabled and the sick”. Historically, such harmony is the standard of happiness. But now, after vast economic development, are the Chinese people happy?

Read about the Chinese’s 4 most pressing social concerns.

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Patty Chang Anker reads her manuscript “The Cookie Jar” at NYC’s Listen to Your Mother. Lovin’ her quote from one of her daughters – “Forever mom is forever. That’s her job.”

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Matthew Salesses, adult adoptee, shares his thoughts about building a family when you were adopted yourself.
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A beautiful post from Sara Hagerty pointing us to the God who remembers. Grab a cup of pumpkin latte and sit down for a read and a challenge.
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Got a link worth sharing? Feel free to link it up. I’m always game for a good read–especially if I’ve got a pumpkin latte in hand.

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