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Snapshot o’ Trick o’ Treatin’

11.1.10

“Oh yeah, baby” as Drew would say.
We had a Mario, Donkey Kong, a flower who did not want her petals up, and a beautiful peacock.

I love how dear Evan looks the same in every single shot of the 20 I took like this. Obviously, that was not the case for dear Lydia who you would have thought was in a Venus Fly Trap costume the way she was trying to get that darn thing off of her head.

There surely was no need for me to do this (sneak a Kit Kat yesterday when I could not find a craving…please tell me I’m not the only Mom who did this).

Because after they did this…

 (which Lydia quickly got the hang of and loved…but only if they had lollipops)

We ended up doing this…

 sorting candy…and lots of it. Seriously. Lots. Of. Candy.

Here was Drew’s attempt at sorting. Yes, that’s one box of candy in a bag. Guess it didn’t fit in with the other categories.

A personal note of thanks to the neighbors who gave out pretzels. Perhaps the kids don’t like you as much, but we moms thank you. And, to the random person who somewhere gave my kids mints from Olive Garden, fooey on you.

Ni Hao Y'all

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Sunday Snapshot

It’s Monday night

10.5.10

 (I promise I won’t name each blog post a day of the week going forward)
Lydia’s ear tube surgery went well. She was pleasant despite me waking her up at the crack of dawn and not feeding her anything. The nurses and anesthesiologist were not happy because she has a runny nose and a little cough and threatened to cancel today’s procedure. But, ultimately, they decided it was okay to start and that they’d just have to stop if she started showing any respiratory distress. But, it also meant they would not give her the sedative they promised me they’d give her so that she’d be fine when they took her from me. I was not happy about that. But, God’s hand was on her because when the nurse reached out for her, she just went with her–stared at her intently and didn’t cry at all. I had to take some serious deep breaths but held back the tears. 15 minutes later, they told me she was in recovery, and I went back a few minutes later. Not even the deep breaths could keep a few tears away then, seeing her so teeny in a big bed still asleep with an oxygen mask on. But, she woke up soon just fine–a little bit confused but not crying. What a blessing. We were home quickly and she was in bed for most of the day which actually wasn’t so bad.

It’s my birthday.

And, having her sleeping all day meant I had to stay home and have Mark do all the pick ups today of the other kids. Plus, it was pouring down rain all day. So, this birthday girl got to snuggle in under the covers and read and take a nap herself! Now, that’s the way to spend a birthday. Mark even did homework with Evan and packed the lunches for tomorrow. Does it get any better? Oh, yes, it does. Out to dinner with the fam to Molly Maguires where kids eat free on Mondays (Mark thanked me for having my birthday fall on a Monday this year). Then, home for a very pretty cake Mark bought today on his way back from one of the kid pick ups.

Lydia is mesmerized by the candles in this picture. Or, maybe she is just fantasizing about digging into the chocolate. She did give us her famous “mah mah mah mah?” (translation: “more more more more”) while we fed her some.
Okay, so, Mark cheated a bit copying my basket idea that I gave him. It’s even the same actual basket. But, you know what, I don’t care! It was filled with lots of my favorite goodies–they don’t go together really at all. But, they are some of my faves, and it was sweet of him to find them for me. 
Mmmm….Wegman’s milk chocolate sauce (THE best), honey crisp apples (why aren’t they available year round???), gum, Nestle crunch (not really my favorite anymore, but I won’t hold it against him), cute little iron peg crafts by Ashlyn (she works so hard on these, making the perfect “patdrins” as she says it), a flavored water, the book Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God (I’ve heard a lot about this one and am excited to add it to my pile of books I want to read read it), a magazine to flip through while I recover next week, my favorite herbal tea, a Chinese silk covered journal, some other little doo dahs, and a gift card to a local coffee shop for some alone time.
Alone time. Nice.
Perhaps the best gift in the basket was this one, personally chosen by Drew.

A little mini cat waving his arm. Those of you who have been to China know that these are pretty much everywhere. But, they are larger and actually waving at you. They are pretty odd…or maybe creepy. I am sure they symbolize good luck or something like that. 

And, here is Drew sulking when I told him that it was my birthday gift and that meant he could not keep the cat in his room on his nightstand. Apparently, he picked it out because he really liked it. Perhaps he was hoping I would not and then give it back.
His prayer tonight before bed went something like this:
“Thank you, God, for dying on the cross [that’s how they always start]. And, thank you for the little cat that waves his arm and comes alive at night. Amen.”
Perhaps I should rethink keeping it on my nightstand where it now sits.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Lydia

Sunday Snapshot: {a gaggle of kids and goodbye to the Jeep}

9.20.10

Remember Mark’s and my shaweet date night to P.F. Changs? Well, it wouldn’t have happened without our cool friends, the Hopples, who gladly take on our 3 kids overnight to add to their 3 (soon to be 4) kids so that we can take a deep breath (and dote on Lydia alone).

Well, Friday night was our turn to take on the troops. If you can take the sheer volume, it’s an awesome time. 7 is honestly easier than 4—for a night, at least.

And, just when we thought the weekend couldn’t get more exciting, we bought a new car (well, new to us. It’s a 2006).

I hate buying new cars. 

But, I know Mark needed one. Apparently, having no air conditioning and a rusted out bottom so that your feet got wet when it rained was no longer making him feel like he had a decent ride. So, we said goodbye to the old Jeep Cherokee and said hello to a Subaru something or other.

The kids love it. Their favorite thing–cup holders in the back. 

Mark has a bunch of favorite things. But, I think one of his favorites is the seriously open moon roof. 

My favorite thing. It’s clean….at least for now. 

You know what though–it’ll stay clean since the kids will primarily ride in my swagger wagon and throw all their twizzler wrappers, fruit snack bags, and leftover pretzel sticks (which they subsequently will step on) on my floor (not to mention the leaking sippy cups and gazillion stickers stuck to the window next to Drew’s seat).

Do you sense a little jealousy over the new set of wheels? 
No, no. 
Maybe I’m just defensive for the Jeep’s sake. For some reason, trading in cars is emotional for me. Have no idea why. It’s just a thing. And, this particular thing really holds no particular memory for me–no babies came home in the Jeep, no special family trips in it. But, for some reason, I feel sad to not see it again. I knew the exact sound of it’s engine coming down our driveway telling me Mark was home–maybe that’s why I feel sad to let it go. 
I’m glad Mark will have a good car to serve him well as he drives to and fro work. Guess I’ll get to know it’s rumble soon enough. And, Evan, hope you like it, because we’re thinking it’ll be yours in 8-10 years.

Ni Hao Y'all

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Sunday Snapshot

More firsts

9.9.10

We promised Drew his day would come. And, today it did.
Drew is an official preschooler. 
And, a super cute one at that.
As you can see, Lydia was pretty anxious to get in there herself (that is, until I put her down to take the picture below. I think she thought she was staying for school and started to panic).


Drew wanted to take these pictures so Evan and Ashlyn could see the “huge Legos” and his “restaurant.” I’m partial to the funky wall colors myself.

I think today was just some fun stuff; it was only 90 minutes long as a “warm up.” Drew hysterically told the family repeatedly how he just had fun and didn’t learn a thing! I think he was expecting to be doing long division by the end of the day.

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Filed Under: daily life, Drew

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