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Great Wall. Great Day.

10.21.16

The team arrived with smiles on Thursday evening. And, looked brand new at breakfast before we headed out for the day (several cups of cappuccino each certainly helped). Today, we were tourists complete with a big ole bus for the 14 of us. First stop? The Great Wall. Because you can’t come to China and not see it. You just can’t.

The fog/smog was thick. But, those who had never seen it marveled at it just the same. It didn’t matter.

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One of them asked me how many times I’d been to the wall. And, I couldn’t answer; too many times to keep track of. Does it get old? she asked. Not when I’m coming with people who have never seen it before. Their expressions. Their constant stops to take another picture. Their surprise at the steepness and the uneven steps. Their obvious humility when they hear they are walking on something that started to be built 2000 years ago. It makes each visit of mine new again.

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These first couple days we spend together are now throwaways. We share adventures and laugh a lot, share food from lazy susans, help each other with chopsticks and tissue when needed, take lots of pictures together and sometimes with random people….all of it brings us together so that when Monday morning comes around, we are the unified body we desire to be.

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All right now

10.19.16

I spent some time with some of our folks in Baoding this evening. Had an incredible mango smoothie with my friend Maddie along this street.

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Walked bag to Frank and Helen’s apartment. Had homemade Chinese soup Helen made for me. Played Uno with Caleb. Raced cars down a slide with Grace. Finished off my evening doing Drew’s old job, snuggling with Caleb at bedtime.

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All while my phone is buzzing with messages about which gate to meet at and who has found who.

The team is on their way!

While I sleep in my hard-as-a-rock bed tonight, they’ll be flying over the North Pole. I’ll board a bus in the morning and head back to the Beijing airport once again. But, this time, I won’t be flying out anywhere, I’ll be one of the paparazzi waiting in Terminal 3 welcoming this crew to China!

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Aunt Kelly

10.19.16

The little boy who arrived in our home 2 years ago is now a big boy. He’s in the third and final year of full-day kindergarten complete with three meals a day and 2 snacks (as that works here and as I know because he told me “eating” is his favorite part of school). And, I’m told that the doorman there believes that his 6 months in America made him a “different kind of boy” who is more “polite and smart about the world.”

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And, this sweet baby? Our little Gracie girl?

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Don’t let the short hair fool you; she’s no baby anymore. She’s captivating. She’s feisty and determined and independent and wants her way. I tell Frank and Helen that it must be the American in her too.

Best of all? She melted my heart with this today.

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30 hours + 26 hours {reunion worth it all}

10.17.16

China and I got off to a rough start. 30 hours door-to-door travel, missing luggage, and a hotel arrival at 3am doesn’t build our relationship. Three and a half hours after arriving, I was out of bed and up again. There was no time to waste today on jet lag. I had a very important meeting today, one that could not be missed for anything.

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One ran to greet me arms opened wide. The other hung back in shock to see me there. It took them literally 5 minutes to request OH HAPPY DAY on my phone and charade asking me if I brought him his camera. We played Legos with a kit his mama-to-be sent to him, watched old videos on my phone of their time in America, sang some praise songs together, and gave a lot of hugs and kisses. We called home and woke Mark up for them to yell a few words into the phone including “Shūshu! Āyí zài zhōngguó!” (Uncle! Aunt is in China!) Drew and Ashlyn were awakened (5:40am there time, mind you) at the boys’ request. Then another call to wake up the other Ayi and Shushu for another round of yelling and laughing.

30 hours of travel. 4 hours meeting waiting children. 2 hours dining with directors. 1 hour with these boys. 26 hours total in this city before flying back to Beijing.

Every minute redeemed.

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Filed Under: China, M.Y.

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