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First Day of School 2016

8.29.16

Do you hear that?

It’s the sound of children all at school.

First Day Eve didn’t disappoint. I had my moments of nostalgia while I moped and reflected on the days when they’d dance in their cribs when they’d catch sight of me and we were reunited after naps, when we spent mornings at the playground across the street, and sing along at storytimes at the library. And, I made my children’s summer dreams come true when I emptied a half gallon of vanilla ice cream and a 2-liter of root beer into my dining room table centerpiece. Root beer floats always make a mama’s heart a little less mopey.

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Mark and I woke before the sun came up and managed to get all these kids almost fully in-tact and outside by 7:05 for a picture before I dropped Evan and Ashlyn off for their first days of 9th and 7th grade and got the other two ready for their drop off. Three different schools = morning chaos.

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I am sure that all of them were nervous today (not counting Mark and me). But, the only one willing and able to tell me so was the littlest one of them all.

She didn’t show it as she led her 2nd grade class line though. She owned that leader spot.

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Here’s to Second Day Eve which I’m hoping includes less moping on my part and fewer calories.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: why can't they just stay little forever

Beyond Folded Hands {guided prayer kit}

8.29.16

I’m not an artist. I’m better with words. At least, that’s what I’ve always believed, that’s what I’ve always told myself. I feel at home with a pen in my hand. It’s familiar and comfortable. I know what to do with it, and I am confident that the ink on the page will eventually produce something I can be content with. But, a paintbrush, not all that different in size and shape from my pen, feels utterly foreign and somehow makes me feel like a child again. That’s how this project started.

There’s no technically correct art. No syntax, grammar, logic, spelling. No thesis statement or 5 paragraphs. Art is free expression, spontaneous and authentic expression. Perhaps that freedom is what unnerves me. I prefer rules and order. But when I embrace that freedom, I am able to see things that all my rules and definition block out. I am able to pay attention to things that are often silenced.

Last spring, I started talking to Erin Leigh. I asked her to help me. I asked her to help me discover how I could use artistic expression that I knew made me weak to engage with God in new ways. I wanted to learn how to pray beyond folded hands and closed eyes. It was risky and scary, but I loved it. It was good, and I wanted to share it and bring others with me.

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Months later, Creative Conversations With the Creator is the result, and I couldn’t be more excited to introduce it to you. It’s a kit that comes with an 8-page guidebook and everything you need to complete the various activities in the guide, including a quality watercolor palette and brush, pens, practice sheets, watercolor paper, a photograph focal point, and beautiful artwork by Erin Leigh created exclusively for this kit. Using the pieces included, you are invited to learn new ways to engage with God and put them into practice through projects that build on each other to bring the fatherless to the Father. Included is even an opportunity to return a piece to us to be handed as a gift to a child in China who waits. I’m kind of on the edge of my seat to see what arrives at our door to take with us in October.

Valued at approximately $50, we are making it available for those who make a suggested donation of at least $45 to The Sparrow Fund. If you are local and would like to pick up your kit, the suggested donation is $35. Donations beyond the cost of producing the kits will be used to fund orphan care initiatives in China. Get your kit now while supplies last HERE. We are so excited to link arms with you as we go deeper together.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Orphans, The Sparrow Fund

he’s finally ready {advocating}

8.25.16

ZhouCheng 2014

With every trip to the orphanage, I’d see him again. The first time we met, he smiled from afar. Now, he runs to greet me and holds my hand and asks me how his friends are doing who have been adopted. I wondered why he still waited. Yes, he’s older. But, why would he not have been adopted sooner?

 

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His file was never ready.

Babies and peers were made paper ready for adoption. But, he waited. When we visited, I asked if we could evaluate him too. He’s smart, I told them. He is warm and friendly, sweet with other children. Why not prepare his papers and see if a family would want to make him a son.

But, he’s so old, they said. And, his eye is not right, they said.

But, they did it.

Now, close to being too old to be adopted legally, he’s finally been made paper ready. When I shared with one of the directors the good news that his file had finally made it to America and that he might have a chance now, he sent me these words:

Z is a smart, lively, cheerful, kind, respectful, considerate, so handsome, handsome, boy! He has had some healthy problem, same age has a certain gap. But, his language development and intellectual development is basic as same age children. I take Z to my home for the weekend and to children’s park with friends and for family party. He will take care of others, not only will take care of himself. Everyone notices how he is considerate and takes care of people. For this, my son envies him! In my house, he gets up very early, has to tidy up the bed, then sweep the floor, mop the floor, and clean the house. He does it all cheerfully. He also helps me pick vegetables and wash the dishes. He bathes himself and sets his underwear and socks aside to dry up. In outdoor activities, when I barbecue, he will stand beside me and fan me and wipe the sweat from my face. His self-discipline is very strong, very obedient. He doesn’t let himself do things he shouldn’t do. At any time, even at the time of playing computer games, if he is told to stop, he stops to accept instructions (generally, even when urged many times, children ignore parents’ instructions when playing games!). Z himself is very willing to be adopted by a family and wants a home!

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Z is listed as special focus which means that any family, regardless of if they are paper ready themselves, can commit to adopting him. If you are interested in reviewing his file, please contact waitingchildren@awaa.org today.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating

OH HAPPY DAY {shirts}

8.14.16

I couldn’t be more excited about the newest Sparrow Fund shirt design.

It’s the softest, most comfortable shirt ever and it’s inspired by this guy.

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He came here with only a few English words (“hell0,” “fine, thank you.”). On his first trip to church on his first Sunday here, he heard the song “Happy Day.” He started singing parts of the chorus later that day. Within days, he was singing the entire song…all. the. time. Every time we got in the car, “Happy Day?” he’d request it played…on repeat.

He sang the words as did his buddy who quickly caught onto the fun of it. Now, we get to wear the words.

It just makes me happy.
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 All proceeds from sales of this shirt go towards funding the orphan care initiatives of The Sparrow Fund (orphanage trips, supplies and gifts, new programs, good stuff for kids who need advocates).

Details:

Shirts come in adult and youth sizes. The adult shirts are my favorite shirt ever— a super, super soft tri-blend. The youth sizes are a cotton/poly blend that is really comfy for even the most sensitive kiddos. Adult sizes come in heather grey, denim blue, or teal. Youth sizes come in heather grey, denim blue, or bright pink.

How to get some for yourself:

  • Complete the short form HERE with your name, mailing address, how many shirts you want in what sizes/colors, and all that good stuff.
  • Pay for them ($20 per shirt plus shipping) via sending money to mraudenbush@sparrow-fund.org through your PayPal account (FYI – it’s the account for The Sparrow Fund, not a personal account…promise) or by donating via clicking the donate button on The Sparrow Fund website (www.sparrow-fund.org).
  • Share, tweet, and text using hashtag #ohhappyday to help us spread the word about these super cute first day of school or birthday or adoption day or casual Friday shirts (this one is optional, of course, but most appreciated).

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: M.Y., Orphans, The Sparrow Fund

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