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Wǒ yào lǐfà. {I need a haircut.}

10.23.15

The lunar calendar is a mystery to me. Some sort of lunar calendar expert decides the best day to get married based on the groom’s birthday, the bride’s birthday, and the lunar calendar. There are actually best/”lucky” days for everything including starting a new job, traveling, and getting a haircut. We just happened to be present for one of those days.

On one of the top floors at the end of the hallway is a room dedicated to good haircut days complete with swiveling chairs and wall mirrors for the children to watch the whole process. Professionals in stylish digs come in and work their magic whether the children like it or not.

I was fully ready to join in and offer my head for some lucky snipping. It’s hair; it grows back. But, seeing a line of children in silver chairs lined up in the hallway with literally dozens of children waiting quietly behind them for their turn, I decided I better not.

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I’m sure it would have been an awesome new look for me had I had this dude help me out. Maybe next time…if the lunar calendar says it’s the right day for it, of course.

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Filed Under: China

A beautiful melody

10.23.15

There are a lot of sounds in an orphanage of 300 children. Some rooms of toddlers are full of chaotic noise of toys crashing together, pots of porridge being banged with spoons, crying by little ones who just got bumped or felt ignored, ayis chatting away in Mandarin to each other and to children. All the noise echoed in the hallways off tiled floors and bare walls, making it seem much louder than it should. Other rooms seemed to be missing sound altogether. Children in those rooms lay quietly on the floor. Ayis sat beside them folding towels that serve as cloth diapers. The absence of noise in those places seemed to create a chaos in and of itself. They made me long for music, just a quiet melody to fill the quiet with something beautiful.

My heart let out a sigh when we were led to this place.

Here, a local woman comes every Friday morning from 9am until 10:30am. She pulls up a stack of papers where little socked feet can rest. And, she shows little fingers where to touch little keys and teaches little eyes to read little symbols on a page. She receives no compensation for what she does; she just comes on her own volition. The orphanage has no budget for piano lessons. And, there in the middle of the chaotic noise and chaotic silence, she helps little people create beautiful melodies all their own.

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In that moment of hearing a simple tune played by a few tiny little fingers with a few obvious mistakes, it was if I heard a perfect symphony, and I applauded when it ended in kind.

There’s always something beautiful if we look for it. There’s always hope, always something to admire and always something that leads us to say, “There is good here. He is good here.”

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: China, The Sparrow Fund

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