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5.30.14

If you’re going to be in China, there are a few things you need to know.

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1. Your new best friend is named Susan. And, she’s lazy. Nearly every restaurant is going to have one of these twirly deals on the table. I’ve fallen so hard for my BFF lazy Susan that I’m looking to get a round table for our kitchen and get one of our own.

2. Meals are about community, not efficiency. If you try to load up those little plates set around the big round table at meals, you will feel like a giant…and look like a rude American. Use your chopsticks and take one bite at a time as your BFF Susan brings a dish in front of you. It’s totally okay to share dishes with your friends around the table.

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3. Hot water is a cure all. It’s sorta like Tylenol. It’s a wonder drug. Accept it.

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4. Eating out of a plastic bag isn’t all that different than eating out of a styrofoam box. 

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5. Spitting, loudly clearing your throat, slurping. It’s all good.

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6. Mandarin and horn beeping are the national languages. Drivers beep their horns like some people bite their nails.

China Olympics Traffic Plan

7. Lines are overrated. Why bother with lines? A crowd all moving in the same direction works just fine.

china market ladies

8. Yes means maybe; maybe means no; impossible means just don’t want to. Glad to clear that up for you.

china gift

9. Gift giving is the Chinese love language. They’re a big deal. And, when you give one, you’ll likely receive one. Just don’t open it right then and there.

china conversation

10. Chinese is not a love language. They could be saying You are the most kindhearted person in the world and I love you and it will sorta sound like yelling.

china shopping

11. Do not ever buy something for the sticker price or you’ll end up making a shopkeeper very happy and pay likely 4x more than you should.

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12. There’s a big difference between the way you say Ma and the way they say Ma. Tones make a big difference in a tonal language, ya’ll.

china allergies

13. Expect your allergies to bother you. Don’t have allergies? You suddenly will discover you have them after all.

china sign

14. Stock photos are the bomb just as they are. No need to customize.

chinese ordering

15. That word you are hearing over and over again is not the N-word. Ni ga is the Chinese version of ummmm.

tomb sweeping

16. Why do the Chinese have the corner on the holiday market? I wish we all had as many holidays as they do. I think we’d be a lot happier.

china pajamas

17. If it has a collar and buttons, it’s a perfectly acceptable outfit. 

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18. Outdoor shoes worn indoors? Are you kidding me? It’s barbaric to even think of such a thing.

pictures in china

19. Pa-pa-pa papparazzi complete with peace signs. Your face will be all over QQ before you step foot on American soil again.

arm in arm

20. Friends walk arm in arm. And, I will take your arm if we’re friends. And, I will say something about how I totally wish that was the norm in America. Just expect it…and everything else here. #ohChina

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Be a Blessing {Guest Post and Shameless Plug}

5.30.14

We were all hot and drenched with sweat by the time we reached the steep incline.  Hours of hiking the rugged country of Israel had left us drained.  But there was more to see just ahead, so one by one we tackled the climb searching for footholds and struggling to keep our balance.  Our guide had paused midway up the climb offering his hand to us in assistance.  However, nearly everybody in our group declined his help, perhaps not wanting to appear weak or tired or needy.

Once our group had made the climb and was ready to continue, our guide gave us a bit of an earful.  Why had we all declined his offer of help?  We were surprised by his question and stood silently.  He went on to explain that by declining his help we had denied him the opportunity to bless us.  Our declining actually took something away from him.

Whether we like it or not, we all need help from each other.  God designed us to live in community—in community with Him and with each other.  And in community living, there is help that is needed and help to be given.

The Sparrow Fund specializes in being on the helping side of things, in being a blessing to others.  What began as a fund to give grants to families to help cover the cost of medical reviews of a referral quickly grew to include training and speaking, retreats, orphan care trips, and offering whatever resources they could to adoptive families.  All of these “acts of helping” fall right in line with their mission: Encouraging and supporting families in the adventure of adoption.  The Sparrow Fund has made it their mission to help, to be a blessing others.  But, they can’t do it alone.

They need help.  This is your opportunity to be a blessing to them.

They need funding in order to continue to do the work to which God has called them.  Most of that funding comes from Building the Nest — an event that lasts for only one month.  One month to raise funding for all that they do.  And that month is May.

Tomorrow is the LAST day of May…the LAST day to buy from any of the businesses listed here and have 10% of the profits go right back to supporting the work of The Sparrow Fund.

So, on their behalf, can I ask you to take a look at the businesses involved in this year’s Building the Nest, and then make a list of all the people you will need to buy a gift in the coming months—birthdays, anniversaries, teacher gifts, Christmas, etc.  You need to shop for them anyways, why not do it now and shop with a purpose.  Shop knowing that your purchases are helping to continue the work of The Sparrow Fund.  By being intentional about your shopping right now — today or tomorrow — you will be a blessing to all of the families TSF supports throughout the year.

Each and every purchase will make a difference, and each and every purchase you make will enter you in a drawing to win an iPad bundle!  Just follow this link and leave a comment to the original post telling what you bought and you will be entered!

The Sparrow Fund exists to bless others.  Won’t you take this opportunity to bless them with your purchases?

                                    _____________________________

stephanie smit

Stephanie Smit

18 years in the classroom as a teacher was easy compared to parenting three little ones at home full-time. Through their three daughters, God has revealed Himself most clearly to Stephanie and her husband Matthew. He not only worked a miracle in giving them their biological daughter, He continued to show Himself in mighty ways throughout adoption journeys in China and Bhutan that were anything but normal. Nowadays she enjoys encouraging and connecting with other adoptive families through speaking and her work on the leadership team of “We Are Grafted In”.  You can read more about their family on their personal blog We Are Family.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: guest post, The Sparrow Fund, The Sparrow Fund May drive

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