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Looking for an adoption agency?

12.9.10

Are you considering adoption? Looking for an agency? I’d love to talk to you more about our own. And, I have a piece posted on We Are Grafted In today with a list of questions to ask adoption agencies when you are trying to decide which agency to use for an international adoption. Go check it out, and let me know here or there what you think. Are there any other questions you would add to the list?


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Hangman

12.7.10

Have you ever tried playing hangman with a 4 year old who can’t read?

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O Christmas Tree

12.7.10

I think Lydia thought we were all a bit crazy. We got on a big wagon with a bunch of other families and headed out to a field full of trees that essentially looked all the same, fussed about which one was just right, then cut it down, had it tied up skinny, paid a lot of money for it, put in on our car, put it in our living room, put lights on it and all sorts of decorations. What in the world is all this about?

Ahhh….this is what we do every year, my dear Lydia. Welcome.

Taken from the hayride. Hundreds of trees just waiting to be cut down and decorated.

 Drew pointed to every single tree, saying “How ’bout this one?”
This one? Too tall.
Clearly too small.

Too fat.
Total dud.
Still hunting.
All these pictures of the wrong trees and the only recorded memories of the right tree is on video. Trust me, we picked a good one.
This is where it once stood among its friends. 

 And, now….
It stands in our living room. 

Ashlyn got to put the star on this year since she found the pickle ornament last year. Next year will be Evan’s turn. He found that pickle in nano seconds.
I love a fresh tree and the whole cutting-it-down experience. But, I have asked myself why I didn’t just think of this “artificial” tree. They are rather pretty, don’t you think?

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Sunday Snapshots {Tradition}

12.6.10

Growing up, we had a grandmother and grandfather who had a great idea that sorta grew probably way beyond what they thought it would. They made big felt advent calendars with pockets for each day in December for their grandchildren. But, as you can imagine, the number of their grandchildren grew and grew and grew. My grandfather had 4 daughters of his own who had, oh, just a few kids and my grandmother had 3 kids who gave her 5 grandchildren. They ended up making these calendars and filling their pockets each year for, I think, 20 kids.

That’s 480 felt pockets with 480 little wrapped presents every December. 
Yup, that’s a lot. 
And, we loved it. That is, until we were too old to appreciate stickers or pencils or a hand stamp or a rainbow eraser in which case we then got $1 for each day until Christmas. 
So, needless to say, my mom decided she needed to keep up this tradition. And, we didn’t argue with her. After all, tradition is tradition. 
She now has 9 grandchildren herself. And, though, we know that number will never be 23 (promise…really), that’s still 216 little presents she has to buy and wrap and label by name and number each December. That’s a lot. It’s not 480, but it is a lot. Good thing they spend a good bit of time in China. (You’ll see why)
Pictures of the setting up which is oodles of fun in an of itself. Lots of trying to peek through the tissue paper and guessing what items might be from their shape.


On the 1st day of Christmas, Nanma and Granddaddy gave to me…a little box with notepaper in it.

On the 2nd day of Christmas, Nanma and Grandaddy gave to me…a notepad with a nifty cardboard pen for the three older kids and a little fork and spoon set for Lydia complete with teeny chopsticks.

On the 3rd day of Christmas, Nanma and Grandaddy gave to me…a silly bandz necklace with mini silly bandz.

On the 4th day of Christmas, Nanma and Granddaddy gave to me…training chopsticks which were used that night for dinner!

On the 5th day of Christmas, Nanma and Grandaddy gave to me…parachute Toy Story figures and a Mickey Mouse sticker.

Stay tuned to see what is coming up…

And, only a few mishaps so far with Lydia sneaking in and unwrapping Ashlyn’s #17 and #19. And, she totally knew she was doing something wrong. What a stinker.

Ni Hao Y'all

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Filed Under: why can't they just stay little forever

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