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green pastures {our hutong jar}

8.9.16

Our bucket is filled today. But, it’s being emptied regularly.

Earlier this summer, a big, heavy box arrived at our doorstep. In it, we found this.

hutong jar - 1 (1)

It was sent by our hutong, about a dozen families who have made a commitment to us, to having our backs, to praying for us, to loving us for us not just what we do. They’re our people.

There enclosed detailed instructions:

This glass jar is filled with a year’s worth of love and encouragement from families in your hutong. Each day you have two choices: Take out one slip of encouragement, read it, and slip it on the large ring. OR Take out two Hershey’s kisses – one for each of you – so that as you eat them you are reminded of the hugs we would all like to give you if we were all local.

As you go through the year, reading the slips of paper and adding them to the ring, you will be making a ring of encouragement. At the end of the year, once all the slips of paper are on the ring, you will be able to read through the notes of encouragement again and again.

We haven’t followed their instructions exactly. There have been days we haven’t opened the jar at all; some days, just walking past it where it rests in our living room has been enough. Other days, I confess that we had some kisses and read three or four slips of paper because that’s just how much was needed.

Remember that “green pastures” rarely look or feel as abundant as we wish or expect

When Satan tells you his lies, meet them with the Truth.

We are in awe of how God has blessed your steps of faith!

Still other days, we were just too wrapped up in our own stuff to even go there. We knew we needed what was in that jar, but we couldn’t accept it. Those are the days that the battle within us is most fierce, the days we feel the most poured out, the days we most need our hutong to hold our arms up so that we know we may feel alone but we are actually surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses.

We don’t deserve it. But, man, we are so thankful we have it. We are learning how to receive. And, they are giving us plenty of practice.

 

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Traditions, words about faith

Happy Father’s Day 2016

6.18.16

You remember years of Father’s Day pictures. I coordinated outfits, bribed kids to smile by using lollipops (and may or may not have given a few threats), took 100 pictures to try to get one that “worked.”

Today, I told everyone to sit, and I took a picture. That was it. And, that’s kind of life right now. There’s no perfect picture. Even our imperfect normal has been completely turned upside down. But, at the end of the day, I’m quite content with that, and I know you are too.

I’m so proud of you this Father’s Day. I know this isn’t easy. You are always so intentional in your efforts to be the dad God wants you to be. But, over these last few days, I have seen you poured out even more. And, I couldn’t be any more in love with you than I am right now as I watch you do it and join you in it. Watching you love our children well and coach them in loving this child well serves as a reminder of how glad I am that I am doing all this with you.

He has seen you as faithful and has appointed you to a great task for every season and in this season right now. I’m so thankful that He called me to serve our family with you.

June 19 father's day photo - 1

(cheers abounding that we got M.Y. to sit for a picture without running away!)

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We are currently hosting until mid-July to advocate for this sweet child. If you feel the nudge that he may be your son and you would like to learn more about him, email me and/or the social worker at Madison who is working hard to find him a family too.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating, Traditions

Raudenbush Refreshments

5.14.16

The carnival rides are rolling in. And, the carnies are masterfully assembling them (mind you, I feel much better about the rides if I just don’t watch this part).

Meanwhile, my children are brilliant. I may or may not have spent a good bit of money at BJs to help start up the business.

Don’t worry. We’ll make sure Lydia isn’t recruited to join the Majestic Midways troop. Clearly, she’d be a strategic asset.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Traditions, why can't they just stay little forever

Merriest of Christmases

12.25.15

Christmas morning 2015 - 1

Softball bag, cleats, and sliding pads for Ashlyn

Art supplies for Lydia

the coveted PS4 for both boys

and play food for NJ since when he’s not eating, he’s pretending to eat

EnZhe with gift - 1

Public consensus is that this was the best Christmas ever. NJ nodded his head at the suggestion, but that nod isn’t always legit. But, his dancing? If that doesn’t show Christmas spirit, nothing does.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: N.J., Traditions

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