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Conference Eve #2

9.29.12

Hello. My house is a wreck right now with boxes abounding and dishes overflowing. There’s a pair of Santa pants strewn on the floor and Perler beads under my feet. I look down to my basement, and I see this. I got it all this far at least.

All 4 of my kids are hula hooping in the living room. At the same time. Multiple mini hula hoops on their arms. And, my mother-in-law will be here before 8am tomorrow.

I was pretty anxious last May before our first training we offered as part of our work with The Sparrow Fund. We were new at the whole training thing. I guess having our second training tomorrow still leaves us as sorta new. But, this time…not so anxious. Busy, yes. Anxious, not so much.

The conference–on discipline and connecting with our children–has been full for weeks; we actually had to start a waiting list. Everything is set. CHOP, who we are collaborating with for this thing, has been great. And, we totally trust that the speaker, Cheryl Nitz, is going be awesome.

I’m guessing that a lot of the families coming tomorrow feel like they need to be there. I’m guessing there are more than a few who are already in crisis. Being able to play a part in allowing them to hear new things and learn new tools and go home 6 hours later encouraged and hopeful–that’s a privilege.

Looking forward to some mighty things happening tomorrow while the kids hula hoop for Grammy.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: The Sparrow Fund

Encouraging My Sister {East African Orphan Summit}

8.10.12

Since I connected with Mary over a year ago, she has shared with me many times how being a part of blessing adoptive families through The Nest has been a joy to her.

The woman who birthed 9 children and mothers an additional 7 has said that.

She has worked to unite refugee women from feuding tribes. She has pursued training and support to do this. She has taught women in need skills to provide for their families. And, she has given sacrificially to women and children around her.

But, she has expressed to me how her heart longs to care for the fatherless and how so many don’t share that heart around her.

When I learned that there was an orphan summit in the city where Mary lives, I knew we had to make sure she got there. And, today, she did. Her older sons escorted their mother to the summit and even managed to take a few pictures to send me. The pictures are grainy, but the 1,000 words are in high definition.

Looks a bit different from stateside orphan summits. I have no idea how many people were there today. But, I know the one person I wanted to be there was there and she was there with her own sons and other kindred spirits.

She emailed me when she got home:

I came back so changed and filled with peace and joy during the meeting. I felt in me the testimony and blood of the I AM. God counts on us about the orphans. It is our duty to care for the orphans. My sister Kelly, God wants us to put our faith in motion through caring for the others. We are to be caretakers. He is the bread winner. He supplies all our needs through modelling what God did through Jesus Christ. How I wish you were there.

I can’t be there with her in Nairobi right now. And, I may never be. But, my heart is full knowing that she was there today and left encouraged, full of a heart longing to serve God right where she is.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption, The Sparrow Fund

Gettin’ our ETC on

7.27.12

We’re learnin’ that Texans don’t just say ya’ll, they also make all -ing words -in words.

So, here we are after about 12 hours of gettin’ our Empowered to Connect on at the Train the Trainer course.

And, as Karen Purvis would say, woah Nellie.

Deep stuff today as Michael and Amy Monroe face the task of equipping (sorry) equippin’ us and a handful of other couples to teach Empowered to Connect to other parents.

My neurotransmitters are a bit fried from so much firing today, thank you very much. So, this connector is heading to bed to get ready for another full day tomorrow.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: The Sparrow Fund

An ebay auction on steroids

7.14.12

Oh. my. goodness. people.

Insanity. 
Back and forth, back and forth. We’re ahead by 10, down by 10, etc., etc. There were some serious people rallying on our behalf. That’s serious people seriously rallying (like asking all their Facebook friends, their teenage children, coworkers, etc. to click for us).  
At a little after 11am, I shut down the Macbook and headed out with the kiddos to the pool since it was at the point that I just couldn’t watch any more (picture me, hands over my eyes, peeking every so often). Every 10 minutes or so, I was checking in to see the status. And, the numbers started going crazy…as did my text messages.
Ahhh!
None of us knew how it actually ended. 
Hours later, we got the official word from Dan at Together for Adoption. He counted up the votes, going through and deleting ones from duplicate IP addresses. 
Can you see this screen shot?
1,624 votes. That’s a whole lotta clicks for us. Geez Louise. Can’t believe it.

What’s Atlanta like in September?
And, if anyone out there knows the Cannings family, tell them we’ve got to meet, hopefully in September in Atlanta.

No. more. voting. contests.

Unless the grand prize is a trip to China or one of my children is running for the Presidency.

I’ll stick to dressing up like cows to get free food at Chickfila ($45 meal for free, people, just for some ears on headbands and black construction paper spots). Totally more our speed.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: The Sparrow Fund

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