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Visit and Serve Again

4.1.14

We knew that adoption would change our daughter’s life; we did not realize how much it would change our lives. After adopting our youngest of our four children from China in 2010, we realized that adoption doesn’t end with red inked stamps on (a lot of) paperwork. It’s a journey that is just beginning when you receive your child. Mark and I were led to start The Sparrow Fund in 2011 to support families in that journey, providing (a) grants to families to receive preadoption counsel and support and medical reviews of their referral and (b) training and support as they move forward as a family.

While The Sparrow Fund is committed to encouraging and supporting adoptive families, we also care deeply for the children around the world who are waiting for families and the men and women who have been called to care for them everyday. That is why we are going to China, a country our family has come to love. That is why we’re partnering with America World Adoption Agency and I’m leading a team as we all leave our families and our jobs and all our comforts of home to go to an orphanage in Shaanxi Province and serve.

Is He nudging you to join us? Is He nudging you to go? Caring for orphans is not an act of service reserved for people who are the passionate types who want to change the world. God has called every one of us to care for orphans. If we believe His Word that they are close to His heart, than why would we who identify ourselves with Him and desire to be more like Him not also hold orphans close to our heart and act accordingly? We’re looking for a few very ordinary people who love Him and believe He can and will use us to do extraordinary things as we join Him in His work on the campus of an orphanage behind gates in a bustling city in central China.

Together, we’ll watch little moon-shaped eyes marvel at bubbles for the first time, feed bottles to babies struggling to overcome physical challenges to eat, build friendships started with charades because of language gaps, study little ones waiting so that we can advocate for them once home so that they may become beloved sons and daughters, and eat some pretty amazing food unlike any takeout Chinese you can get in the States. But, most importantly, we’ll experience God together and see Him more clearly as the God of the universe who can redeem all things.

orphanage trip fall 2014

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption, China, Orphans, The Sparrow Fund

#togethercalled #sendme

2.26.14

This time last year, we thought we were in trouble. The response to The Sparrow Fund’s first Together Called conference was overwhelming. We weren’t sure if we could make that significant of an impact again. Now, here we are, a few days out from Together Called 2014, realizing we weren’t in trouble at all. We were just along for the ride, a part of a movement God is directing to care for families and marriages.

Thanks for your amazing hearts and the prayers and energy you poured into making the weekend a beautiful reflection of God’s care and comfort for us. It was truly like falling into the safest, warmest, most comfortable pillow. We returned refreshed, relaxed, and excited to pursue Jesus and the adventure He has for us!

Together Called 2014 was so renewing and deeply impacting.

Best conference ever!

I learned that as parents we are colaborers with the God of the universe. But, no matter how right or perfect we parent, we will NEVER be able to to parent Jesus right out of a job. He is the savior of our children, not us.”

We’ve been reading the feedback from attendees as they send it in—70 couples from 10 different states, parents of 235 children. We prayed for them by name, that God would meet each one including us at our very point of need. And, while we haven’t heard back from every single couple, we believe He did just that. Stephen and Beth Templeton of Hope at Home in Atlanta humbly and wisely shared what God has taught them as they have been a part of the “full contact sport of adoptive parenting,” directing us to the only One who can give us what we need. The worship, the fellowship, the time set apart for husbands and wives to spend time alone, and every little goodie donated from Honest Tea to puzzles that look like the world from Crocodile Creek and tons of amazing things for our raffles—God used every part of the weekend to remind us that they we are cared for and to refuel our tanks to keep on keeping on as we follow the One who has called us together.

I’m getting ready for the next big thing for The Sparrow Fund. Tomorrow, I am boarding a plane to lead a team of 12 other folks to go and serve at an orphanage in China (Yeah, I’m pretty much in full-on EEK! mode right now). It’s sorta crazy all that we’ve had going on during this season. But, I know that we are right where God wants us to be—encouraged that He is very much at work and that He has graciously invited us to be a part of that work despite ourselves.

Bible verse for orphan trip

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: China, Orphans, The Sparrow Fund

#TogetherCalled to rest

2.21.14

together called 2014 fireI’ve realized something lately. I’ve realized it over the last few months as we’ve prepared for this day. I’ve seen it; I’ve experienced it. There’s a lot of weary going around. It is not the kind of weary that means tired. Being tired is something a good night’s sleep and a tall cup of coffee can fix. It’s deeper than that. It’s w e a r y, an exhaustion that fills what can seem like a never ending season of winter.

We added something new to Together Called this year. Some couples come this weekend to be fed and simply be able to reconnect with each other. That’s great. Other couples come to Together Called to be fed, maybe reconnect with each other, but also connect with other couples who “get it.” This year, we wanted to be intentional about helping them do that. The weekend goes by fast, so we have tried to do some work ahead of time so that they can skip some of the higher level conversation and get to the conversation that we all really are looking for anyway. We asked couples to fill out an online survey of sorts, noting areas they could use someone’s connection and areas where they may be able to pour into others.

As the responses came in, the weariness became visibly apparent in the form of an Excel spreadsheet on the screen in front of us. Nearly 1/4 of the couples coming this weekend shared that they fell into the category of coming up for air and asked for someone to connect with them to encourage them.

Weary.

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. -Matthew 11:28

That’s what we want these couples to get this weekend. We’ve got great stuff planned, gifted speakers, good food, warm fires. But, we don’t want Together Called to be their tall cup of coffee. We want to point them to the One who called them in the first place and calls them still when they’re in the hard places and when things seem to be working out okay.

We are coming weary and burdened. We pray that we will leave having experienced rest and understanding that life with Jesus can be rest even in the midst—perhaps more so in the midst—of brokenness and the tender pain of the grafting process, that He desires to us to experience rest in Him because He is our Father and simply loves us because we are His.

Come, friends. Come, and let’s share the weariness and find rest together.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption, The Sparrow Fund

Call to the home team

2.16.14

photo courtesy of KC Photography

There are a lot of countdowns going on here—Mark will be home when we wake, Together Called is only days away, and my trip to China along with 12 other kindred spirits pretty much immediately follows.

For months, we’ve been raising funds, filling out paperwork, considering schedules and preparing logistically. We’ve been coming together on conference calls so we can work better together as a team, creating t-shirts so we look like a team, and going through material to grow us as we are a part of a bigger team. Some of us have already started packing bags, making sure we squeeze everything in and stay under 40 lbs. which can be a wee bit of a challenge for overthinkers like me. Regardless of who much overthinking we’re doing about those bags, we’re nearly on our way. On February 27th, we’ll be able to put everyone’s faces with the voices we’ve come to recognize from those conferences calls and get on a China-bound flight together.

Though our team numbers only 13 as we serve at an orphanage in Shaanxi, we know our team is exponentially bigger than that. Each one of the home teams of those 13 members from across the country makes this Visit and Serve team huge! What a comfort it is to know that while we may be the hands there doing the work through His grace, the rest of the body is supporting us and enabling us to be there. It’s so not just the 13 of us.

It’s not too late to be a part of the team. You may not be on that plane with us as we nervously chatter and try to cat nap as we’re able, but we want you there. And, you can be. We’re rallying our home teams to lift us up throughout our travel day February 27th-28th in very specific ways. Can you commit 30 minutes on that day to sit with us and advocate for us from your living room as you sip on a cup of coffee? Can you maybe do a harder thing and set your alarm to wake up in the middle of the night to do the same as we are still flying across the world?

Feel that nudge to join us? Email me. I’ll reply with some info for you and maybe my own form of nervous email chatter. Heading back to my daughter’s home city, meeting her ayis, holding the babies who are there waiting can produce some nervous chatter in me.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: China, Orphans, The Sparrow Fund

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