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Dear Monday

4.23.12

Dear Monday,
Last time we saw each other, it was simply lovely. You were so warm. And, I so enjoyed our time together as did my children.

But, I am now confused because you are so cold–not at all the warm self we grew to love. In fact, you are quite ugly, and your ugliness has a dramatic effect on how the rest of us feel. In fact, my youngest child told her Daddy, “It’s raining, it’s pouring, the old man is Daddy.”

At the risk of sounding rude, we are kindly asking that you do not visit again until you are ready to be the Monday we know you can be.

Thank you very much,
The Raudenbush family

Ni Hao Yall

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Her friends

2.19.12

“Lydia, whatcha doing?”

“I’m looking at my friends. These are my friends, Mama.”
as she gazes at our calendar from New Day Foster Home, a nonprofit serving Chinese orphans in Beijing, China

Lord, help me know how to parent this little girl to encourage her love for the people of her home country and love for the children around the world who are without families while also helping her to know she is our daughter fully and, while she may not look like us physically, fits perfectly with us.

Sunday Snapshot

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Why I Have More Grey Hair – 5 Stitches

12.12.11

While on the phone with Mark explaining why my day wasn’t shaping up so great, I heard a thump. And, then some crying.

You know how sometimes you look at your kid and think, “hmmm…should I call the doctor? Do we really need to go to the E.R.? I don’t know…” 
This wasn’t one of those times.
It was more like a “meet-me-at-the-ER-in-15-minutes” time. 
Where apparently, getting 5 stitches is a lot of fun.
But, apparently, getting those aforementioned stitches out is not so fun.
And, posing for Mom to take pictures after the fact to show off how pretty she is, is just plain annoying.
I swear I have a dozen more grey hairs than I did last week. 
She’s worth every one though.

Sunday Snapshot

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It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

11.29.11

I’ve been so busy posting all the Purposeful Giveaways (4 open right now and more coming this week!) that I’ve barely just posted about life lately. Sorta goes with how my days have been these last couple weeks though–driven by lists of things to do. I’m crazy with my lists. Something about checking things off makes me feel good.

But, with Thanksgiving means the start of Christmas. And, I’m not going to let lists drive me. I’m just not.

Instead, I’m going to let some things roll that maybe I wouldn’t have before. My kids aren’t going to have great coordinating Christmas outfits. I’m not going to color code wrapping paper (anyone want to join my Type-A club?). I’m hoping to get a good family picture yet for a Christmas card, but I may have to settle.

But, we’re going to have fun. I’m going to have fun. And, I’m actually going to celebrate Christmas enjoying our traditions and the meaning behind them instead of rush through it as I tend to do. Yes, I’ll still do some overthinking because that’s what I do. But, I’m going to overthink things worth overthinking–like Jesus becoming one of us.

So, there. I’ve said it. Someone send me a link to this post in a couple weeks, okay?

Lydia loved this guy and told him that she just wanted candy for Christmas. As if she doesn’t get it every single day. Well, candy I can do. Check.
First tradition of the season–setting up the advent calendars with 24 little wrapped goodies from Nanma and Granddaddy. I’m already preparing myself for little mini sling shots pointed at my face, light up bouncy balls bouncing off my walls, and stickers permanently affixed to the wall at about my knee height. 
Ah, Christmas. It’s the most wonderful time of the year.

Sunday Snapshot

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