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Overthinking Chinese Themed Children’s Books

7.2.12

Since my reviews of children’s books for Chinese New Year and then my reviews of adoption related children’s books were appreciated and still get lots of hits, I set out to share with you reviews of a few (okay…like 35) of our children’s books that have something to do with China.

Yes, I may be over the top in my overthinking. But, hopefully, my overthinking will get you thinking about which books you should add to your bookshelf and your repertoire. I’m sure a few of these could become some of your favorites too.

FICTION TITLES

We love We’re Riding on a Caravan. How can we not? It’s the story of a Chinese family who set out from Xi’an (where we were to adopt Lydia, the capital of her home province) in Shaanxi Province and journey along the silk road across China to sell, buy, and trade. It really belongs in the nonfiction category, but since it reads like a fiction book, I put it here. The illustrations are fantastic–even as you first open the cover. And, the sing songy verse that tell about the family’s journey and teach about the silk road (with mentions of Xi’an, Lanzhou, Dunhuang, Hami, Turpan, and Kashgar) make this a favorite in our house. Also includes the story of silk, the history of the silk road, and a little blurb about each city mentioned. If you have a child from one of those places, this is a must have. And, if you don’t, your child (and you) will still love reading this one and learning about a very important part of China’s history. Love the stuff Barefoot Books puts out.

Prolific children’s book author Jan Brett won me over again with Daisy Comes Home. With intricate illustrations (reminding me of her book The Mitten), a little girl named Mei Mei in the Li River region of Southern China takes good care of her brood of chickens. One, however, gets lost and ends up in a fisherman’s basket to be sold at market. My children find themselves cheering for Mei Mei and Daisy who work together to come back home together. A great little adventure story about love and relentless friendship, and a great opener to talking to your children about how much you love each and every one of them and would follow them to the ends of the earth to bring them home to you.

Also from Barefoot Books, one of our favorite publishers, Lin Yi’s Lantern is a fave. Lin Yi’s mother sends him to market for several specific items in preparation for the Moon Festival. When faced with the decision to buy peanuts as a gift for his uncle or the rabbit lantern he really wants, he makes the hard choice and buys the peanuts only to be given the lantern as a gift later that night. It’s a nice one to go with the message that when you make sacrifices and put others ahead of you, God blesses you in ways you do not expect. The book also includes at the end the legend behind the Moon Festival, directions on how to make a paper Chinese lantern, and a description of Chinese markets. Get on the waiting list on Amazon for the paperback version of this one.

Though this is a true story, it reads like fiction. In Ruby’s Wish, Shirin Yim Bridges tells the story of a bright and independent little girl growing up in a house of 100 children. But, this little girl stands out in a crowd and writes a poem about how hard it is to grow up as a girl where boys are privileged. When questioned by her grandfather, the patriarch, she makes her case. And, years later, instead of a little cash in her red envelope on Chinese New Year, she receives a university invitation in her red envelope and becomes one of the first female students to attend. The combination of great watercolor illustrations and the true story of a Chinese woman whose wish came true makes this one a treasure. As you read with a daughter from China, be prepared for some hard conversations about their preference for boys.

 

Demi is known for her very imaginative children’s books, but as a practicing Buddhist whose faith overflows into her work, most of them are not ones we are going to read regularly since we do not share the same worldview. The Boy Who Painted Dragons has incredible illustrations–truly remarkable pictures of dragons accented in gold. The story starts with the dragons in heaven who create thunder and lightening and send the rain and get their power “from the secret forces in nature,”clearly mythical. The story is of a boy who paints dragons everywhere he is with onlookers thinking he does it because of his love for them, but he really fears them. When a heavenly dragon visits him and sees his fear, he gives him a gift and he goes on a journey to overcome his fears and learn wisdom and courage. Read with your child and properly discussed afterwards about what godly fear is and how we gain wisdom and courage, this one is worthwhile. And, you can always just look at the pictures and not read it at all–they are truly that good.

I’ve been asked more times than I could count about chopsticks–why Chinese people use them, how they started using them, etc., etc. And, my answers have been…well…lamo. The Story of Chopsticks by Ying Chang Compestine answers it for me. And, it’s super cute silly to boot. With paper cut style illustrations with bright colors, the book tells the story of a boy who “discovers” chopsticks because he didn’t want to wait for his food to cool to eat it with his hands and wanted to eat before his brothers because he was afraid there wouldn’t be any left for him. Everyone is shocked when they see him eating with sticks but decide he’s right, it is the best way to eat. And, he becomes “the happiest boy in China” when his family opens the first chopstick factory and he always gets enough to eat.
My China Travel Journal is told from the perspective of a 9-year-old girl who visits some friends in China. With a scrapbook feel and a combination of real photos and illustrations, she shares observations of the unique things she found there culturally, with food, temples, Chinese characters, etc. Would be a good book to use as you prep your child for a trip to China or simply to open up conversation about the differences between daily life in China and wherever it is you live. Visit the website for Whole Wide World Toys who published this book too–some figures and a playmat that coordinate with this book are due out soon which would make this book even more fun and useful as you use play to help your child understand life in a different country. Can’t wait til they come out!

 

 

 

This one is simply fun to read. Roseanne Thong and Grace Lin’s Round is a Mooncake: A Book of Shapes is great for younger kids and teaching shapes as well as young elementary kids who are interested in things like name chops, radish cakes, and dim sum. And, with Grace Lin’s typical great illustrations and the singy songy rhyming verse of the words, this is one of my old favorites.

 

 

 

In Goldfish and Chrysanthemums, Andrea Cheng tells a sweet story of a Chinese American girl who creates a make shift backyard goldfish pond in love for her grandmother who received a letter telling her that her father’s old house in Suzhou city in Jiangsu Province had been torn down. The illustrations aren’t my favorite, but the story is one so sweet that this book is one I love to read. I love reading about how a child can show love and bring healing to someone else. Use it to talk about how we can show love to each other particularly when someone is hurting. Who knows what project may evolve out of reading this one with your children…

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I was drawn to this book when I heard that author Grace Chang had a heart for  adoption. Jin Jin the Dragon tells the story of a golden dragon trying to discover what exactly he is. His journey to find an old turtle and wise crane to help him results in them encouraging him to discover and use his special gift – to breathe out water, a gift that saves a village’s harvest. I’m fairly certain that Grace set out to write a cute rendition of the classic story of how the dragon is a combination of other animals in Chinese folklore, that she did. But, there is a part of it that could be helpful to process with children who may be wondering about their own identity–“I’m a little part of each of you, but not quite any of you!”

 

In response to the success of her first book, Grace published Jin Jin and Rain Wizard in 2009. Inspired by growing up knowing the preciousness of rice and how important it was as a staple for China, Grace wrote this one to share the classic fable of the rain wizard as well as how rice was introduced to China. As Jin Jin finds he cannot breathe water out anymore, he travels back in time and seeks the rain wizard in the clouds to send down rain to the people who need it. In doing that, he discovers the reason he can’t spit water–he had thrown out his leftover rice, wasting the precious treasure. The rain wizard fixes everything though with my favorite line in the book: “But it’s never too late to correct a mistake.” Though I like the original better than this one, if your child falls for Jin Jin, I’m sure he or she will like the second book too.

In an updated version of a classic Chinese folktale, The Seven Chinese Sisters tells the story of 7 sisters all with different skills who come together to save their baby sister from a dragon. Grace Lin’s illustrations, as always, are total winners. I love how the girls work together as a team and realize that each of their gifts are important for a shared purpose–great lesson in how we are part of the Body and what it means to be in community. But, before reading this to your little one, be aware that the dragon does “snatch” up the baby to eat for his dinner. The words and the illustration of the snatching could be really unsettling for some anxious little ones even if you assure them from the start that it ends well.

Another version of basically the same tale, The Seven Chinese Brothers tells the story of seven brothers each with a different special power (amazing hearing, amazing vision, strength, iron bones, legs that could grow, never getting hot, and crying tears to drown a village…not exactly a great super power there). Feeling threatened by the strength of one man, the Emperor decides to execute the third brother. Together, the brothers outwit the Emperor and are all saved as the two armies are swept away along with the Emperor at the hands (…or tears) of the baby brother. An amusing little tale about working together as a team but probably too much for a sensitive listener–threats of decapitation, drowning, being burned alive, and shot full of arrows….hmmm….not so good for bedtime reading.

Written by the young Rachel Yu, The Five Mouse Brothers is very similar to the story in the Seven Chinese Sisters and Seven Chinese Brothers. When food goes missing, one of the five mouse brothers is accused of stealing and put in prison and sentenced to death. But, the brothers, each with some supernatural gift, switch spots with the accused brother and manage to escape the death sentences (think cat, mousetrap, poison, and drowning….eeck.). In the end, the villages are forced to declare the accused mouse innocent. Too violent and not enough redeeming to read to Lydia. But, yay for independent and creative teenagers and for the parents that encourage them! Big supporter of that.

 

NONFICTION TITLES

Our favorite nonfiction title. China by Debbi Michiko Florence is fantastic. Packed full of information that isn’t the typical facts given about China and Chinese culture, language help, facts and discussion questions, and (our favorite) activity ideas including crafts and games to extend the use of the book. I’m particularly fond of the town meeting activity on the page talking about Three Gorges Dam and the differing opinions about its construction. Super educational, well made and laid out, this would be a great reference for homeschool (or not) for a unit on China. I’m thinking I can really get some things out of here for future classroom visits if my daughter wants to take the opportunity to present to kids about her home country. If nothing else, it will become a go-to reference for you when the kids (or you) are bored. Can’t go wrong with this one.

I’ve read a good bit about China. But, I’ve never even heard of Admiral Zheng He. So embarrassing. In Adventures of the Treasure Fleet: China Discovers the World, Ann Bowler does a great job teaching children all of us about the amazing story (think pirates and storms!) of seven voyages of more than 300 gigantic ships that sailed across the South China Sea to the Indian Ocean to the coast of Africa and back again in the early 1400s. At each port, China’s porcelain and silks were traded for jewels, herbs, and medicines as well as all sorts of treasures as gifts to the Chinese emperor from the leaders of faraway lands. Love the illustrations as well as the layout–reading like a fiction story at the top and other text reading like an encyclopedia at the bottom. You’ll get a lot out of this one. (And, for families with a tie to Nanjing, that’s where the ships were built and started out)

Jacqueline Morley, wherever you are, my boys love your books. They never fail to get jaws to drop and spur on some chuckling. In You Wouldn’t Want to Work on the Great Wall of China!: Defenses You’d Rather Not Build, Morley combines facts, humor (e.g., “If the Emperor sends you on an impossible mission, it’s best not to return”), and silly illustrations to really teach and entertain about the emperor, the terra cotta warriors, and all about the Great Wall. Great for older kids–not good for the youngers since there’s a bunch of icky stuff talked about which is appropriate historically but not good for particular audiences (e.g., “Handy Hint: If you’re desperately in debt, sell your children (daughters first) as slaves.” and “Handy Hint: Only give birth to sons. A daughter will be a disappointment to your family.”)

Even better than the above title, in my opinion, in the same style, Morley uses silly illustrations and word bubbles as well as normal text to entertain and educate kids about the Forbidden City in You Wouldn’t Want to Be in the Forbidden City!: A Sheltered Life You’d Rather Avoid. We did not know that the required tip to the gatekeeper as you entered the Forbidden City is known as the gate “squeeze.” And, we appreciate the hint that since only chief ministers get a cushion to kneel on, we should wear knee pads. Also good to know that evil spirits only fly in straight lines so a simple screen placed inside each gate keeps them out. My boys are a big fan of this one.

This title could fit into both the nonfiction as well as the Chinese learning categories. Count Your Way Through China is a good book to enhance a first level Chinese class since counting in Chinese is typically one of the first things they learn. Each 2-page layout is for a number and shows the character and gives the pinyin and then teaches you something about China or Chinese culture that coordinates with the number (e.g., two giant pandas, five musical tones, the festival of nine stars of the plow, ten major dynasties). Some of the info is a bit of stretch to coordinate with the number, but no biggie; it’s still a good one.

Similar to the above title, Colors of China is a good book to enhance early Chinese learning. Each 2-page layout features a color; gives the character, pinyin, and pronunciation for the color; and then teaches something about China or Chinese culture that coordinates with the color (e.g., tan stones of the Great Wall, blue porcelain, orange fish, black bicycle tires…). We like the illustrations, and the text isn’t just the “given” elements of China. Some interesting stuff here for kids (and their parents reading it).

 

Don’t let the title fool you. D is for Dancing Dragon: A China Alphabet is not a baby book to learn the ABCs. Each layout features a letter and something for that letter related to China or Chinese culture that aren’t all the easy, typical topics (e.g., B is for Beijing, E is for Ehru, O is for opera, Q is for Qin terra cotta warriors, S is for silk road…). Text is in a small font and fairly wordy (but really interesting!), targeting more the older elementary set or even early middle school if they are doing research and can get past reading a book that has “alphabet” in the title. Illustrated by a native of Shanxi Province, the pictures are really interesting and inviting.

 

Another brilliantly illustrated book by Demi, Kites gives amazing images of all different kinds of Chinese kites and introduces The Double Ninth Festival celebrated on the 9th day of the 9th month when kite flying is seen as a “symbol of rising higher and higher, being better and better, stronger, smarter, and finer in everything one does.” It starts off with a holy painter who paints pictures for people to buy and offer in the temple to the gods which are all then explained. A woman comes to the painter requesting a very special offering in honor of her son, and the dragon kite was born. It’s a great book to show your children all the various different kites and to talk about traditions–and to be able to talk to your children about what is True and what is untrue and why.

Red Eggs & Dragon Boats: Celebrating Chinese Festivals is more of a reference book than anything else. But, it’s really one worth investing in if you can find a copy. All sorts of celebrations and festivals are described here in addition to Chinese traditions not tied to a specific holiday–like the tradition of giving babies a special locket necklace with the Chinese characters for “100 Family Names” engraved on it to symbolize the protection over the child of his or her family and the tradition of tiger clothes and tiger shoes (with eyes wide open to help the child learn how to walk without tripping).

 

China (DK Eyewitness Books) is a family must-have book. Two page spreads in this large hardcover book cover a little of everything about China with great real images. Includes a basic timeline in the back as well as a disc with clipart images from the book. This is perfect for school projects or just to help satisfy some curiosity and answer questions.
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We had the privilege of going to see the Terra Cotta Warriors when we were in China for Lydia’s adoption since her home city was not far from Xi’an, and we stayed in Xi’an to complete her adoption. When I saw this book, Hidden Army: Clay Soldiers of Ancient China (All Aboard Reading), at one of my kids’ school book fairs, I bought every copy they had on hand. Turns out you can buy it on Amazon, so I didn’t need to go all crazy that day. Combining real photos with illustrations, it tells the story of this amazing site in the middle of China including diagrams of how the site is laid out and the history behind it. So glad we have a copy…okay, a few copies.

No longer in publication, we got A Is For Asia from our library though you can find it used. In the same fashion as the other alphabet books and counting books, a fact is given corresponding to each letter. But, this book is about all of Asia rather than only China, helping children to place China into a larger context. In addition to China, Japan, Korea, India, parts of the former Soviet Union, parts of the Middle East, and Pacific Islands are mentioned. We like the interesting illustrations–my kids are fascinated with the map on the cover–and you can stretch this book out by using some of the facts to come up with some fun activities. Your kids won’t argue with you if you want to play chess, eat Turkish delight, or play a lively rendition of Bite the Carp’s Tail, I’m sure (look under F is for Fish to find out how). Note that there’s some content you might have to debrief about (i.e., Q is for Qur’an, “singing praises to Allah, a child’s voice, pure and clear, rises to heaven.” and Z is for Zen, “Zen culture practiced throughout Asia, emphasizes peace and simplicity and a thoughtful, disciplined way of life.”)

C Is for China teaches a little bit about China with each letter of the alphabet (A is for abacus, N is for noodles, through Z is for zen). All real photographs are used. And, though the information is basic, still an interesting book and a good one to keep in the library for a supplemental book…or for when someone asks you what renminbi is (I know you get asked that regularly).

 

 

Adoptive mom Robyn Chance has written and illustrated her own C is for China. From a gifted artist, the pictures are sweet and give a lot to look at on each page. And, the rhyme for each letter teaching something about China is cute. Note that she included “B is for Buddha” with the text: “He treasured all people, regardless of races. His message to all is to stay in the present. To be still and to listen can be very pleasant.” Also, note that “T is for Taoism” with the text: “It strives to find harmony and stay ‘in the flow.’ Once you find it, it’s said that you will know.” They give some opportunities for discussion in this house, for sure. For X, she gives her daughter’s Chinese name and has an adorable illustration of her daughter from Sichuan who has a scar from a repaired cleft lip–some of you with children with a similar scar may appreciate having this book in your library for that reason alone! The book opens vertically, making it a little hard for small hands to hold and flip pages, combined with a little bit of a higher price for the hardcopy, this may be a good one to download to your ereader instead.

LEARNING CHINESE TITLES

Artist and author Christoph Newmann did a great job with The Pet Dragon: A Story about Adventure, Friendship, and Chinese Characters, integrating Chinese characters that go along with the story in a fun and interesting way into each illustration. We love the large size and quality of the book itself and the modern colors and interest of the pictures even without the characters–which make this book totally worthwhile if your child is learning Chinese or interested in how Chinese characters resemble that which they represent. The story is a simple one–a little girl named Lin has a pet baby dragon that one day disappears. She sets out to find it and goes on an adventure (one that does include a “witch”), in the end finding her dragon all grown up in the sky. Sure hope Christoph publishes some more books with Chinese characters like this one…

I love this author and wish she was still writing books like these I’m sharing with you. She is masterful at writing kids books with beautiful illustrated pages of paper collages with text that integrates characters and how they pictorially represent what they stand for–something that just fascinates me. Through two characters Xiao Ming and his mother, In the Snow includes the Chinese characters for tree, rest, forest, drench, rain, snow, sun, sparkling, bright, and moon (yue, my favorite since it’s part of our daughter’s Chinese name).

 

 

Another one of my favorites, At the Beach by Huy Voun Lee, like the above title, introduces a handful of other characters and shows how they actually resemble their meaning. With the same amazing paper collage illustrations and Xiao Ming and his mother again, this one includes the characters for person, big, small, sky, water, mountain, and sand. It also includes the characters that opened my eyes wide and led to my first custom made Chinese charm that I still wear often around my neck–the characters for woman and child and how when they are put together–woman and child together–the character that results means good.

 

Perfect to read in the fall, in In the Leaves, Huy Voun Lee uses the context of a farm trip to introduce 10 new Chinese characters–grain, fire, autumn, field, sprout, pig, family mouth, harmony, and rice. I love how the characters grain and mouth together make up the character for harmony. Chinese characters truly fascinate me.

 

 

 

 

 

Irene Tsai’s The Frog in the Well is a cheng yu, a Chinese idiom, the Chinese version of a parable. It tells the story of a frog who thinks living in a well is paradise until an invitation to a turtle to join him ends in him learning that there’s a whole ocean out there much grander than his little well. Though the illustrations are simplistic, the story itself is one I love, teaching not to settle for something good when the best is still out there. The story is enough to stand on its own–but what makes this one more fun is that the Chinese characters (both traditional and simplified) and pinyin are provided alongside the English with a dictionary in the back of all the words used. Hoping Irene keeps it up with more titles that reinforce Chinese learning as well as teach some classic tales with a message.

This larger sized board book from Candlewick Press, A Nest in Springtime: A Mandarin Chinese-English bilingual book of numbers, is a great resource. The story is very simple, simply counting the eggs and goslings in the nest. But, every page has Chinese on the left and the English on the right so that children can easily see which characters are what. Even though the age on this is 1-4, it’s a helpful tool for my 8 year old who just finished her second year of Chinese class. I’m sure it will be used for my 3 year old starting Chinese this year too.

 

 

 

Another title from Candlewick Press, Summertime Rainbow: A Mandarin Chinese-English bilingual book of colors uses the same layout (Mandarin on the left and English on the right) to show which characters mean what. This one focuses on the colors of the rainbow with very simple text and the same larger board book design, creating another good resource for preschoolers as well as older kids starting to learn Chinese.

 

 

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Filed Under: China, Reviews

A Cord of Three Strands {Review and Giveaway}

4.7.12

I’m watching my daughter run around with her cousins, laughing so hard she’s throwing her head back.

She’s three. No cares in the world. No questions yet about her story. But, I tell her anyhow. I want her to know her story is much bigger than just us.

In A Cord of Three Strands, Sara Berry and Tricia Robbins do just that—remind us all that our stories are part of a much larger story. The true story of a prodigal child who becomes pregnant and makes the decision to place her child with another family. The true story of a faithful couple whose hearts and arms ache to be filled with a child. And, the true story of a young girl raised by parents who love her deeply, honor the mother who gave her life, and teach her that her story is part of a bigger story—ultimately, one laid out before time began.

Finished in only a few hours, somehow, I found myself able to identify in that short time with every woman in the story—the prodigal child, the parents who struggle to accept her failings, the counselor who mentors the young woman and pours into her, the couple who struggle through infertility together and ultimately adopt a baby girl, and even the girl herself who by grace is able to love and have relationships with both of her mothers.

I’m keeping this one in arm’s reach and looking forward to reading it and talking through it with my oldest daughter soon—the one who was not adopted. Written using quite easy language with not too many words on a page, it won’t be long and I know she’ll be able to handle it and the issues it introduces–peer pressure, discovering our true identity, dealing with our failure, forgiveness, living out grace to people God puts in our path, and the feelings of a birthmother, adoptive mother, and adoptee.

Take a sneak peek here

Want your own copy?

Before you buy it, you may want to try to win one for free here, ‘cause I’m giving one away (that’s always sorta fun). Or, better yet, buy a copy and still try to win so you and your daughter or friend have your own copies to read together.

Just leave a comment sharing why you want to read the book, how you’d use it, what you’d hope to get out of it, or something along those lines. You can enter once here and once on We Are Grafted In if you’d like to double your chances.

I’ll choose a winner Sunday, April 15th when I also choose the winners for my other big ole giveaway. It’ll be a giveaway fest that day.

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Overthinking Children’s Adoption Themed Books

2.22.12

I can part with onesies that are too small and sneakers that have ran one too many miles. But, children’s books? They aren’t going anywhere. I may be reading aloud to the kids until they go to prom. Like. It. Or. Not.

Since my list and reviews of my favorites for Chinese New Year keeps getting visitors, I decided I’d follow it up with some adoption themed books that live on our shelves. Maybe you’ll find some you need on your shelf too.

Oh, be still my heart. I love this one. Not only did Valerie write and publish an amazing book here, but she has a terrific website to go with it with all sorts of add-ons for the book including a Coloring and Activity book and translation downloads in 7 different languages. General enough to read to children adopted domestically or internationally, and specific enough to lead them to believe it was written just for them. As I read this aloud, Lydia follows the glossy red ribbon with her finger as it travels around the globe. It’s a story of a family’s journey and unconditional love, and a must have for every adoptive family. Buy it. Seriously. And, Valerie is a big supporter of some great adoptive charities too (just in case you need another incentive to order this one).

Grab your tissues and sit down to read Motherbridge of Love. Written to benefit well known author and women and children’s advocate Xinran’s charity The Mothers’ Bridge of Love, the text of this book is a poem that was written and given anonymously for this purpose. With amazing illustrations, the poem tells the story of a little girl and the two mothers who have been a part of that story. From the first page, I was hooked–“Once there were two women who never knew each other. One you do not know. The other you call Mother.” Specific to China (with the poem translated into Chinese in the front), it would be appropriate to read with any girls who were adopted and wonder about the birth mothers they likely will never know. This book would be a really nice Mother’s Day gift for a waiting mommy, a nice Gotcha Day tradition to read with your daughter, a good way to open a door to talk about birth mothers or if your daughter is Chinese or American or both, or simply a good read if you just want a little reminder of who you are and your calling as a mother…or you simply need a little cry.

Reviewed at length already here, this book reads like a fable that will invite all sorts of interesting conversations for your family. When Karen Henry Clark faced the fact that her daughter’s whole first year of life in China would forever be a mystery, she created a story of her own, a fairytale, to inspire her daughter’s imagination. That story about a perfect baby girl’s journey down the Pearl River to her forever family struck such a chord with her little girl that she shared her story for everyone in an adoption folktale Sweet Moon Baby: An Adoption Tale. Using beloved items in her daughter’s life, she tells the tale of a Chinese man and woman who release their baby girl because they cannot care for her as they would want. She floats in a basket over the river guided by a turtle, a peacock, a monkey, a panda, and even some fish until she is welcomed into the arms of her new parents on the other side of the river. This one is beautiful, and a good one to use to open conversation up with your child if the timing is right.

I love books that open up doors to rich conversation–this one does not disappoint. Elfa and the Box of Memories, published by BAAF (a London based adoption/foster care charity) and written by their marketing officer, is seriously a must-have book for foster families and an excellent book for any families with children who struggle with navigating memories–both good and bad. Elfa the elephant carries a box of memories on her back that starts to interfere with life really. Marvin the monkey offers to sit with her to go through the box, full of pictures and mementos of his childhood. But, there are memories not there, ones she’s lost and she doesn’t know how. She goes back to some caregivers (zebras from a nursery, a rhino doctor, and hippos–who fill the role of foster parents though the verbiage is never used, and a giraffe teacher) who give her more little tidbits to help her remember. When the gaps are full enough, she thanks Marvin for his help and tells him, “I would never have been able to remember all those special times on my own. It’s not easy when you haven’t got anyone to share your memories with.” Marvin then helps her take the box off her back and put it in a safe hiding spot so that she can “play with the other animals and run through the trees without worrying about the heavy box on her back.” Excellent opportunity to talk to your children about releasing burdens and the freedom we can experience in that release. And, to make it even more practical, the book comes with a little book in the back called “My Book of Memories” where your child can write his or her own information in there. I’m imagining a great bonding day for parent and child–a special lunch out, completing the book together as best you can, and then hiding it somewhere safe…together.

Brilliant. Love Star of the Week: A Story of Love, Adoption, and Brownies with Sprinkles by a husband-wife team dealing with how a kindergarten girl adopted from China handles being “star of the week” in school, an exciting yet challenging experience that entails a poster all about her. The author deals with birthparent questions and feelings beautifully, setting a great example for the rest us parents who may feel unprepared. Told by Cassidy-Li’s perspective, she explains how they’ve talked about “all the reasons people can’t take care of their babies. They might be very poor, or maybe too young.” No promises are made. No over dramatizations or emotional imagery. Just acknowledgment that a child can love her parents but still feel sad about birthparents. And, that is totally okay. Only thing missing? Maybe a few discussion questions or conversation starters for parents at the end…and a boy version…and maybe some versions for kids from other countries or domestically adopted or in foster care. Darlene and Roger (whom I’ve had the pleasure to meet, by the way), more please.

Kids Like Me in China gives an incredible inside view of an orphanage in Changsha, Hunan Province through lots of photos and the sweet words of an 8 year old girl named Ying Ying Fry. Ying Ying tells about her experience of being adopted and her American parents and then shares about the two weeks she spent visiting the orphanage where she spent her infancy and the ayis who cared for her until her parents took her home. An absolutely fascinating book that is simply compelling. There are a lot of pages and words, too much to read to my toddler now, but she is enjoying flipping pages and touching the faces of “her friends” in China. And, I’m pretty much a sucker for the last page: “China isn’t my home anymore, but it’s where I was born. Even though that was a long time ago, it’s a really important part of my life. If I hadn’t been born in China, I wouldn’t be me.” Well said, Ying Ying. Interesting to point out, the photographs are all their own since the Chinese authorities would not let their professional photographer in to take pictures. And, Ying Ying, who you see throughout in her cute glasses, used proceeds from the sales of the book to pay for vision exams for all the children from her orphanage and glasses for all the kids who needed them. Totally worth buying for your shelf.

Red in the Flower Bed: An Illustrated Children’s Story about Interracial Adoption is a hidden gem. Gotta get this one. A poppy seed falls from the flower upon dry ground where it cannot grow and so it travels from east to west by the wind until she lands in the perfect garden. “What a tiny seed. It’s just what we need,” chimed the garden flowers as they wondered what that tiny seed would become. With some rain and lots of sun, you watch the seed grow and become a beautiful red poppy, the red flower that the garden was missing to make it a beautiful rainbow. A beautiful, subtly communicated story of adoption and one that will allow you as the parent the freedom to talk about how he or she “landed in the perfect spot,” what a joy it has been to watch him or her grow, and the blessing he or she is to your family in a totally unique way.

I found Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born at a yard sale, which turned out to be a good find. The story of an infant domestic adoption, each page starts with “Tell me again…” to string together the story of how a baby joined her family from the phone call in the middle of the night to the fun adjustments of having a new baby at home. The family tree page in the middle showing a birth dad and birth mom along with the words “Tell me again how you couldn’t grow a baby in your tummy, so another woman who was too young to take care of me was growing me and she would be my birth mother; and you would adopt me and be my parents” may be inappropriate for some. But, you can skip that page if you want. My kids all love this book and the fun illustrations. My favorite part? The page showing the parents arriving at a chaotic hospital and the words, “…when you got there you both got very quiet and felt very small.” Sums it up well.

I’m cheating. Nancy Tillman’s On the Night You Were Born is not an adoption themed book. But, it is for us since it was one of the first gifts given to us for Lydia way back when, actually 2 years before she was even born. With beautiful illustrations, the words emphasize what a beautiful moment it was when the child was born (not mentioning an actual birth or birth family at all). Instead, simply lovely prose explaining how “you are the one and only ever you” and how “Heaven blew every trumpet and played every horn on the wonderful, marvelous night you were born.”
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Published in 2000, I Love You Like Crazy Cakes has become an Chinese adoption book classic. It’s the story of a single mother and a Chinese baby girl as they become a family. Not really applicable for a lot of families (married parents with other kiddos or adoptions from the special needs program, for example) and not great for reinforcing attachment practices (talks about passing the baby around at the airport and “more and more” people coming to visit at first) but sweet all the same. Worth it simply for a few poignant quotes — “How did this happen? How did someone make this perfect match a world away?” and on their first night together, “I held you tightly, kissed you softly, and cried. The tears were for your Chinese mother, who could not keep you. I wanted her to know that we would always remember her. And I hoped she knew you were safe and happy in the world.”

Rose Lewis strikes again with Orange Peel’s Pocket. Confronted with a classroom wanting her to tell them about China and realizing she didn’t know much of what to say, a girl nicknamed Orange Peel (adopted from China) decides she’ll learn some things as she runs errands with her mom that day. As they visit their regular haunts (tailor, antique store, florist, noodle shop, ice cream shop, etc.), the shop owners slip little trinkets into her pocket that she can use to teach her classmates about China. She then nervously but excitedly takes the treasures into school and stands up front to teach her friends about all the things she knew all along about the place she was born. I love this book–the illustrations are adorable and the story is even better. It’s a great one to read if/when your child is struggling with how to explain her birth place to others. And, it you could use it as a great starting point to gather your own little bag of treasures that help her to share about China with her family or friends. Love it. Love it.

Looking for a book for a waiting mom…or a mom no longer waiting? God Found Us You is a good one. I can identify with that Mama Fox who prayed and prayed, wondered and dreamt, and waited through the seasons for God to find her her child. As Mama Fox tells the story, Little Fox asks her, “Did you ever want to give up?” to which she replies, “Sometimes…But I trusted that God knew you, and knew me, and knew when we’d fit perfectly together.” (sigh) Little Fox does ask about his birthmother, and Mama Fox’s first response is just right–“She must have had very big reasons to give you up. She must have thought it was best for you.” But, that’s followed with Mama Fox’s belief that she “prayed like crazy” that Little Fox would be safe–“I think she prayed for me as much as I prayed for her.” Not a promise I can make my daughter but definitely a picture we can imagine and a thought to open up honest talk about birth families. I really like this one–beautiful illustrations and beautiful words that remind me of our own story and my journey as a mother. And, I love that cute foxes can apply to domestic or international adoptive families AND that Little Fox is a boy (finally, an adoption book that features a boy! Not that I need one personally…).

Foxes, kangaroos, birds, and now….lizards. Oliver: A Story About Adoption is unique to the other books we have in that it shares about the feelings and thoughts Oliver (a young adoptee) has when he’s punished, wondering what it would be like if he lives with his birthparents instead of his adoptive parents. He imagines all the things his birthparents might be doing, what they might be like. In the end, he’s comforted knowing that his non adopted parents also wondered when they were kids what it would be like to live with another family and decides to stay put right where he is. Not one I’m going to start reading to our almost 3 year old now, but one I want to have on hand for when I feel like she’s ready for this type of conversation…not sure what readiness looks like yet but trusting I’ll know it when it’s time. Illustrations are simple sketches that you could even allow your child to color in to customize it if you’d like, allowing you to make the lizards different colors if desired.

The Name Jar is a Korean book and it isn’t about adoption. So, why is it on my list? It’s the story of Unhei, new to the country, new to her town, new to school. When her first trip on the school bus ends with kids making fun of her name, she decides in class she’s going to pick a new name but doesn’t know what to pick. So, her classmates start a name jar for her with all their suggestions for good names, stumped by this new girl who doesn’t have a name already. When a classmate overhears a Korean store owner use Unhei’s real name, he becomes the hero by kidnapping the name jar and encouraging Unhei to introduce herself as herself. Though this isn’t about adoption, I think it’s such a great book to read with older adoptees newly home who may be struggling with their English skills or, if they kept all or part of their original name, how to fit in with all the American kids. Yangsook Choi is a favorite of mine.

My older kids LOVE books they can fill in about themselves…okay, maybe some adults do too. It’s fun to have a book about you. For families bringing home older kids, this would be helpful. It isn’t cheap though since you have to order it from BAAF, the publisher in London. This large, spiral bound book is divided into 3 sections: (1) to introduce yourselves and welcome the child before he or she actually joins your family, (2) when the child is “moving in” and getting to know all of you, and (3) living together for the long haul. You may need to adapt it some if you are doing it together once the child is home, but the beauty of the spiral binding is that you can remove pages easily that you don’t want in there. You can view sample pages from the book here courtesy of BAAF. I formally requested that they reprint this book with content in different languages and a little different layout so that it could work with children adopted internationally. The powers there weren’t interested since the target population is getting smaller. Foo. I’m thinking I may have a project in front of me. Stay tuned.

Ellen Levine’s I Hate English! isn’t directly about adoption, but is an awesome resource (seriously) for families adopting a child from China who is old enough to be fully verbal in Chinese and struggle with the transition to English in his or her new family. The book is about a girl from China who moves to New York and finds herself angry that no one knows Chinese. It deals with the anxiety of losing something special as well as the frustration of learning something new. Great book at a great price.

 

Reviewed more extensively here, I Don’t Have Your Eyes is a great book for children who look physically different than their families–bio or adoptive (don’t be fooled by the cover, by the way. Lots of diversity represented, not just Asian). The illustrations aren’t my favorite, but the text is simple and easy to read. And, the message is a good one for my toddler as well as her older siblings (bio kids)–though there are many ways we look different, there are just as many ways we are the same. This book helps families celebrate their differences while also emphasizing that our hearts are what matter most.

 

A book about international adoption of an older girl. Sisters is a cute story about Melissa, the bio older girl, and Kika who has just joined the family through adoption (country isn’t named, but parents do travel for a couple weeks to bring her home and she has dark, wavy hair and fair skin). In simple language and cute pictures, Sisters touches on Kika’s fears and adjustments as well as Melissa’s. In the end, they argue and make up…just as sisters do.

 

 

 

The Day We Met You, in very simple, easy language tells the story of a family hearing they have a child for the first time and then meeting that child. Gender and type of adoption neutral, you can easily read this one aloud and personalize it and expand it as you see fit for your little one. A good attachment prop, in my opinion.

 

 

 

 

 

Since when does 1994 qualify to be called “the olden days”? Fred Rogers’ Let’s Talk About It: Adoption has great content, very matter of fact about what a family is, what adoption is, and feelings a child may have about it. But, the pictures? Really? Real photos of children and families that are as early 90s as you can get. Call me shallow (no, please don’t), but I can barely stand the mom jeans and big hair. This one is staying on my shelf for now since the content is so good–but I am officially requesting that the Putnam & Grosset Group republish this one with either illustrations or new photos (that someone else can cringe at in another 15-20 years).

 

A Mother for Choco celebrates transracial adoptive families through a bird, a bear, a hippo, an alligator, and a pig. Choco sets out to find a mother and learns that his mother doesn’t have to look like him, she just has to care for him. Good for all adoptive families–especially transracial ones and ones with adopted boys.

 

 

 

 

A Blessing from Above…literally…when a baby bird falls out of the nest and into the empty pouch of a kangaroo. Cute little story with adorable illustrations. I wonder how a child may respond to how the mama blue bird keeps a nestful of babies but is okay with her “littlest one” being adopted by a kangaroo since she knows “her nest was not big enough for all her chicks.” But, maybe I’m just overthinking things (I have a tendency to do that, you know).

 

 

 

A king and queen who have it all feel like something is missing and set out to find it in The Red Thread: An Adoption Fairy Tale through following a red thread clear across the world at the advice of an old peddler to a baby in a basket. They question the villagers there who she belongs to, and an old woman tells them she belongs to them. They take her home where she becomes the princess, and they “never felt the pain in their hearts again.” When they try to seek out the old peddler to reward him for his help, they find that he’s traveled to another kingdom to help another king and queen with pain in their hearts. It’s not my favorite adoption book since the missing piece of birth parents leaves a lot missing to me. But, fairy tales are what you make of them. My advice? This isn’t a “let’s-read-a-quick-book-before-bed” type of book. You are going to need to take some time afterwards to talk about who could have put the baby there with the red thread tied to her foot and why.
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I’m a little partial to the book Lily since the author Keri Campbell happens to be a woman I “met” back in July 2007 when we both submitted our paperwork to adopt from China at the same time. But, Keri is a way more experienced adoptive mama than I am with several girlies adopted both internationally and domestically. Her Lily book though is specific to China, and specific really to the nonspecial needs program (the little girl adopted is less than a year old, the story talks about their travel group and her China sisters seemingly all from the same orphanage). No mention of birth parents or anything like that–just a straight forward account told from the perspective of a little girl about her meeting her family and coming home. It ends with the whole “lucky” thing we’ve all heard–“People often say what a lucky girl I am. My family says that they are the lucky ones…maybe we are all lucky!”
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If you want simple language for little ones and simple drawings to catch little ones’ attention, We Belong Together: A Book About Adoption and Families by Todd Parr is one you’ll want for your shelf. Every page set starts with “We belong together because…” and starts with “you needed a home and I had one to share” and then goes through a handful more including “you needed someone to kiss your boo-boos and we had kisses to give.” Designed to work for all sorts of adoptive families with pronouns that change and people of different colors (think blue and purple!). I like this one and find myself wanting to take it and make my own book for each of my kids from it bringing in what I believe are the reasons we belong together.

Finding a Family for Tommy was written for young kiddos (18 mo-5 years old) in very simple language with lift-up flaps (and a spiral bounding…which I like). Tommy needs a family and each page shows places with families that wouldn’t work–the farm, the pond, the zoo, etc. In the end, just when you think Tommy will never find a family, a picture with lots of people with friendly faces is revealed with the text, “Hooray! Here are some families. Not too smelly or soggy or scary. Which one is right for Tommy?” I’m well aware of the lack of good books for foster kids; this is a good one. And, what I like about it too, is that you can read it with children adopted domestically or internationally from birth or as toddlers, etc. just to open up the discussion about what makes a family and how a child new to a family may feel. Another good resource from BAAF.

Adoptive mom and child/adolescent therapist by trade, Kristan Struck set out to give adoptive families a way to introduce conversations in age appropriate ways about birthparents and the loss that surrounds adoption. She wrote A Family for Eve about a little chick found in a farmyard who quickly gets paired up with Cleo the cat, a mama cat who has three kittens as well as a bunny and duck she mothers. Nothing too unique in that story line, but as the story continues, the chick (Eve) observes a goat who is expecting a new baby which brings up questions and feelings for Eve which Cleo walks her through very thoughtfully. The story finishes with “Eve’s heart flittered and fluttered as she came to believe what she already thought was true. Whether born in a heart or born in a tummy, a mommy is a mommy who always loves you!” The book is hardback but still has a bit of a “homemade” look to it, but still one that I’m glad to have on our shelf that is definitely appropriate for domestic (closed) or any international adoptions. Lydia thinks the animals are “so cute,” and I’m thinking this will be a very helpful one to read when we know someone close to us who is pregnant. And, just to get more bang for your buck, the author donates 10% of the proceeds from the book to a different cause each month. Love that.

What titles are on your shelf that aren’t yet on mine? Do share and give me some more material to overthink. I was just thinking I needed to overthink some more adoption books.

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Overthinking Chinese New Year Children’s books

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Year of the dragon. If you didn’t notice, I’m full in.

I’ve been scouring websites and bookshelves for Chinese New Year themed kids’ books to read to our clan this week. We found some good ones and some not so good ones.

Overthinker that I am, I hope my musings help you decide which ones are worth your investment.

Chelsea’s Chinese New Year explains Chinese New Year for the younger set. I love the size of it–a nice big paperback book (about a 9 1/2″ square) with big ole illustrations very similar in style to the Disney Channel’s Charlie and Lola. The main character, little Chelsea, explains how her Chinese American family celebrate Chinese New Year, touching on all the traditions either in the text or illustrations. Each page has a little section that gives additional information about the holiday that you can choose to read or skip over to just keep it a story. This one would be great to use in a classroom to read aloud to a group of preschoolers or kindergarteners.

Marcia Vaughan’s The Dancing Dragon has simplistic text about how Chinese New Year is celebrated in Chinatown. But, what makes this book worthwhile is that the pages all unfold accordion style to reveal the illustration of a long dragon from the parade. Good one to read to a classroom of kids since you could have a child hold each page as it unfolds. Just wish the book was a little larger in size–at 9″x7.5″, a couple more inches would make it much better for classroom use.

Another preschool friendly one, Joan Holub’s Dragon Dance: A Chinese New Year Lift-the-Flap Book is a popular one. Each page has 4 lines of simple text in a classic ABCB rhyming pattern (hope that’s right…trying to remember 7th grade English class) with good sized flaps to open to reveal some part of the New Year celebration, supposedly one in New York City’s Chinatown (though it wouldn’t have to be). Colorful and bold illustrations include little “extras” you can point out–the significance of the flowers, the oranges, and the super long noodles. Only complaint? The last flap ends with “Gung Hat Fat Choy!” in big ole print which is Cantonese rather than the Mandarin “Xin Nian Kuai Le!” New Year’s greeting – something that really bothered my Mandaring-learning 7 year old.

How does a free Chinese New Year book sound? Bella and the Year of the Dragon by Barbara Nick is a free iTunes download. Despite mediocre illustrations, this is the best book I could find explaining the fable behind all the animals of the Chinese zodiac and their race to the emperor to determine what order they would come in for the years of the Chinese lunar calendar. And, believe me, I read a bunch that were not even worthy of a review. This one, however, does a good job explaining the fable simply but in an interesting way…and it’s free. Can’t beat that.

Celebrate Chinese New Year: With Fireworks, Dragons, and Lanterns by Carolyn Otto is a National Geographic book for kids published in 2009 (so, it doesn’t look at all dated). It has super compelling photographs in it that have a big wow-factor for kids and adults (including ones of Shanghai, a dinner table in Shanxi, Xi’an all lit up, children in Inner Mongolia, a parade in London, dancers in Vancouver, and fireworks in Guiyang). Includes great information without putting too many words on a page too–something that could turn the bedtime book reading into a bad scene. And, it has a great resource section in the back with facts, how to make a Chinese lantern and fortune cookies (which they do point out are an invention of either the Japanese or Chinese Americans), and where to go for more information including other books and websites. Good for real little ones if you want to just talk about the pictures and interesting enough to keep the attention of older kids (and adults). 
This one was just published in October 2011 and has won the Feng ZiKai Chinese Children’s Picture Book Award. A New Year’s Reunion was written by Yu Li-Qiong who was born in Anqing, China and who currently lives in Nanjing. It tells the fictional story of a family united only once a year when the father, one of China’s 100 million migrant workers, returns home for a few days to see his wife and daughter and celebrate the lunar new year. It’s illustrated beautifully and is a cute story of a family’s traditions, ending poignantly with the father saying goodbye to go back to work. I’m declaring this one a must-have book–not only does it describe well how a Chinese family celebrates the new year, it also shares how so many people in China live as migrant workers. Count on this book opening the door for great conversations with your kids about life in China and, possibly, questions about birth families. Get ready.

Though I’m not a big fan of the illustrations in Ying Chang Compestine’s The Runaway Rice Cake, I appreciate the message. The Chang family makes one rice cake with the last bit of their rice flour for their whole family of 5 to eat for Chinese New Year. In gingerbread man fashion, the rice cake comes alive and runs away, showing you elements of the New Year celebration as they chase it. When the rice cake runs into a poor and hungry elderly woman, “the rice cake stopped trying to escape” and surrenders itself to be eaten. The children are sad that their last food is gone, but they return home to an abundance, much more than they could have imagined, to their happiest New Year’s Eve ever. Some kids might find the anthropomorphized rice cake’s surrender to be eaten a bit sad (or disturbing?), but the overall message of giving generously and receiving blessings, sometimes tangible ones right away and sometimes ones we may not recognize so easily, makes this book a worthwhile family read.

Ying Chang Compestine wrote another runaway book – The Runaway Wok: A Chinese New Year Tale. These illustrations are way more my style–bright, funky, fun, filling the pages with color. The story is a silly fable that is sort of a mix of Jack and the Beanstalk, Ebenezer Scrooge, and the Gingerbread Man, Chinese style. My kids thought it was hilarious and were quickly repeating the catchy “skippity-hoppity-ho” line from the crazy wok. And, in addition to showing them pieces of how Chinese New Year is celebrated traditionally, it gave us the chance to talk about bigger things like sharing, justice, revenge, and mercy. This one will be read in and out of season, I’m sure.

Another Chinese New Year book from Ying Chang Compestine, but one very different from the runaway books. And, one I really love. Yes, Crouching Tiger is a Chinese New Year’s themed book with elements I didn’t find in other books (like that in Chinatown New Year parades, there is a “cabbage boy” who holds a head of cabbage on a bamboo pole in front of the dragon in the parade) as well as the more traditional elements (the cleaning, a new haircut, traditional foods, etc.), while also engaging readers with Chinese martial arts (each page shows a different Tai Chi position) and beautiful illustrations. But, more than that, it’s a book about a young boy learning that he is “Chinese as well as American,” a very important lesson taught to him by a loving and faithful grandfather. Don’t just get it from the library. This one you’ll want to buy, especially if you are a parent of a Chinese boy.


Start your own New Year tradition with this series by Oliver Chin. So far, in his Tales from the Chinese Zodiac, he’s written a story book for the Dog, Ox, Pig, Rabbit, Rat, Tiger,…and dragon. All are charming little stories that capture the symbolic spirit of the zodiac animal featured. The Year of the Dragon: Tales from the Chinese Zodiac doesn’t disappoint. The only book I’ve found that involves the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival celebrated in June, you read about Dominic the dragon who along with his other zodiac animal friends and a little boy named Bo try to enter the big race. Failing miserably, Dom becomes the boat himself to lead them to a big win. The dragon’s symbolic nature of encompassing the nature of the other animals and being wise and powerful shines through the story. And, the silly little pictures will amuse the kids and you. AND, just released, you can get the iPad app for it for only $3.99 (which you know I did). Complete with Chinese style music, you can read it alone or have it read to you, and tapping on characters on each page make them do fun stuff (e.g., dragons puff smoke and people move and make sounds). There are even hidden Chinese coins you can find behind parts of the illustration as you tilt your iPad that explode into lots of coins when you find them. Oodles of fun for iPad junkies like us. Buy it so that they are motivated to make apps for the rest in the series. Download the Year of the Dragon version of Angry Birds while you’re at it for another $.99 just so your iPad can celebrate too.

Janet Wong’s year 2000 This Next New Year is unique in that it shows different ethnic groups in America celebrating Chinese New Year. The little boy who is the main character is half Chinese and half Korean. The book also mentions a little boy who is French and German who celebrates the holiday with Thai food to go and a little girl who is Hopi and Mexican who calls the New Year her favorite holiday because she likes getting red envelopes from her neighbor from Singapore. With vibrant colors, the boy explains with a bit of wit and humor and spunk their traditions around the New Year including washing his hair and “drying it extra dry.” A cute book for the younger set – maybe 4-7 year olds – and particularly good for pointing out that lots of different people enjoy recognizing Chinese New Year with their own little traditions.

How did I not hear of this book before? Karen Chinn’s book Sam and the Lucky Money is one that engages your children in Chinese New Year traditions while teaching a lesson of contentment and generosity. Sam is excited to get his red envelopes from his grandparents for Chinese New Year filled with $4. But, when he goes to Chinatown to buy himself something special, he’s frustrated that everything he wants is more than what he was given. When he sees an elderly homeless man without shoes on his feet, he gives all his money to him. I’m more of a bright, funky illustration type of person, so the soft watercolors didn’t wow me like they might for some. But, the message is one that does wow me. And, it gives you the opportunity to talk to your child about what it means “to be lucky” and if there even is such a thing.

Red Eggs & Dragon Boats: Celebrating Chinese Festivals by Carol Stepanchuk is a great kids’ reference book for Chinese New Year, the grave sweeping holiday (Clear Brightness–which we were in China for), red egg and ginger celebrations, the Dragon Boat Festival, and the Moon Festival. Loads of information about those holidays, fables, and other traditions are in here and explained in a way that a grade schooler can understand. The color illustrations are really pretty–made me wish they were fabrics for a cute little dress for my little one. Published in 1994, I think it’s now out of print. But, you can find used copies around. And, honestly, I hope they update and reprint this one. It really is well put together.

Want a book for an older girl? You might want to check out The Chinese New Year Mystery, a classic Nancy Drew mystery. I skimmed it myself before giving it to my 7 year old daughter, and I admit that I remember these being a bit more compelling…when I was 7 years old myself. In classic Nancy Drew style, their school is getting ready for the Chinese New Year parade when the dragon is stolen. Nancy Drew (you can’t just call her Nancy) has to figure out who stole the dragon so that the parade can go on. Traditions of the Chinese New Year are described as one of Nancy’s friends, Mari Cheng, is Chinese American. There’s a little bit of interesting drama too as a few girls mouth off about Chinese New Year being “stupid.” I’m interested to hear what Ashlyn thinks of it.

Another one I really like is Cheng Hou-tien’s The Chinese New Year. We got it from the library since it’s an old book and hard to find. The book explains Chinese New Year traditions with the only illustrations being black colored paper cuttings on a white background which is so beautiful actually. May not wow your little ones as much since it isn’t bright and eye catching, but the art of scissor cutting in China just fascinates me. And, aren’t black and white designs supposed to be good for babies to look at? I’m sure it will make your child ions smarter.

There are a few others yet I’d like to check out – The Star Maker that looks good for the 2nd-5th grade boy and teaches about the Chinese American celebration, Celebrating Chinese New Year: An Activity Book since I have one who is all about activity books, A to Z Mysteries Super Edition #5: The New Year Dragon Dilemma which looks like a boy might enjoy it too–boys just won’t read Nancy Drew, and Lucky New Year! Board book even though we will be graduating from board books soon, the pop up feature in this one looks super cool.

And, I’ll also check out some recommended by bloggy friends – Great Race, The Paper Dragon, and Long-Long’s New Year: A Story About the Chinese Spring Festival.

Any others you think I should add to our Chinese New Year library?

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