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On this day

6.14.17

On this day 1 year ago, we were cleaning and sorting and folding size 8 boys clothes. We were texting two of our closest friends with lots of encouragement and lots of emojis because they were doing the same. We were stocking our frig with hotdogs and laughing at the fact that we were told there was no need for bitter melon. We were keeping our then 10-year-old son up late to head out to the airport where we stood with other excited families. On this day 1 year ago, we brought home the little man who would call us Āyí and ShūShu for a while.

You know the story after that. You know how our friends messaged me and asked more questions because her sister had seen my Facebook posts and my blog posts and her heart was nudged. You know how they ended up buying plane tickets with their son Josiah and came for a weekend visit. You know how they decided this was their boy.

One year later, on this day, this boy is no longer an orphan; he is theirs.



Today, we celebrate. Today is a good day.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating, M.Y.

Hand off

6.4.17

It’s time to do this.

When we met him at the Philadelphia airport last summer, we took off running. Those who had run for him before us had done their part, but they had gone as far as they could go. He needed someone else for the next leg of the race. All 6 of us were in. We gave him all we could, running harder than all of us thought we were able to do, sharing the task at hand, holding each other up. We pressed on when it hurt because we knew we were the sprinters. That was our job on the team. And, we knew that he was worth it.

You saw us running from the sidelines and cheered us on. Then something changed. You stopped routing for us from the sidelines and joined us.

For a while, we ran side-by-side, knowing that a transition was coming. In anticipation, our sprint started slowing down and your pace picked up. At times it felt like we both had our hands on the baton. At this point though, you’re running so hard that we can’t keep up—which is exactly how it should be.

With great satisfaction in the race we have run, we now hand off the baton to you. It’s all yours to run with. Soon, your driving sprint can slow down and you can settle in at a different pace, the pace you can run for the rest of the race.

Know that we couldn’t be happier that you’re the ones who are taking this marathon over for the long haul. And, know that we are happy to join Team Aaron’s cheering section on the sidelines.

We love you and can’t wait to see our friend become your son.


On Monday afternoon at 2:30pm local time, they will receive him. We will set our alarms Sunday night at 2:30am to stand with them.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Letters, M.Y.

Happy New Year!

1.27.17

Nothing puts me in a festive mood like seeing these pop up on my phone.

Wish Uncle and Aunt happy Spring Festival! A happy family! Every year more than before!

(at least, that’s what I’m told and I’m going with it because it’s so adorable.)

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: M.Y., Orphans

happy happy day. {he met his gege}

1.16.17

There was quite a crowd outside the orphanage. And, most of them were wearing matching shirts. We were all there. All were jittery with excitement to experience what was about to happen.

The school kids were getting off the bus at the gate of the orphanage soon. And, we were there to greet them. In that group of school kids were kids we’d all love by the end of the week. But, that day, there were two boys we already loved.

We responded like children ourselves when we saw the yellow bus arrive and a group of kids in orange jackets walk off. We clapped our hands and jumped up and down and started yelling their names. And, we saw them smile from a distance when they realized who it was at the other end of the drive waiting for them.

Our team held back a bit, cameras and tissues out as they experienced it with us. M.Y.’s buddy showed us off to their friends who clearly understood who we are, calling me Ayi and Ashlyn “ash-a-lyn” right along with him. But, M.Y. stood back, as we expected he would, smiling but still, clearly working to process the fact that there we were. And, moments later, taking in the fact that there was someone I needed him to meet.

I had practiced it over and over before we left home all in preparation for this moment. Ta shi Josiah de gege. Ta shi M.Y. de gege. (He is Josiah’s big brother. He is your big brother.) He looked at me. He looked at Kyle. And, his smile got bigger. He nodded his head. I don’t know if he recognized him from the photo album he had already received or not. But, I know he got it. This tall boy was his brother. His brother. It’s really happening. He has a family.

I never imagined this scene when we brought a scared little boy home from the airport late at night, when we taught him to play Uno and laughed when he cheated, when we taught him to pray and tucked him into a bottom bunk bed, when we clapped and cheered at him conquering his fear of the pool, when we held his hand and showed him the ocean for the first time. We committed to hosting him to help find him a family. But, I never imagined I’d have the privilege of being hosted in his space 6 months later and being able to physically take his hand and put it into that of the boy who will do all those things we did and much much more everyday of the rest of his life.

Oh happy day. Oh happy happy day.

First two photos credited to Nicole Renee of Living Out His Love. Last photo credited to Ashlyn. 

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating, China, M.Y., Orphans

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