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Oh Yeah She Does

7.22.11

She’s a greeter.

“Hi, Mommy.”

“Hi, Daddy.”

“Hi, Ev-ah.”

“Hi, Ashy.”

“Hi, Dew Dew.” (note the preferred spelling)

She must greet me spontaneously 15 times a day (correction–after counting about 6 times in one hour earlier tonight, I’m thinking it’s more like 40 times a day). We’ll be sitting in the car or at the dinner table or watching tv or whatever, and she looks over and says, “Hi, Mommy.”

Two days ago, she came on over to me, hugged my legs, and said something that sounded remarkably like “I love you, Mommy.” Mark and I laughed at how much it sounded like “I love you,” whatever it was that she was trying to say.

Then, a couple hours later, she did it again to me. That really sounded like “I love you.” Then, she turned and did it to Mark as well. Oh yeah, that was definitely “I love you.” No question.

We have gotten lots of spontaneous greetings. But, we have entered a new era of spontaneous “I love you”s. And, I’m pretty excited about that.

And, I was the first to receive it, you know, the one she took a bit longer to attach to.

She loves me. (insert sigh of joy here)

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Kelly, Lydia

But…

6.15.11

She climbs out of shopping carts regularly. She shrieks to get her way. She doesn’t stop saying “I do! I do!” I hear a lot of “No, mama. No, mama. No, mama. No!” She has a bad habit of hitting when she’s angry. She hides things behind her back if she feels at all threatened. She likes to find pens and crayons carelessly left behind and decorate whatever she can find with them. She removes her diaper when she’s bored. Climbing on tables and window sills is a regular occurrence. 

But…
She dances with no care in the world. She mimics everything I do down to the way I’m standing or holding my hands while speaking. She spontaneously says to me, “Hi, mommy” 100 times a day. She asks to pray and repeats the last word of my every phrase. She swims with such determination. She wants pig tails to look like Ashlyn and then admires herself in the mirror. And, she is absolutely heart-stopping adorable when she smiles and crinkles up her little nose.
And, she’s mine.


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Filed Under: Lydia

Easter: I remember

4.29.11

It’s Thursday night. No, it’s actually Friday now. 5 days after Easter. I’ve been thinking about writing a post about Easter, had some thoughts stewing. But, now, it’s 5 days later. The week has been busy as we prepare to roll out the big May fundraising drive for The Sparrow Fund while still managing We Are Grafted In as well as Jiayin Designs as well as editing part-time. Oh, add parenting 4 children in there still. Busy, busy week. And, sadly, I feel like everyone including myself has moved on from Easter. There are just a few decorations still cluttering up my dining room that need to be put back downstairs until next spring. Easter candy still sitting out now is getting tossed into the trash can. Easter themed coloring pages stuck to my frig are being replaced by generic spring pages or Mother’s Day themed ones.

And, that’s it. Easter’s over.

Sad.

I am one who celebrates dates (if you didn’t already know that). I like to recognize significant dates for our family and, of course, I then blog about them–birthdays, anniversaries, referral day, the day we received Lydia…I note them on my calendar and I anticipate them, plan for them, prepare for them. And, yet, sadly, I posted nothing for Easter, the most important date in my life, the one that gives the rest of our important dates meaning. As each day this week passed without an Easter post, it just made me think more about it. And, maybe that’s good after all.

I guess you could say that as believers, we celebrate Easter everyday really. Without Jesus’ resurrection, Christianity would not even exist. Jesus would have been a prophet, a really good man who had great ideas, a gifted teacher/preacher, a healer, a miracle worker, a man who stood up what was right and good…but He would not have been God. But, because of Easter, because He actually took the sin of all mankind…my sin…and took every last one–that had been from the beginning of time and that will be until the end of time–to the cross. He took them all on Himself and died. And, then He conquered death so that we through faith in Him can also conquer death–forever. Eternal life. That’s Christianity. That’s Easter. That’s what allows me to fall to my knees in humility, recognizing that even the best obedience of my hands does not appear before His throne, only what Christ has done for me. And, I am thankful. An overwhelmed kind of thankful.

I don’t feel bad putting the Easter fluff away. I don’t like pastels or bunnies. And, I’m pretty tired of stepping on half pieces of plastic eggs and finding random strands of Easter grass.

But, thankfully, that’s not Easter.


April 24th was over 5 days ago. But, there really is nothing magical about that day. Christ didn’t actually come back to life on April 24th. But, we set that day, a day, aside every year–people do around the world–those who follow Christ and even those who don’t–to remember what Christ did on that Easter day 2,000 years ago.

And, I remember.

I enjoyed the traditions of dying Easter eggs and sharing the story of Easter again with my kids. I enjoyed a family meal made special for us by my mother-in-law. I enjoyed watching our children run around on that beautiful warm day hunting for plastic eggs filled with melted chocolate candy. I love traditions. But, I love them not simply because they are fun but because they help me remember.

And, that remembering goes far beyond one day of traditions.

I pray that I would be reminded of Easter everyday and that it would be more real to me everyday than the significant dates in our family and in our children’s individual stories.

And, as we celebrate those dates throughout the year, may they always bring us back to Him.

*I decided to post a different set of pictures with this post. Instead of posting pictures of all the Easter traditions, I am posting pictures of a quilt of Lydia’s special dates made by Mark’s mom and given to her this Easter. A wonderful tangible reminder and a special keepsake for her of her story and God’s hands over it all.*

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Lydia, words about faith

It’s true

4.22.11

Dear nannies,
When we received updated pictures of the little girl in your care who was about to formally become our daughter, we were disappointed to see that you had shaved her head. The pictures of her at about 10 months old that we saw right as we sent in our letter of intent to adopt her had the sweetest little wisps of hair coming in.

Then, about a month later, you sent us new pictures and her head was completely bare.

As a perhaps typical American mama, I was a little sad to see my soon-to-be daughter with no hair since I had many hair accessories that I was excited to see on that pretty head. But, I understand that there are several reasons you had for shaving her head. Some of those reasons are practical; others are traditional. I learned that many traditional Chinese shave the heads of their babies because they believe the hair then grows in thicker and more beautiful. I did not believe this myself. I had never heard of it before and did not believe it had any scientific merit.

Well, I just wanted to write to you now and include a current picture of our daughter who we named Lydia to tell you that perhaps there is truth to that belief after all.

Sincerely,
Mei Yue’s American parents

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