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A Snow Day in September

9.25.12

I am convinced that snow days are one of God’s ways of making us stop for a bit. Everybody is all ready to go for their day–lunches packed, homework done, clothes out. And, then, all is cancelled and you’re forced to press the pause button on normal life.

Last night, my parents drove 2 hours up and 2 hours back just to say hello, hug on us, and treat us to dinner. All was well. Lydia was a ball of energy and chatty, chatty, chatty. The night was busy with the bedtime routine and getting all ready for today. Then, busy again as Mark and I bonded with our Macbooks over Connecting While Correcting planning and registration details for Together Called and all the business that causes busyness.

As were calling it quits for the night, we heard a door creak and some whimpering. We found Lydia laying on the hall floor with a fever. She was hot and weak in my arms. And, then she started throwing up. And, no one likes throwing up.

Before we were even all cleaned up, I emailed the senior leader of my Bible Study. “Help, I need a sub for tomorrow! I can’t lead my core group. Lydia’s sick.”

It was a long night with Lydia sleeping by my bedside on a crib mattress. This morning, she woke up chipper and chatty again. “Hmmm…could I pull off still going to Bible Study? Maybe I could find someone to stay here with Lyds so that I could still lead…”

And, then she said it to me: “You gonna take care of me today?”

“Oh, yes, sweetie. I’ll take care of you today. That’s my job.”

“Okay, Mommy. And, I’ll take care of you too.”

And, so, we’re home for the day. My Bible Study group met without me. And, I’m sure they were just fine without me. And, Lydia and me? We’re having our own snow day in September. We’re in our comfy clothes and enjoying the quiet house and the sunlight streaming through the windows and the cats curled up in the warmth of that light. And, I’ve pressed the pause button on all else and have been babying my baby today, and we’ve both been eating it up.

Her fever has come back now, and she’s so quiet and gentle. I’m so glad that it’s my job to care for her today. And, I’m so glad she’s taking care of me too.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Kelly, Lydia

No more white shoes, but…

9.6.12

The only reminders here of summer are a couple neglected hermit crabs, some unused ice cream store coupons stuck on the fridge, and a pile of dirty flip flops in the corner of my kitchen.

Labor Day, the classic last hurrah of summer, is history.

We may not be able to wear white pants or white shoes any more; but, apparently, we can still wear swimsuits with silver butterfly sandals to the grocery store.

If I looked this cute in my swimsuit, I think I’d wear it alone year round as well.
Maybe not to the grocery store, but I’d definitely be twirling around the living room.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Lydia

And, this is my normal

8.9.12

Things have been quiet for the last week. Here, that is.

If there’s any quiet at home, it usually means I need to take a look around.

Because when things are quiet, I find myself taking pictures of things like this.

Did she know I’ve been drawn to the color yellow lately myself? 
A few weeks left of summer. I’m currently in my very predictable state of oh-my-goodness-the-summer-is-nearly-over-and-we-didn’t-get-to-do-enough-together mode, which makes me a little crazy. 
So, while things have been quiet here, know that I’ve been swimming, going to museums, crafting, making homemade ice cream chipwiches (confession: cheating a bit with refrigerated cookie dough. Who has time to make cookies from scratch at the end of the summer?!?!), watching silly movies at our local theater, watching the Olympics and cheering nightly all while trying to keep the laundry from overflowing and editing during every free minute in between.
Yup, that’s pretty much life right now.

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When the cat’s away

7.30.12

For 27 months, I’ve been trying to grow Lydia’s hair out. I’ve trimmed the back several times now, but I’ve never cut the front.

I’ve never cut the front.

While we were in Dallas over the last 5 days for our ETC Train-the-Trainer course and the kids were at Grammy camp, Lydia decided the scissors needed to be tried out on her bangs.
The little bit of bangs that have taken over 2 years to grow. 
Yeah, I know it’s a rite of passage. Yeah, I know I did it too, Mom, at about the same age. Blah blah blah.
But, I’m a little upset today about it, and I’m feeling totally entitled to that. Her cuteness isn’t making it any better.
Can’t really even these out so much or cut her hair to help it look like it was meant to be that way. Too short for clippies that she fights anyhow and looks silly with a headband. 
Maybe it will be all grown out by the time she leaves Elementary School. (sigh)

Ni Hao Yall

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Lydia, Sunday Snapshot

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