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Mary’s free and finally headed home

6.16.08

This weekend, my mom (shown on the left) lost one of her dearest friends, Mary, to breast cancer. Mary was an amazing woman, a living testimony to God’s goodness and faithfulness even when in terrible pain and facing death. In fact, she was quite joyful about facing death, knowing that she was going to be with her Creator for eternity. She really was amazing. Mark and I were greatly moved by her faith and boldness in sharing Christ with many people as well as her husband Joe’s incredible love and devotion to her as he cared for her until the end. They had a website where they would publish updates about Mary’s condition and how things were going. On the day she died, Joe wrote this:

SATURDAY, JUNE 14, 2008 10:52 AM, EDT
In His great mercy the Lord called Mary home a little before 2:00 this morning. Sometime after 1:00AM I had finished reading aloud at her bedside and apparently dozed off. I awoke when the nurse entered the room less than an hour later and Mary had peacefully departed. We rejoice in the assurance that she is not only at rest, but joy-filled in His presence! Mary can truly declare, ‘I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that day – and not only me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.’ (2 Timothy 4:7,8) Our family is comforted by the promises of God and the support of friends and family. All truly is ‘well with our souls.’ We want to express our gratitude for your prayers and kind words throughout this journey.We are planning a memorial service in honor of Mary, which, in her own words, ‘should be a celebration of life!’ Thanks be to God. Joe, Andrew & Joseph

Wow.

I love the song by Nicole Nordeman called “I AM.” The final verse reads:

“When life had begun, I was woven and spun. You let the angels dance around the throne. Who can say when, but they’ll dance again, when I am free and finally headed home.”

Mary was faithful to the end. What a joy to witness that. I know those angels are dancing and Mary’s right along with them, free and finally home.

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Cousin #6

5.8.08




We officially welcomed cousin #6 into our family today. Bohdan has been Erin (my sister) and Brian’s foster child for about 18-19 months, I believe. During that time, they lovingly have cared for him as if he was their own, fully planning from the start to make that happen. But, he wasn’t quite their own officially until today. Today, we attended a court hearing to make him legally their son. It was beautiful weather today, warm and sunny, a great day to celebrate God’s provision of a child for Erin and Brian and His provision of a family who loves the Lord and loves him for Boh. (and, yes, Erin has 7 weeks to go before baby #2 joins them!)

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The adventures of Uncle Grevious’s belly

4.22.08

Yup, that’s the subject of this post. My sister’s husband Jason has been renamed by my Star Wars obsessed son “Uncle Grievous.” My children often talk about the fact that right before this particular picture was taken during our family Disney World trip a couple months ago, Uncle Grievous had lifted his shirt up and stuck his belly out. Due to “Disney Purity” (ahem, clearing my throat), the Power Ranger tugged Uncle Grievous’ shirt down and shook her head “no.” Apparently, Power Rangers will not take pictures with crazy guys with their bellies sticking out. Not a bad rule really. In fact, I’d like to claim that rule. So, at the personal request of Uncle Grievous himself, the story is now posted for all who may visit to read. He even requested the particular title for the post. There you go, Jay, you’re famous.

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God’s Grace

4.21.08




Yesterday, we had my sister Erin’s baby shower. Erin and Brian tried to get pregnant for a while and were basically told it wasn’t going to happen for them. They fell in love with the idea of foster parenting to adopt as well as to care for children in need. Not long after this decision, they got a placement for Bohdan (their name for him) who was about 6 months old, I guess. His mother had voluntarily placed him with social services. She already had a son who was school aged who was with his grandmother. She was abusing drugs and knew she couldn’t care for Bohdan. Soon after Erin and Brian welcomed him into their home, Boh’s biological mother overdosed on meth and died. She obviously made the right decision to place Boh with another family. On May 7th, Erin and Brian will go to court to legally adopt Boh who just turned 2 years old. While he was in their home, they surprisingly became pregnant! They are having a girl, Audrey Rose, at the end of June. It’s a joy to celebrate this miracle and recognize that as they were trying to become pregnant, the Lord was simply telling them to wait. If they had become pregnant years ago, they may not have started fostering and they definitely would not have been given the gift of Bohdan. God clearly had a plan for them, to bless them with a family, and for Bohdan, to bless him with godly parents. Here are some pictures from the shower–had to include the one of Ashlyn. :)

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