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The Middle Man and Sahara Sams

3.29.13

Gifted passes to an indoor water park in NJ + a day off of work and school + Drew’s 7th birthday = the perfecta trifecta….or the perfect storm?

Sahara Sam’s is pretty awesome. The kids literally jumped up and down with their hands in the air and threw some high fives in there for good measure when we told them we were going the night before. But, here’s the thing–we weren’t the only ones telling their kids they were going the night before.

Oh. my. word.

By the time the place cleared out a bit and half of New Jersey had left for the day, I was able to pull out my camera to take a few pics.

Sahara Sams indoor waterpark in New Jersey

Having just seen a glimpse of the crowd, you may understand why the following picture features what’s pretty much right in front of you as you enter the water park (and why it had quite a long line).

Sahara Sams indoor waterpark New Jersey

Of course, that’s just for the adults. The kids are way too busy enjoying the attractions to need any respite.  And, somehow, the crowds didn’t bother ours one bit (especially since the rules were a bit more lax than our pool where Drew and Lydia are required to wear life jackets). See the joy of kids with the freedom to go under water with a gazillion other people without a life-saving device attached to them?

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Though I was tempted to find the least crowded spot in the park and plant myself there for the rest of the day, I quickly realized that that spot might not be the most comfortable place for me.

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So, I gave in and joined my older 3 in line for Mount Kilimanjaro, the longest line in the whole stinkin’ place, and the line that moved even slower than it should have given the middle school set who kept budging in line. The lines were a bit of a free for all once you got to the top of the platform here. Without even partaking in the adult respite beverages, I was able to defend our position, however, making my children proud.

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I confess, the slide was pretty awesome. I loved it. My older 3, however, claimed they went upside down and wouldn’t do it again and somehow we ended up doing the lazy river about 100 times. They’re still talking about how I defended our position in line though. Yeah, I’m pretty much super mom.

Crazy loud. Super crowded would be an understatement. 90-minute drive each way. Obnoxious middle schoolers trying to sneak into line. Tiny lockers that were sold out. A perpetual line for bathrooms and dressing rooms. But, totally worth giving up our day for. My middle man, the one known for claiming no one plays with him or pays attention to him, was the happiest man in the world.

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After dinner at Cheeburger Cheeburger on the way home and presents and brownies at home, he told us it was his best birthday of his whole life.

Now, Mark and I just have to sleep it off.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Drew, Uncategorized, why can't they just stay little forever

Drew’s first of many

10.10.12

Me: Come on, Drew. If it doesn’t come out tonight, you will probably lose it in school tomorrow, and that would not be so good.
Drew: No.
Me: Okay, I tell you what, if you let Daddy pull it now, I’ll give you $5.
Rest of the family: ooooo….
Drew: $6
Me: $5.50
Drew: Is that more than $5?
Me: Yes.

We shake hands. And, Daddy gets a napkin.

The rest is history. 
Pathetically, I am now finding myself sneaking into the kids’ rooms to their chore money containers and borrowing money to leave the $5.50 owed Drew. I should’ve started with $2 and gone up to $2.50. I found $5.25 in Evan’s room and left a note there so I’d pay him back. He’ll never notice. Had to take the other quarter from Drew’s own money. I’ll replenish it. Honest. 

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Filed Under: daily life, Drew

All is well

4.9.12

My Eeyore.

The one with “Ew” in his name. 

Someone very cleverly reminded me that he also has “Dr.” in his name which is so very cool. 
I mean, who wouldn’t want “Dr.” in their name?

In case this new 6 year old needed some reminders of his own like I need mine, he’s got them. One from both parents, his older brother and sister, and even one from each of the Milford girls (yes, he actually got some fan mail).
And, if he by chance he was still feeling a bit like his tail was lost again, he found the silver egg during the Easter egg hunt. 
Oh, yes, he did. With $6.50 in it. My parents have gotten quite generous with their stuffed eggs in their older age. 
I’m sure you can imagine the party that ensued—at least for this one of the 9 egg hunters.

Ni Hao Yall

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Filed Under: Celebrations, Drew

Supermom…whatever

3.28.12

He’s so stinkin’ cute. 
But, he’s become a bit of an Eeyore, feel-sorry-for-myself kid. 
Which, I confess, gets a bit tiresome.

Don’t let this adorable face fool you. 
I hear a whole lot of “Nobody likes me!” “No one ever wants to play with me!” “Everybody hates me!” as he stomps around with a full-on frown.
Logic doesn’t seem to change anything. And, extra attention doesn’t either. We can get him to smile only to see him trying to hide the smile so that we think he’s still upset. 
Today, when he started up with this type of talk again, I was inspired to use some creativity to address it this time. And, I was feeling pretty good about that.
“Drew, I love you so so much. I always love you. I’m never going to stop loving you. And, I want you to be reminded of that all the time. So, I’m going to make a sign that says ‘Mama Loves Drew,’ and we’re going to hang it up wherever you want to hang it so that when you see it, you can remember that I love you so so much.” 
So, I wrote out the letters for the sign. Drew colored them. I cut them out. And, as soon as Lydia went down for her nap, he and I grabbed the masking tape and went upstairs so he could choose just where he wanted to hang his love note.
He wanted it right at his eye level on his bedroom door. Score.
So, we put it right there for him and everyone else to see. And, with one arm around his shoulders, I ran my finger across the letters and slowly read them to him: “See this, Drew? M-a-m-a   l-o-v-e-s   D-r-e-w. Do you like it?”
He was quiet for a second.
“There’s one problem,” he told me. 
Really? I thought this was the best idea. What could possibly be the issue now?
With a full-on grouch face and arms crossed, “My name has ‘ew’ in it.” 
Seriously. That is what the boy said. To which I could not control my laughter. 
So much for my supermom strategy.
Guess he could always go by Andy if he really wanted.

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Filed Under: Drew

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