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7.1.10

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
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First Day of Vacation

6.28.10

Well, Lydia’s case of Hand Foot Mouth coupled with Drew telling us his “brain hurt” at church which led to him running a temperature as well did not lend itself to good vacation preparations. But, we managed to get everything (almost everything. Mark says packing for a family vacation is more like moving) together and in the van. Not 20 minutes into the ride, Drew threw up (though me, super mom, saved the day by getting it all in a ziploc bag. Mark, happily driving, didn’t even know Drew threw up!). But, regardless, it actually turned out to be one of our better trips in the car. Drew does seem to have a very mild case of Hand Foot Mouth himself–but it isn’t stopping him one bit really. He had a temp still last night, but tylenol brings it right down and he’s eating and playing normally (well, normal for Drew!). Lydia is ions better than she was and is eating more and taking her bottles. AND, she slept through the night last night for 12 hours. Phew!

So, off to the beach we went this morning to show Lyds sand for the first time. She surprised us all by really enjoying the sand…perhaps a little more than we would have liked.

Right after I took this one on Mark’s Blackberry (no way I’m taking my good Canon out in the sand!), Lydia put a dead sand crab covered in sand in her mouth and started to chomp down. Perhaps it reminded her of Chinese cuisine like fried scorpions? Ick!

Though crab and sand eating she did without a second thought, she wasn’t so keen on the water. Perhaps the fact that it felt like ice water had something to do with it. But, she did seem a bit scared of the crashing waves. Maybe by the end of the week, she’ll be a regular beach bum.

Ash, Evan, and Drew loved showing her everything on the beach: “Look, Lyds, Look Lyds, this is a shovel. You do this with it.” Now, Lydia is sleeping and the other 3 are watching a movie in their bedroom. I’m finishing this post and looking forward to a nap while Mark starts Prodigal God. Bet he’ll be asleep within 30 minutes–no offense to Tim Keller. 

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
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Sunday Snapshot: Father’s Day

6.21.10

Mark’s first Father’s Day as a father of 4–and I think it was a success. It started with a big breakfast and some gift giving. Each kid gave Mark a book–books he’ll hopefully get time to read while we are vacationing since he doesn’t get a lot of free time as a father of 4 (hoping he gets some on vacation!). Lydia gave him Chinese Lessons: Five Classmates and the Story of the New China. Drew gave him Tim Keller’s book Prodigal God: Recovering the Heart of the Christian Faith — I’m looking forward to reading this one as soon as Mark closes the cover.  Ashlyn gave him Around Phoenixville, a history book about our hometown. Mark totally gets into that sort of thing. And, Evan gave him The Clock Without a Face, a really fun book for us to read to the kids that is a mystery with very neat illustrations on each page of each floor of a 13 floor apartment building. We read a bit of it today and we were all into it. And, my gift to him…a night out with two guys from church for some fellowship and encouragement, something we both really need. I think that was the best gift I could have given him right now. 

That is, in addition to the lunch he requested: honey chili bacon cheese dog. 


I know, totally gross. I think it belongs on that website This is Why You’re Fat along with bacon wrapped meatloaf and burgers in between Krispy Kremes. Ick. But, he seemed pretty darn happy with it (note the picture with his mouth open so wide it looks like his jaw unhinged). And, well, it is Father’s Day after all. FYI–I had a salad for lunch.


We managed to get all 4 kids either napping or in their rooms quietly for a bit this afternoon and both he and I napped (perfect Sunday!). After some wii and lego play, we headed out for dinner at Max & Ermas. Followed by some reading together and bedtime, then Mark headed out the door to play ice hockey where he is now. Not a bad day at all.
So, for my first official Sunday Snapshot, here is my man and my children. How blessed I am to have been given this family to surround me everyday. And, I cannot imagine facing the task of parenting these four precious lives without the wisdom and spiritual leadership of my husband Mark. He is a brave, faithful, and committed man whom I love dearly. Happy Father’s Day, Mark.

Ni Hao Y'all

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Mark, Sunday Snapshot

Perfect Steamed Eggs – my secrets

6.8.10

We were told that Lydia liked steamed eggs. Before we traveled to China, we weren’t even sure what that meant. Do they mean hard boiled eggs? Are they in the shell? We learned what it was in China when the petite little miss totally destroyed a family-size helping of the stuff. So, I made it my mission to find a recipe for it and perfect it at home. I tried on our first day home (not recommended to do that as I was nearly comatose with jet lag and emotionally spent). My attempt was a flop. But, since then, I have figured it out (I think…I hope my Chinese friends Tony and Lily don’t read this recipe and laugh at my vain attempt at it!). I’m ready to unveil my very complicated and difficult recipe so that other mothers of Chinese children can make their children smile with a taste from home and maybe some of you mothers of American children may enjoy giving it a try as well–I mean, if you can handle how complicated this recipe is.

Ingredients:
1 egg
about 1/2 cup water
little bit of salt
(so complicated)

Mix the egg and the water very well. This is the key to my technique. Don’t skimp on the whisking, ladies. Whisk it until your wrist hurts. Add a little salt and put in a small oven-safe dish. You can add some fixins if you want to now–bacon pieces, ham, spring onion, dried mushroom–I haven’t tried this though so do so at your own risk. Put the dish in the top steamer tray of a rice cooker–also key to my technique. My attempts on the stovetop got clumpy and, well, gross.

Push “steam” on the rice cooker and let cook for about 15 minutes. Remove when it is the consistency of a custard–it reminds me of a coconut cream pie filling (not in taste, just appearance). There will be a little bit of water on the surface you can pour off (be careful not to pour your entire masterpiece into the sink though. I almost made that mistake a couple times).

No complicated recipe is complete without some photos–this one includes even some after photos because, well, because I couldn’t resist.

Yes, she has egg on her face. But, she’s happy because it’s steamed egg. And, yes, the girl has some serious aversion to staying sitting down in her high chair. I don’t know what’s more challenging–her totally ignoring us when we say “sit down, sit down” about 400 times or a very pretty high chair that is not designed functionally well. 
Voila. 


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