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Wanna teach your kids about purposeful investing?

3.24.16

Ashlyn's letter pixelatedWhen she begged to go with us to China again this May, we reminded her that she would need to do some work to get there. She wasn’t phased at all by that. She just trusted. He provided once; He’ll do it again. Of course He will. 

She wrote a letter; the words her own right down to asking for donators. She’s sent about 20 out. And, she feels good about the one response she’s gotten so far.

This morning, as I made my coffee and was thinking how proud I am of her for having a heart of service, I thought how cool it would be if she had a team of kid donators. Rather than having a group of adults supporting her, wouldn’t it be great if she had a team of kids who were willing to give allowance money or babysitting money or money from cutting someone’s grass to support her? Wouldn’t it be great if she was charged with not only serving in China on this trip but casting a vision to her team of senders {these sacrificing kids} of what serving looks and feels like?

That’s the kind of thing that gets this mama excited.

We aren’t desperate to get her funded. I’ve learned what she’s learned: He provided once; He’ll do it again. Of course He will. But, if you’d like your child to have the opportunity to consider being a part of this, email me with your child’s name and mailing address and I’ll have Ashlyn send a personalized ask letter out pronto. No gift is too small.

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a year ago today {Grace turns 1}

3.23.16

Exactly one year ago this minute, I was holding my breath. A woman who had become a dear friend over the months we had shared a a home sat at my kitchen table, clutching her side and trying to look like she wasn’t as far along as she was. The next 90 minutes were like an episode of Amazing Race with the end goal being a brand new baby girl.

And, we won.

We fought against a family planning policy that limited this family to two children or one son {meaning, if the first child was a girl, they were allowed to have a second child to try again for a boy}. We fought against visa limitations that make it hard for women and children to leave the country. We fought against our own selfishness and self-protection and inclination to say mine mine mine with our home and our food and our things.

And, we won. With help from a lot of people, we won. And, as a result, one of the most beautiful little creatures ever created entered the world…here…in the land of the free and the brave…to a mama who is one of the bravest people I know.

Grace birth announcement 2

Today, that beautiful little creature turns one.

And, she’s just as marvelous as she was then.

gracie girl - 6

gracie girl - 7

gracie girl - 4

gracie girl - 3

 

In October, two days after Grace turned 7 months old, China announced a big change to their family planning policy that had been in effect for three decades. As of the start of 2016, families across the nation would be allowed two children regardless of the children’s gender. Unfortunately, the law is not retroactive. So, Grace is still considered an illegal birth. Despite the fact that she holds U.S. citizenship, in order to register her in China for her ID card so that she can go to school, receive benefits allowed to their citizens, and even buy train tickets, her parents are still being told they will need to pay an exorbitant fine not required for second children born only 9 months after her. We will press on praying for more changes, better changes, and for this child who He’s going to use for big, big things. He already has.

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