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Home Sweet Home

4.11.10

Our first family picture as a family of 6

We made it! It was a brutal day(s) of travel–left the White Swan at 7:30AM and arrived at home at about 11:00PM…about 28 hours of travel door to door. Lydia was great on the first flight from Guangzhou to Beijing. And, she really did quite well on the flight from Beijing to Newark. Having the bulkhead seat with the bassinet was a HUGE blessing (as well as the fact that Mark got the seat with me). Anyone who is traveling with a child under 2 NEEDS to get those seats. Lydia slept on and off as did we. But, she cried very little. But, when we were only 15 minutes from landing (after I had changed her into a cute coming home outfit, mind you), she got airsick and threw up multiple times all over herself and us and our diaper bag. Nice. So, she was not too happy and neither were we (or the surrounding passengers). As soon as we got off, we called my mom to tell her we had landed (there was a whole entourage waiting for us). She then informed us that Ashlyn was sick and had thrown up twice at the airport. Nice. Welcome home to us, huh? She was a real trooper though and still was very happy to see us and Lydia and sat nicely while we grabbed a quick bite of dinner with the whole fam. It was great to be reunited with the kiddos–brought tears to both of our eyes. They are just in love with Lydia. Evan said last night, “If I were doing this, I’d pick her too.” Drew said, “I wouldn’t. I’d want a boy.” He’s a kick. He loves his baby sister though. She wasn’t ready to go to bed until after 2AM and then was awake again by 5AM (this was her “afternoon nap”….ugh). Even though the other three went to bed super late, they were up between 6:30 and 7 ready to give her tours of the house and show her every toy she could play with. Poor thing is probably way over stimulated. She did really well today though and was asleep tonight by 8PM. If she sleeps through the night, I may sing the Hallelujah chorus tomorrow morning.

Poor pitiful Ashlyn waiting for us to arrive.
While everyone else wandered around to keep busy during the long wait, Evan didn’t leave his spot, anxiously waiting to see us for the first time in 16 days with Lydia in our arms. 

Their first view of us (above). While Ashlyn and Drew ran to meet us, Evan just started hollering and doing a jig. Bohdan caught the excitement and joined in.

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Next stop Phoenixville

4.8.10

Well, not really. But, in our mind it is. 
I’m taking a pause in the packing to compose one last blog post while on Chinese soil! In less than 12 hours, we will leave our oasis of the White Swan hotel and head off with the other Living Hope families for the airport. We will fly into Beijing with China Air, wait a couple hours and then board our Continental flight for Newark! Door to door, we will be traveling for about 24 hours….with a baby. Pray for us! This is the day I have really been anxious about for literally years. Since we started this adoption process, both Mark and I would talk about this long trip home with a toddler and just stop talking about it because we would break a sweat. 
Only 4 weeks ago, we got the news that China had granted us travel approval. Now, we have our daughter, and we are headed home. What a life-changing experience we have had. The wait is over, the journey to find her and meet her is over, all the paperwork is over, incessant calls to Sarah at Living Hope are over (well, officially they are. But, don’t worry, Sarah, I’m not going to let you off that easy). Now, the rest our journey begins. I can’t wait for Evan, Ash, and Drew to meet her. I can’t wait for the whole family to meet her. I can’t wait to see Lydia toddling around our house and sleeping in her crib.
God’s hands have been on this child from the first moments of her life, no doubt. He protected her and held her in His arms when she was held in no other arms. He set her apart for us and redeemed a sad thing into the most beautiful picture of His love for us. He prepared us and worked in us to open our hearts to her. He led us as we stepped out in faith to say yes to her when the doctors gave us much to be concerned about. We cannot leave this place without remembering what He has done–He has called, protected, prepared, provided, guided, redeemed, and sanctified us in all. We will not forget His work. The bag of stones given to us by her orphanage from the grounds of the orphanage will serve as our ebenezer, may they remind her of His goodness as well when she is grown. 
I know I will cry as we leave this place. How do you not when they have just given us the gift of a daughter? And, we have such sweet memories from the last 16 days and have built relationships that will last a lifetime. The Vance family, the Corbeil family, the Woods family, and the Bisignano family are now dear friends. I so look forward to planning times together again and seeing how all their children grow. Each one of their children is amazing, all with their own stories of God’s hands on them. I’ve already proposed an arranged marriage perhaps for Lydia and Jake Woods. 
Dear Evan, Ashlyn, and Drew–boy, are we excited to see you guys! Don’t be surprised if I’m crying when I see you. You know how I sometimes cry when I’m really super happy. We’ll have been on that plane for a very long time. Lydia may be fussy and tired. And, she might be a little scared of all the new faces. She’s used to hearing Chinese everywhere; this is going to be a big change for her! But, I know she will love you quickly as you love her. For the last time from China, we love you!

I’m including some random pictures here for the last post–a picture of cutie patootie Jake. He’s a handful now, but he’s the cutest little guy ever. 
 
 
Here’s salesman Jack and me–we became friends over the week. He’s looking for an American girlfriend if anyone knows anyone interested. :) 
 
 
Also included a picture of us in front of the Pleasant Goat characters. This cartoon is the most popular one in China. These characters are everywhere. I tried to get a DVD of the cartoon in English, but they didn’t have any.
 
 
And, last, there’s a picture of Mark and Lydi enjoying the birds in the hotel lobby. 
 
 
A very special thank you to Ashley for posting all my blog entries and dealing with all those pictures I emailed to her to put on there. She’s been a real trooper–especially as she is preparing for her own trip to China! Next blog post will be posted by me from Phoenixville, PA! 

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