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First Day of Vacation

6.28.10

Well, Lydia’s case of Hand Foot Mouth coupled with Drew telling us his “brain hurt” at church which led to him running a temperature as well did not lend itself to good vacation preparations. But, we managed to get everything (almost everything. Mark says packing for a family vacation is more like moving) together and in the van. Not 20 minutes into the ride, Drew threw up (though me, super mom, saved the day by getting it all in a ziploc bag. Mark, happily driving, didn’t even know Drew threw up!). But, regardless, it actually turned out to be one of our better trips in the car. Drew does seem to have a very mild case of Hand Foot Mouth himself–but it isn’t stopping him one bit really. He had a temp still last night, but tylenol brings it right down and he’s eating and playing normally (well, normal for Drew!). Lydia is ions better than she was and is eating more and taking her bottles. AND, she slept through the night last night for 12 hours. Phew!

So, off to the beach we went this morning to show Lyds sand for the first time. She surprised us all by really enjoying the sand…perhaps a little more than we would have liked.

Right after I took this one on Mark’s Blackberry (no way I’m taking my good Canon out in the sand!), Lydia put a dead sand crab covered in sand in her mouth and started to chomp down. Perhaps it reminded her of Chinese cuisine like fried scorpions? Ick!

Though crab and sand eating she did without a second thought, she wasn’t so keen on the water. Perhaps the fact that it felt like ice water had something to do with it. But, she did seem a bit scared of the crashing waves. Maybe by the end of the week, she’ll be a regular beach bum.

Ash, Evan, and Drew loved showing her everything on the beach: “Look, Lyds, Look Lyds, this is a shovel. You do this with it.” Now, Lydia is sleeping and the other 3 are watching a movie in their bedroom. I’m finishing this post and looking forward to a nap while Mark starts Prodigal God. Bet he’ll be asleep within 30 minutes–no offense to Tim Keller. 

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A lot. of. crying.

6.27.10

Oh, we’ve had a hard last couple days. Lydi got a fever Thursday evening and was really fussy. Friday proved no better. In fact, her mood was a lot worse. No eating, barely drinking, low grade fever, wouldn’t let me put her down. At about 9pm last night, after what became incessant crying, inconsolable crying, I took her to the E.R. thinking she had to have a raging ear infection. They took one look in her mouth and diagnosed with her Hand Foot Mouth Disease because her mouth was full of white sores that I somehow missed (don’t know how I missed them since her mouth had been wide open screaming for quite some time). Her fever was going up, so they gave her tylenol which she promptly threw up, requiring a tylenol suppository (nice). They sent us home for what may have been one of the hardest nights in my parenting career. In the morning, I calculated that I had slept a cumulative 90 minutes. Lydia was crying and uncomfortable most of the night despite the tylenol and motrin she was getting. At 6am, she started shaking all over which led us to call CHOP in a frenzy. We were about to take her back to the E.R. when we got her to settle down a bit. She stopped crying, and I started crying. It was so hard to see her in so much pain and so sad and not be able to do anything to help her. We took her to the doctor’s again this morning, but she was doing a bit better by then and seems to be doing better yet throughout the day. I hope we’re through the worst of it.

Ironically, the reason the orphanage director told us we weren’t allowed into the orphanage building was because they didn’t want to risk any of the orphans catching Hand Foot Mouth disease. Apparently, it’s very common in China in the spring and summer. And, I had no idea it was so painful. As I was trying to comfort our poor baby, I couldn’t help but imagine what it was like for her in the orphanage when she did get sick. Would anyone hold her and try to soothe her or would she cry like this alone as other babies looked on? I can barely stand to think about it. Oh, thank God she’s home.
In light of the fact that any pictures from today would be horrible and that I don’t really want to remember it all that clearly, I’m going to post a happy picture from Thursday before she started feeling bad. I love this picture and look forward to seeing these sweet images again instead of my sad sad baby!

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