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Adoption Links Worth Lingering On

2.1.12

Just in case you are looking for some interesting new links…consider this my version of StumbledUpon just for you…

Grab a kleenex box and sit down for 2 minutes to watch Danielle’s Story – a video from Show Hope featuring a girl who was adopted right before aging out of system that will move you.

And, since you already have your kleenex in hand, come on over to hear words from Xiaoyun, another precious girl who was adopted days before aging out of the system. She speaks unscripted about orphans and what we can do. If you don’t find yourself smiling with her and tearing up, check your pulse.

This one got my blood pumping – a news article about a 3 year old Chinese boy who is HIV+ and lives in isolation. The hardest words perhaps to read? “‘He is still immature and juvenile, and hasn’t realized that there is something different between him and other children. He thinks all children grow up the same way as him,’ said one nurse.” Praying that the American family in Xi’an who has come forward asking to foster him is allowed to do that.

After discussing adoption with a Chinese friend whose younger sister, who was adopted as an infant and is now 17, has no idea she was adopted, I found this article from November reminding me that it wasn’t that long ago that adoption was not something celebrated in the U.S. either.

This story was interesting – two girls both adopted from Indonesia learn as adults that they are twins. Now, they are talking about going back to Indonesia to search for birthparents–and the taxi driver who gave their parents the tip that there were two little girls to begin with.

One more…

As I was pausing to recognize significant days in our adoption story, I found this article on why one family never celebrates Gotcha Day or even uses those words in their home. Definitely worth the read and will get you thinking on how to celebrate it, recognize it, or do none of the above.

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This is What 8 Looks Like

1.30.12

So trendy with her super cool feather hair dealie on the left there.

Big ole scraggly 8-year-old teeth with some gaping holes.

Silly smirks and faces with the typical 8-year-old, “Ma-ahm, are you done taking pictures yet?”

She was asked to come up with two things she was grateful for at Sunday School–and not just the typical God and family answers. She said she was grateful for (1) different types of people in the world and so many different cultures and countries and (2) that there were orphanages and people to take care of kids who didn’t have families and people to adopt them.

This is what 8 looks like. 
Beautiful through and through.

Happy birthday, Ashlyn, from the dragon lady.

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Filed Under: why can't they just stay little forever

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