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"Caring" Propaganda Instead

3.2.12

The Taipei Times shared this headline yesterday:

CHINA BANS NASTY FAMILY PLANNING SLOGANS…Instead of threatening people with sterilization or death, local authorities are encouraged to use more ‘caring’ language

As the world’s most populous country with more than 1.3 billion people, China introduced the “one-child” policy in 1979 which is when signs like these, particularly in rural areas started to show up.

Ones that still stand and read things like

“Kill all your family members if you don’t follow the rule” and

“If you don’t have your tubes tied, your house will be demolished.”

The article mentions a sign that reads “Once you are captured, your tubes will be tied. Should you escape, we’ll hunt you down. If you attempt suicide, we’ll offer you either the rope or a bottle of poison.”

This is real stuff.

“One child policy. Husbands have responsibility.”

“Rather have blood flow like rivers, than to have another [child].”

“One birth, you need to wear a ring. Two birth, sterilization. Over birth is not good, sterilization and fines.”

China’s National Population and Family Planning Commission wants to prevent “zealous local authorities from offending the public or worsening social tensions with ‘nasty’ slogans.”

Instead, they want them to continue to uphold the one-child policy but use “caring” verbiage that will not offend and also helps battle the gender imbalance that China’s one-child policy has become known for.

“Having a boy or a girl is both good. A daughter can also pass on the future generation.”
“Control the number of people. Enhance the quality of people.”

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{parenting is} full of rules

3.1.12

I don’t care if February 29th only comes once every 4 years. Today was miserable.

Rain.

All.

Day.

Rain that required me to drive up the street to rescue my two oldest kids (and my eldest’s best friend) from drowning on their walk home from school.

We stopped at Evan’s buddy’s house first. Out he hopped and started up to his door.

And, I waited to make sure he got in safely (even though his mom and I had just spoken and both his mom and dad’s cars were parked out front…didn’t matter) and see his mom wave at the front door…as we mom’s do.

As we were waiting, Evan gave me the, “Come on, why don’t you just go?”

“Honey, I have to wait to watch him get in. That’s what you are supposed to do.”

To which he replied…

“Do you have a mom’s handbook or something because you have a lot of rules.”

I don’t happen to have that one on my bookshelf. But, if anyone of you has a copy, would you let me borrow it? Or send me a link to it so I can order it myself. I think I’d do a lot better here if I actually had the handbook.

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Filed Under: why can't they just stay little forever

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