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Two fields, one team

5.18.13

A little over 48 hours ago (not that I’m keeping track), Mark left home with a carryon that would likely make me fall over backwards and a suitcase weighing exactly 49.9 lbs. It took him 28 hours door-to-door to arrive in Baoding, China where he’s serving until he comes home to us.

The Internet is fickle, making Skype really just a slideshow of a few still images. Getting children out of bed last night and gathering 5 of us around my Macbook only to see a still picture of their father with a funny expression on his face wasn’t so satisfying. So, an email and a few text messages are all I’ve got thus far.

Thursday and Friday were easy peezy really if you overlook Drew going on a few too many rides at the Dogwood Festival and throwing up “in front of everybody” and a doctor visit which required restraints for Lydia to remove stitches she got Monday night.

While we’re sleeping, he’s serving on one side of the world. While he’s sleeping, I’m serving on the other.

I’m serving. I’m serving. I’m serving. I gotta keep telling myself that when the twinges of envy come (okay, they may just feel a tad more than twinges) and when this wife’s heart simply is missing her husband.

Sleeping or serving, content with my call today or feeling not so content, there is security in knowing that the same Son over him in Baoding is the same Son over me back home. We’re on the same team.

sun

Yes, the sun apparently does shine occasionally in China

 

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Big Adoption Collection Giveaway

5.17.13

This one’s a biggie, folks, and it’s all together in a fun package only for adoptive or preadoptive families to enter. Just something special for them, because I like little special somethings.

Let me tell you a bit about all these places…

—Mom through adoption from China, Lisa Murphy wrote With an Open Heart just last year to share the story of their son Daniel, a precious boy born in Nanchang, China who became their son and will remain a part of their family tree forever even though he now lives with Jesus. His life, even though it was short, is a legacy forever preserved in Lisa’s words.

—Adoptive mom and child/adolescent therapist by trade, Kristan Struck set out to give adoptive families a way to introduce conversations in age appropriate ways about birthparents and the loss that surrounds adoption. She wrote A Family for Eve about a little chick found in a farmyard who quickly gets paired up with Cleo the cat, a mama cat who has three kittens as well as a bunny and duck she mothers. Her book is most appropriate for both domestic (closed) or any international adoptions. Our Lydia thinks the animals are “so cute,” and I think this is a helpful read when someone close to us is pregnant. And, the author donates 10% of the proceeds from the book to a different cause each month. Love that.

—Sharla Kostelyk, mother of 9 and blogger, has published two books—Shield and That These Two Will Live. Shield: A Framework of Self-Care for Foster and Adoptive Families is only 60 pages, totally readable, and is full of good reminders and hints for families from someone who knows. Here’s my favorite quote from it:

This time will not last forever. Give yourself permission to get through it without doing everything perfectly. Allow yourself grace and give the same to your spouse.

Word. You can download it here from Amazon. In her second book, That These Two Will Live, she tells the story of faith and determination as Mark and Sharla overcame bureaucracy, media attention, and financial challenges to bring home their son and daughter from Ethiopia after their adoption agency went bankrupt, stranding 43 children in a transition home.

gift for little tree collage

—Grafting is the most tangible illustration we have of what adoption is. Colleen Marquez has masterfully brought that illustration to life in A Gift For Little Tree through words and color for our little ones (and the rest of us who may pretend we’re reading it only for them). I’ve seen a preview of this book and personally can’t wait to see the final copy. It’s beautiful, and you know I’m super picky about our adoption books. Colleen has her project on Kickstarter only until May 26th. And, she’s just about at the goal she needs to print this book. If you give only $25, you will get a first edition, hardback, signed copy of the book as soon as it is published. Better head over there now, not sure that offer will still be good once the goal is met!

minus 1

—Kelly Apisa started the Minus 1 Project to fundraise for their own adoption when they were bringing home their 5th child. After he came home, they continued their work to help other families fundraise for their adoptions offering lots of things like tshirts and gifts with an adoption theme.

jiayin doll and lydia

—Jiayin Designs, which I’m personally a part of, brings handmade treasures from China all over the world, specializing in custom, handcut sterling silver charms of Chinese characters. Jiayin’s name charms are the most popular item followed by their handmade zodiac animals and Niu Niu dollies. Sales not only employ Chinese artisans but help support Chinese natives who work for the nonprofit IECS serving Chinese university students through English teaching and relationships.

—Portrait Artist Marla Michele Must of Enchanted Photography, is the proud mom of three and lives in Metro Detroit. As an adoptive mom to a princess from China and an advocate for children around the world, Marla has teamed up with orphan advocate and author Kay Bratt for a collaborative project illuminating real-life adoption stories through words and images. This compelling project will give a snapshot of tears, trauma, laughter and joys of the unforgettable gift of building a family.

All of these people are a part of Building the Nest this May for The Sparrow Fund either by sponsorship or by donating at least 10% of their total sales this month so that The Sparrow Fund can continue to support adoptive families. AND, they are sponsoring this big ole adoption giveaway to raise awareness about this fundraiser and get people shopping!

Here’s what’s included (a combined value of approximately $250):

  • A signed copy of Lisa Murphy’s book With an Open Heart
  • A signed copy of Kristan Struck’s children’s book A Family for Eve
  • A e-book copy of Sharla Kostelyk’s Shield: A Framework of Self-Care for Foster and Adoptive Families
  • A hard copy of Sharla Kostelyk’s That These Two Will Live
  • A signed, first edition copy of Colleen Marquez’ A Gift for Little Tree
  • A blue Got Love t-shirt from Minus 1 Project
  • A $25 gift certificate to Jiayin Designs
  • A photography minisession with Marla Michele Must in Birmingham, Michigan area (note: if you aren’t local to her and win, you may gift this package to another adoptive family!)

Enter this giveaway and go check out all the partners’ sites. (If you leave a comment naming just one thing you have ordered/purchased from one of them, you get an extra 10 entries for any of the giveaways going on right now…and there are quite a few!)

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