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The perfect baby for me {our visit to the Garden State Discovery Museum}

8.14.13

Their favorite outing of the summer. What was going to be a short afternoon visit at the Garden State Discovery Museum became an event, an I-wish-I-had-brought-some-work-to-do-because-we-could-live-here-for-a-while type of event. I was a diner customer, a pet owner at the vet clinic, an audience at Lydia’s puppet show, a California Pizza Kitchen eater, a stage mom during a Peter Cottontail play, a consultant for an architect and her construction crew, a hockey fan, an action news viewer, a guest aboard a cruise ship…see what I mean?

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I fought the temptation to keep hitting refresh on the iPhone in my back pocket and got right on in there with them.

In between fishing off a cruise ship and ordering a chocolate milkshake at the diner, a 4-year-old doctor summoned me to the medical clinic. As I sat in the waiting area for my turn to be seen, another little girl decided she was going to join us. We never learned her name; she was just a cute little blondie of probably 6 or 7 who grabbed the chance to get into a story with us. She looked at Lydia as she rummaged around to find her medical supplies—lab coat, stethoscope, blankets, clipboard. She looked at me squished into the little waiting area chair. She paused for a moment and then said, “Wait. You need a baby. I’ll get you your baby.” Blondie started her own rummaging without Lydia even noticing her, digging down into bins where naked baby dolls with scuff marks on their heads clung to each other for protection against the masses of children running through this place daily. I watched as Blondie would look at one and then throw it aside, look at another and then throw it aside, surely adding more scuff marks with every toss. Not that one. Not that one. When there were babies strewn all over the clinic floor, she finally found one that satisfied her. The hands that were just tossing dolls aside now very gently wrapped my baby up in a blanket, tucking her in to ensure she wasn’t chilled. Then she handed me my baby while Lydia stood by ready to give her a full examination.

asian baby doll

A little Asian baby from the bottom of the bin.

Perfect for the white mama playing in a children’s museum with a Chinese daughter with the sweetest dimples.

And, just in case you want to know, the 4-year-old physician pronounced her completely healthy as Blondie watched on with a smile then handed me my bill.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption, Living as a multiracial family, Lydia

sister whisper

8.11.13

We were singing, everyone singing, focusing on the words.

As morning dawns and evening fades, You inspire song of praise that rise from earth to touch Your heart and glorify Your Name.

I heard her voice, Ashlyn’s voice, in the quiet moments as we paused in the phrases and the music continued on driving us to the next words of worship. While everyone else was taking it in and taking a breath, she was whispering.

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She was behind her sister, bending over so that she was right by her ear, whispering the words to her.

Your name is a strong and mighty tower. Your name is a shelter like no other. Your name, let the nations sing it louder ’cause nothing has the power to save but Your name.

sisters whisper 2

Ashlyn would sing with us again, right where we all were in the song, and then whisper again, making sure her little sister would be able to worship along with us.

Jesus, in your name we pray, come and fill our hearts today, and give us strength to live for You and glorify You name.

She never noticed that I noticed. She didn’t look up and see my smile. She didn’t hear my voice grow louder and quiver as He filled my heart simply through a sister whisper.

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Filed Under: attachment, why can't they just stay little forever

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