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Again and Again and Again

1.15.14

There was no getting it out of my head. It had become my heart’s background music.

How great is our God. Sing with me. How great is our God.

Ashlyn had invited Lydia to watch her adoption video again…and again and again. As I buzzed around the kitchen, I could hear the song from the other room over and over with Ashlyn’s sweet narration of the images that have become as much a part of the song as the notes and lyrics themselves for our family.

As I danced between the stove and sink to prepare our meal as mothers often do, a small person ran into the room and hugged my legs tight, forcing me to still as small people often do.

I love being adopted. I want to be adopted again!

Chinese adoptionCaught up in the words of praise and moving music and dramatic images, she recognized in her little 4 year old way the significance and beauty of that moment when we received her in our arms after years of anticipation.

I told her then and write now to preserve the words and my heart here for when her little 4 year old heart is an 8 year old heart or a 12 year old heart or it bursts one day as a mother’s heart.

I love you “being adopted” too. I am so happy to be your mother. When I see you sleeping in the car or watch snuggled up with your sister or listen to your long prayers before dinner, my heart smiles along with my face and I hear the words of “How Great is Our God” in my heart again. The day I saw you enter that office room in the arms of a woman who had cared for you for a year, wearing your big puffy pants, I was amazed and filled with wonder. Years of desiring you had come to fruition. I remember every moment of that day—the songs of the street cleaning trucks, the echoes in the marble halls, the cough that rattled your little frame. I can get caught up in wanting to relive that day too. But, my love, there is no need now to pine for that day. When we adopted you, it was done. Finished. You become ours. Grafted in. If I were able to go back and do it again, I would because I love you even more fully now than I did that day. But, there’s no do overs with that. Our vows that day still stand today and will tomorrow and forever more as every part of you is every part of us.

Yes, I love you being adopted. I loved that day when we adopted you. And, I’d do it again 100 x 100 times if I could. I love you that much.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption, attachment, Lydia

Disney World countdown, baby

1.10.14

It’s been a trip 3 years in the making. Geesh, my old 6th grader was only in 3rd grade when visions of Dole Whips started dancing in his head. For the last 3 years, any time my kids were bored, my default was, “Let’s talk about Disney World.” And, it always worked; must be the most magical conversation starter in the world or something—a conversation starter that grew into hours and hours of very serious work. Ashlyn created an online store to earn spending money for herself and the rest of the gang. Evan created an activity book for all of us to work on as we counted down. And, now, here we are, right in the middle of the countdown (and a concerted effort to grow a Mickey Mouse head chia pet), and all are seriously abuzz here.

When Evan dreamed up a way to countdown in style, I was all for it. He’s seriously creative. He may just have a future as a Disney Imagineer after all.
Disney countdown 1

We started by finding a silhouette image online of Cinderella’s castle. I think this one was actually solid black when I found it, but I saved it to my own computer then inserted it into a Word document, made it fill the page and then made it super light to save on ink.  After we printed it, I outlined the castle with a sharpie to see the edges better.

Disney countdown 2

We taped 4 pages of white paper together to make one big page. Then, we (okay, whatever, I) drew the outline of the castle, trying that method we used in elementary school of looking at what was in the lower left corner of the original and then translating that to the lower left corner of the big paper and so on. There’s gotta be a name for that method—any of you remember it?

We decided we wanted to countdown from 20. So, once the castle was drawn, we spaced out 19 different “doors” and drew them first with pencil and then a sharpie when we were happy with where they all were.  The last door is the big door to the castle. The “I”s or doors on the bottom were about 2″ x 2”. Others were slightly different to better fit the space.

Disney countdown 3

Using gigantic paper clips we found in my desk, we secured the paper template to our cloud patterned poster board we happened to have on hand for some random reason. We cut through the pattern and the poster board. Leaving the pattern attached, I used an Exacto knife and cut along the lines for the doors. Note: don’t forget a cutting board!

Disney countdown 4

When we removed the pattern, the castle looked like this. Starting to take shape!

Disney countdown 6

Evan had already made a list all by himself of 20 different little activities to go behind the doors.

  1. Wear a Disney shirt
  2. Play Disney name that tune
  3. Drink out of a Disney cup
  4. Talk like a Disney character
  5. Pick out a toy to take to Disney World
  6. Talk like a pirate
  7. Pretend the car is an airplane going to Disney
  8. Pretend to be a cast member
  9. Play Disney charades
  10. Be a Disney character for the day
  11. Pretend you are eating at a Disney restaurant
  12. Sing a Disney song
  13. Design a new Disney ride
  14. Draw a Disney poster
  15. Do your best Monsters Inc. roar
  16. Design a new themed Disney restaurant
  17. Trade a pin
  18. Share your favorite Disney ride and what you like about it
  19. Draw your favorite Disney character
  20. Do a Disney parade around the house *THE LAST ONE*

And, I wrote them on small pieces of paper that were only slightly bigger than the openings of the doors. (Since they had to be written pretty small to see the words well when the doors were opened, I did this part for him.)

Disney countdown 7

Evan taped them to the back of the castle shape wherever there were door cuts. And, I decorated the last large piece of paper to go behind the door on the last day. You could use a page cut out from a Disney travel magazine for this piece if you wanted and then use white paper as conversation bubbles with the words coming from Mickey. We went with simple.

Disney countdown 8

Evan then wrote the numbers from 1-20 on the doors, mixing them up and adding his own little decos.

Disney countdown 10

 

Disney countdown 11

We taped this thing up to the wall in the kitchen at the kids’ eye level and open a door every morning and then do what it says.

FYI: Drew can do an awesome Mickey impression. And, I have no idea why Walt Disney World does not have a restaurant that looks like the Star Wars cantina. That would rock.

14 days to go until 17 of us head to the most magical place on earth!!!

Disney countdown 17

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Traditions

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