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Who my 6-year-old is

3.10.15

6 year old birthdayMy baby is 6 years old.

We gave her gifts as expected. She ooo-ed and ahhh-ed over the scuba gear that she begged for. She jumped up and down about her Elsa get up. But, I think her favorite gift of all, the one she will remember long after the fake chiffon is ripped to shreds and the plastic snaps into pieces is this…

Everyone at the table gave her the gift of one word to describe her now that she’s 6.

Spunky.
Creative.
Fearless.
Cheetah-fast.
Fast-as-a-spaceship.
Brave.
Sweet.
Fantastic.
Adorable.
Playful.

Melting with every word uttered, at the end, as a gift to herself, she called out her own three words to describe herself.

Special.
Good.
Beautiful.

No one cared that a few gifts didn’t arrive in time and that Lydia didn’t even like the cake she insisted I create for her and ended up with a bowl of vanilla ice cream instead. This was the best birthday celebration this family has ever shared.

Truly.

Really.

Seriously.

I’m pretty sure she went to bed with sore cheeks from smiling too much. And, maybe I did too.

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3.9.15

In case you didn’t notice, it snowed on Thursday. What I mean by that is that snowmagedden hit Philly Thursday and pretty much everywhere surrounding it. I so wisely was proactive and changed my Thursday afternoon flight for the red eye at 6am so that I could get out before the snow made it impossible. By Wednesday afternoon, the red eye was cancelled, then the afternoon flight was cancelled. Weighing the options, I decided to go ahead and get a ticket for the red eye on Friday. I’d miss Thursday night, but at least I’d get to Atlanta by 8:30am Friday. And, then Thursday night as I was finishing packing, my Friday flight got cancelled because the plane didn’t make it there. I frantically called the airline where I was told there were no seats to Atlanta out of Philly, Newark, or Baltimore until Saturday night. All the remaining flights were already overbooked from all the changes and cancellations. Then, I cried a little…which led to Ashlyn texting me this from after the girls went to bed.

Oh, that girl. For her sake, I hope she outgrows that squeak. For my sake, I hope she never does.

The only option left was to go ahead to the airport and wait to see if someone didn’t show up for one of the other flights to Atlanta. So, I woke at 2am, left the house by 3am, got to the airport by 4am, then waited. One flight left for Atlanta full. There were two more morning flights that were overbooked already.

I prayed.

Lord, I only want what you want. If you need me at home this weekend, if Helen needs me home this weekend, then make it clear that I need to be home. But, if you want me to serve you and be served by you in Atlanta this weekend instead, make a way where it looks like there is no way this morning. Three tries, then home I’ll go.

Then, I heard my name horribly mispronounced but recognizable over the loud speaker. There was a seat on the flight to Chicago that I was being offered where I could then try to get a standby ticket to Atlanta. What? Seriously? Chicago? She told me there was no way I’d get from Philly to Atlanta but that I’d have a better chance out of Chicago. But, there were no guarantees when. And, I needed to decide right now. The doors were closing. Fine, I’ll do it. I had just finished praying when I had heard my name. I had to try. It was almost as if God Himself had called my name at that exact time (though He said it right). As she entered my name into the system, she looked confused and told me to shush as I tried to ask what was going on. As she was entering my name for the flight to Chicago, the next available flight to Atlanta out of Chicago that was also overbooked suddenly showed one seat available. And, I got it.

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Late I was. But, I made it. And, blessed I was–teaching from a speaker clearly gifted by God to communicate His truth and promises, red carpet treatment, so many sweet conversations with other mamas, hugs from a mama adopting one of my sweet little friends in the orphanage where we serve, hugs from a mama whose son is a boy I advocated for, a meal shared with two teammates from the next orphanage trip who I’d never met in person, and late night giggles and conversations with girlfriends I treasure (and wish I could force to move closer).

C4C girls

God made a way for me to get there and had something special for me there, allowing me to pause from trying so hard to do and simply allow Him to do for me through the words and service of others.

The perfect beginning–the perfect truth to learn–as March Madness begins.

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