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The trip to Thailand I didn’t want to take

3.26.18

China would be easy, China would be comfortable, China would be predictable and you would know what to expect. And there is nothing wrong with all of that, nothing at all. Unless, God wants you to know more about himself, then complacency and comfort just won’t work. Thailand, may not have been on your bucket list, but apparently God has it on your abundant life list.

On the night before we left for Thailand, I received that message from a friend. I clung to those words as we traveled for-freaking-ever to get to Thailand (yes, clearly I was still a bit grumpy about that part).

A couple weeks home now, and I can tell you that she was right. It wasn’t China. It wasn’t comfortable or predictable. And, we worked hard—real hard. Everyday was filled with large group meetings followed by one-on-ones. Mark and I were literally booked from 7:30am to 9:30pm. Mark taught about understanding deeper core heart issues and how to work through them. And, I taught from Jeremiah 42 about decision making (despite the fact that I feel wildly inadequate to teach about that myself), demonstrating and explaining what I have been doing for my personal study to introduce a new way to get deep into God’s word. We were poured out, but we were in it together, leading out of our marriage, magnifying the best in each other.

I’m so thankful I went despite the (ridiculous) roundtrip 66 hours of travel. And, time with Frank, Helen, Caleb, and Grace, daily legit fresh mango smoothies, and an elephant ride through the jungle with Caleb sitting between Mark and I were all icing on the cake (watch video below for proof).

I am so thankful for people who hold us up and send us convicting emails that I want to make into some trendy word art and hang next to my desk.

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Helen, Caleb and Gracie Girl {nearly 3}

3.26.18

Thailand also means time with some Chinese friends who came as well. And Chinese friends means some very special little people.

But, don’t tell Caleb I said so. He is quite big now and does not want to be called little.

Grace on the other hand? She prefers to be called all sorts of other titles like a Chinese phrase that means something like princess flower. That girl is spicy. I told her parents it’s the American in her.

 

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Saturday night in Chiang Mai

2.24.18

Long after I’d be asleep if I were at home, Chiang Mai is wildly alive. Traditional Thai music in one ear. Eye of the Tiger way too loud sung with an accent in the other. Fish to eat. Fish to eat dead skin on your feet. Young children shopping for leather elephant keychains and other crafts with parents on holiday speaking languages I can’t recognize. Young children beside their parent trying to make a living from all those on holiday selling their wares or begging for mercy in any form of currency.

 


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Time to go

2.19.18

It’ll be hours yet before the children wake. Staying up late watching the Olympics secured that. All but one of them lost interest long before we eventually turned it off. But, everyone stayed in the room, texting each other funny gif files while sitting side by side and playing with the cats. Drew pushed hard for our own Raudenbush olympics with events such as charades and our own version of figure skating, but Lydia was his only willing competitor.

We all hesitated to go to bed when our eyes got heavy. Us included even though we knew it would just be a nap given that our alarms were set for 3am. We all just wanted to enjoy the night together before Mom and Dad headed out.

I know it’s not easy for them to have a Mom and Dad who do a good bit of traveling. There’s a part of me that worries about it and wonders what messages they are receiving and if they are getting all they need. Then I remember that God didn’t call just Mark and I to this; He called our whole family. And, He’s equipping us to parent them within that calling and meeting each one of them right where they are.

20, 30, 40 years from now, I hope they say, “Our life was not always easy, but it was one of faithfulness and obedience, and we enjoyed each other and did it together.”

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