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How many Mei Guo Ren does it take to make a paper airplane

6.20.16

M.Y. found a fun book on Drew’s bookshelf—a paper airplane making guide. He handed it to me with big eyes, chatting away at me.

“Oh yeah, sure. I will try to make you one! Evan, come help me!”

Evan and I sat down and took out a sheet of paper from the package in the back of the book and started studying the instructions.

Step 1. check. Okay, Step 2. Fold here. Got it. Step 3…hmmm….Evan, do you think it goes like this….

When we were struggling through Step 15, we looked to our side and there M.Y. was holding this…

June 20 origami boat - 1

yeah…in the time it took a high school freshman and a nearly 40 year old woman to make a paper airplane, he could have made about 3 of these.

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We are currently hosting until mid-July with the intention of advocating for this sweet child so his forever family can find him. If you feel the nudge that he may be your son and you would like to learn more about him, email me and/or the social worker at Madison who is working hard to find him a family too. Note that Madison is offering $3,000 in grants towards his adoption with possibly more available!

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating, M.Y.

Happy Father’s Day 2016

6.18.16

You remember years of Father’s Day pictures. I coordinated outfits, bribed kids to smile by using lollipops (and may or may not have given a few threats), took 100 pictures to try to get one that “worked.”

Today, I told everyone to sit, and I took a picture. That was it. And, that’s kind of life right now. There’s no perfect picture. Even our imperfect normal has been completely turned upside down. But, at the end of the day, I’m quite content with that, and I know you are too.

I’m so proud of you this Father’s Day. I know this isn’t easy. You are always so intentional in your efforts to be the dad God wants you to be. But, over these last few days, I have seen you poured out even more. And, I couldn’t be any more in love with you than I am right now as I watch you do it and join you in it. Watching you love our children well and coach them in loving this child well serves as a reminder of how glad I am that I am doing all this with you.

He has seen you as faithful and has appointed you to a great task for every season and in this season right now. I’m so thankful that He called me to serve our family with you.

June 19 father's day photo - 1

(cheers abounding that we got M.Y. to sit for a picture without running away!)

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We are currently hosting until mid-July to advocate for this sweet child. If you feel the nudge that he may be your son and you would like to learn more about him, email me and/or the social worker at Madison who is working hard to find him a family too.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating, Traditions

2 Days and Counting

6.17.16

I couldn’t believe it at first when I heard his little voice from the other room.

Just try to tell us his little accent is not the cutest thing ever. I dare you.

June 16 Uno - 2 (1)June 16 Uno - 1 (1)

We’ve decided that Uno is one of the best relationship-building tools we got here.

June 16 Uno - 1 June 16 Uno - 2 June 16 Uno - 3

He’s incredibly camera shy and hides whenever he notices my lens. One of these days I’ll be able to get a picture of his smile that shows off his adorable dimples.

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We are currently hosting until mid-July to advocate for this sweet child. If you feel the nudge that he may be your son and you would like to learn more about him, email me and/or the social worker at Madison who is working hard to find him a family too.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating, M.Y.

Day 1 Over and Out

6.15.16

As much as I would have loved if this entire house had hibernated this morning, it did not. Instead, we were up making fried rice and eggs and playing Uno. When M.Y. suggested Ashlyn’s next move by pointing to a card in her hand, he officially won this crowd over if he hadn’t already.

Hosting kiddos arrival - 1 (4)

But, his pleasure in the applause was short lived. Not long later, this sweet boy started crying again. Ashlyn’s limited Chinese couldn’t touch the need here so the on-call program translator was brought in via a phone call.

I just told her to tell him he was safe, that we’d take care of him, that he’d see his friends soon. I put the phone on speaker while she spoke. Every now and then I’d catch a word I recognized. She’d speak and then he’d look right at me as I held the phone in front of him. Then, she’d speak and pause and he’d look right at me again. She asked him if he understood; he said he did. She asked him if he’d like her to translate any questions to me; he said no. We hung up. He didn’t cry again.

June 15 - 1

June 15 - 2

He was doing so well that we made a little visit to a playground where we met up with this guy.

June 15 - 4

He seems to kinda get what we’re saying to him somehow. But, man, it’s hard to not get what he’s saying when he tries to speak a little. But, we’re going to be just fine.

June 15 - 3

And, when we aren’t feeling so fine, we’ll have ice cream.

June 15 - 5

June 15 - 6June 15 - 7

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We are currently hosting until mid-July to advocate for this sweet child. If you feel the nudge that he may be your son and you would like to learn more about him, email me and/or the social worker at Madison who is working hard to find him a family too.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Advocating, M.Y.

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