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countdown is on

3.16.10

and we have the paper link chain to prove it.
You know I’ve been busy when I’ve been having blog-worthy events daily and haven’t blogged about them. We’ve been busy around here taking care of loose ends and trying to make sure everything is taken care for our trip, for Lydia in China, for Lydia at home, for our three kids staying home (don’t worry, they won’t be alone. Grandparents are coming to the rescue.). It’s a bit overwhelming.
Since you wouldn’t want to see pictures of me on the phone with travel agents and airlines and scurrying around my house cleaning up while three children follow behind me messying up, I’ll post some other fun pics of cool things we’ve gotten in the mail recently.

Kerrie, my little sis in my college sorority back in the day, sent us this package of goodies. All of it is coming to China with us. I love the pink and brown pants in particular because they look great under almost every dress Lydia has. They are perfect for layering.

When we started this journey to Lydia back in the spring of 2007, I started a yahoo group for families on the same timeline of us. All members had their paperwork logged into China’s system in July 2007. Lots has changed since then–many of those families are home with children adopted via China’s special needs program, some adopted from other countries, some are pursuing domestic adoptions, and some are still waiting. One special friend from this group, Jen, who recently became a mother to a newborn baby girl they adopted domestically, sent me these three things. Check out those panda shoes! And, the ladybug bikini! Too much! :)

This is a special gift I just got last week. I’ve so enjoyed building relationships with other adoptive families. One kindred spirit, Ashley, has been a real support to me as we waited to see Lydia for the first time. It has been a real joy to also see her matched with her new daughter Kate who is just a beauty. She sent me this amazing little security blanket that she makes herself as a business to help with the adoption costs. Look at the monogram on it! Ashley remembered a previous post in which I said giraffes remind me of my grandmother, so she thought this material was perfect. I tell you what, if Lydia doesn’t bond with this, I just might. It’s the softest thing you’ll ever touch.

And, I can’t leave this special gift out. When we were matched with Lydia, my parents were in Beijing (as they often are). My mom had a woman in Beijing hand make this sterling silver charm for me. In fact, she had 3 of them made for me–one for me and 2 smaller versions for Ashlyn and Lydia. They are the Chinese characters for Mei Yue, Lydia’s given name, meaning beautiful moon. I’ve been wearing it nearly everyday and look forward to wearing it in China when we receive our daughter.

The luggage is waiting in our dining room ready to be filled with clothes and other necessities (lots of them–I don’t know how we’re going to fit all we need in there). In the meantime, it makes for a good boat for Drew. I’m going to miss that silly face while we’re gone.

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It’s here! It’s here!

3.11.10

We got our travel approval! We are considering potential travel dates tonight and should know tomorrow when we are headed to China to bring our baby home!
Update: We are leaving on March 24th and returning on April 9th. I can’t believe it!

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Happy Birthday, Baby Girl!

3.10.10




How amazing that we received pictures of our dear one celebrating her birthday on her actual birthday! Early this morning, we got these pictures which were taken overnight while we slept. What a precious keepsake to have. And, check out that cake? One friend remarked today that the cake probably weighs more than she does. I bet that’s true. And, just so you know, no, our 1 year old baby girl didn’t so accurately put icing on her own face. I doubt she’d even be able to reach her own face with all those layers on. Apparently, it’s a Chinese tradition for the adults to put icing on the children’s faces on their birthdays. We are so thankful that she is in a place where her birthday, her life, is celebrated. Now, we just have to get this girl to smile!

Here’s how we are celebrating tonight–not nearly as fancy as the cake Lydia had. But, I think our kids will be a bit happier about it than Lydia was about hers!

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Preparing a Place

3.1.10


Less than two weeks ago, we lost a woman in our church to cancer. We are in a small church, in a close body, a body who will feel the loss significantly. As my husband led the prayer last Sunday in our worship service, in light of her homegoing, he read the following passage of scripture:

John 14:2-4 — “There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am. And you know the way to where I am going.”

As I listened to Mark read God’s word, I couldn’t help but consider the last 6 weeks of our lives since we saw Lydia for the first time. Everyday has involved some sort of preparations. I’ve purchased bottles, some tiny clothes and shoes, and a couple toys. We’ve rearranged furniture and put together a crib. We’ve gotten rid of things to make room for her things. We’ve cleaned, organized, and painted. We’ve researched what we need to do for her once she comes home. We dream about her, picture her with us, and talk about her often. We’ve been preparing our children for their sister as best we can. We’ve also been making packing lists and notes and preparations for the trip itself to bring her home. And, we’ve sent her and her caretakers a package to prepare her and them for our bringing her home. And, we have prayed for her and prayed for her and enlisted others to pray for her.

And, every preparation has been a joy. How we long to see all of our efforts come to fruition soon!

So, then I think about the Lord Jesus Christ who has promised to prepare to place for us in Heaven. I’ve heard this Scripture many times; perhaps it’s too familiar to me, too casual. But, I am viewing it now in a deeper way. He has allowed me to get a glimpse of what He is doing for each one of His children, for me. If I am so actively preparing for our daughter Lydia, how much more is He preparing for us to live with Him for eternity? What a comfort and encouragement to know that He loves me more even than I love my own children and desires to spend eternity with me. Even now, the angels rejoice over me and look forward to my arrival. He is even now preparing a place for me and preparing me for when I will see Him face to face.

Thankful today that Sandy is with her maker and enjoying His presence and all of the ways He has prepared a perfect place for her.

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