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Angels

11.23.10

We’ve had a unique opportunity this fall, one I had been looking forward to since March 27th, the day we visited Living Hope International‘s Beijing Training Center (a place where orphans who cannot be adopted can live in family groups and be educated and trained in fine arts in order to become future leaders and caregivers to those who need them).

After many years and much effort, Living Hope International was able to secure permission for groups of orphans, Living Hope Angels, to come to the United States from their training centers to perform traditional Chinese dance. This fall, they brought over 13 of the kids who we met on March 27th at their training center.

I so wanted to do something for these kids, care for them in some way. Their schedule was tight–lots of bookings for performances and events. But, they did have a need we could meet. They needed toiletries. We asked our small church to fill this need–and, as we expected, they did…abundantly. We collected about $700 worth of shampoo, dental supplies, soaps, brushes, combs, hair accessories, school supplies, silly bandz, and even over $100 in McDonalds gift certificates… I even found a warm heart on etsy who after just a quick email to her volunteered to make 20 toiletry bags for each child and their caregivers. Amazing. They are beautiful. (Please go to her shop and check out the adorable bags she makes! If you buy something, thank her for supporting the Chinese orphans!)

Not only did we collect the supplies, the church kids in Sunday School helped sort it all and stuffed each bag with each child’s name and age attached to it. Then, we prayed for each of the children and their teachers and caregivers by name. We met the group as they arrived in PA and gave them each their bag. It was a neat moment, sweet to be able to give the kids something that was made just for them.

We had the joy of seeing them perform several times–at a missions banquet, at the Mid-Atlantic Orphan Summit, and at a gathering for Living Hope adoptive families. That one was particularly fun–Lydia was very interested in their dances and the music. And, it was a pleasure to reunite with some of the adoptive families I’ve come to know over the past several years (and let Lydia visit with some other little princesses–see the picture below of Lyds with Taylor and Ella). And, it was a joy to meet some of the adoptive families I’ve been friends with for years. (Mark says I need a new word for “friends” who I’ve never actually met…any ideas?). One of those friends was Melissa–what a dear friend she is. We started our adoption journeys together back in the Spring of 2007. She now has the most adorable little boy you’ve ever set eyes on (I’m not kidding), and they are paperchasing for a daughter. Can’t wait to celebrate that arrival!

Yesterday, we got to see the Angels again in a bit of a different context. We fed them dinner, they joined our youth group for games (even little bitty Sarah was pretty good at dodgeball!), they did just a few dance performances for us, then….we taught them to square dance….sorta. Okay, so trying to teach Chinese kids who don’t speak much English (as well as teenagers who speak A LOT of English) how to square dance is quite an experience! (I have no pictures as proof since I was too busy doing the Virginia Reel and Oh Johnny Oh). But, I tell you what, they smiled and they laughed and they enjoyed themselves without having to perform or impress or share their stories–all of which are tragic as you can imagine. Take a look here to read some of them.

They leave PA next week and leave the states to return to China the first week of December.

As we prepare for Thanksgiving, I have such a thankful heart when I consider that these kids were able to come to the United States, to be blessed by families who opened their homes and their hearts to them, and to, perhaps, understand eternity a bit more clearly. I am thankful that our family could serve them in a practical way. I am thankful that we could allow them to just have some fun last night, that they could mingle with American kids, and simply laugh–no expectations, no language barrier mattered–just laugh.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Orphans

Drew’s Thanksgiving not-much-of-a-feast

11.20.10

Sometimes pictures just are enough. I will let these just tell the story for me. I’ll premise it though by saying that Drew’s class today made a traditional Friendship stew for their Thanksgiving feast. We contributed the chicken broth. But, there were lots of goodies in it including carrots and peas…yum (for everyone over the age of…say…12). The mom who organized it (God bless her) offered the kids a sticker if they tried it.

Watch the story and imagine your own captions.

Apparently, he wasn’t quite feeling it for the thing he is most thankful for (as evidenced in the pictures below)

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Drew

Thursday’s Things to Pray For

11.18.10

  1. My voice is pretty good! I saw my surgeon this morning (totally stressed getting there though since my 45 minute drive took 2 hours with traffic and then I was late! UGH!). She was really happy with how things look. I don’t go back for another 3 months (sigh of relief). Pray that it continues to improve over the next couple weeks so that I can sing a bit for Christmas!
  2. Pray for me as I have some editing projects in front of me with deadlines quickly approaching. I am anxious to finish them but find it hard to get undivided time to work (I know all you mommies out there know what I mean).
  3. Pray for God to continue to guide us, direct our paths, and teach us to rest when we feel hurried and busy.

Click here to learn more about Thursday’s Things to Pray For. Pray for me, for these things I list. And, leave me a comment to let me know you did if you don’t mind. It would be a great encouragement. And, I invite you to do the same on your blog–haven’t had too many takers on this in weeks past. But, I still feel compelled to invite you to. Or, if you don’t want to link up, feel free to leave your prayer request as a comment here and I’ll lift it up.


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Then, add your link to the list below. Just click on your own Thursday’s Things to Pray For post and copy the web address. That’s a direct link to the specific post (not just your blog in general). Then, paste that url address below. I’ll be sure to come by and pray for your requests too. (You may not see your own picture show up here–but it’ll be there for others to see. No worries.)

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
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Sunday Snapshot {Extending the holiday}

11.15.10

I am fully aware that it is November 14th and that Thanksgiving is around the corner and Christmas shopping is apparently well under way.

Look what we did this past week. Yup, while the rest of you are buying your Gingerbread house kits (please tell me that you buy the kit in the box and don’t make it from scratch), we made a gingerbread haunted house. (For the record–it was a gift. I didn’t buy it on clearance after Halloween. Though, I totally would have if I had seen it!)

Lydia tried to get in on the action. She’s so cute.

You see, Halloween is a pretty big deal around here. I know that’s sorta strange. We are a Christian family, and I know that many Christian families don’t even “do” Halloween. But, not only do our kids “do” it, they love it. I think the main reason that I haven’t discouraged it at all and have engaged in conversations in April about what they are going to be for Halloween is because of this:

(you better believe I had fun going through old pictures to find these from July 2005)
When Evan was young and unable to deal with his anxiety socially in groups of people at family gatherings or on the playground, costumes became therapeutic. He could put a mask on and become someone else. He was able to do things that he couldn’t do when he was simply Evan. It was pretty amazing to watch him transform from an emotional, anxious child to a superhero simply by putting on a cheap piece of black plastic with an elastic string over his face. I learned to love costumes. 
So, yes, you’ll still see my kids dressed up as Spiderman or Buzz or a monkey or an astronaut or as Darth Vader well into the Spring…and beyond (to infinity and beyond, perhaps?). And, yes, I may blog a few months from now about our “upcoming” Halloween plans. I’m sure they will have already been discussed. 

Ni Hao Y'all

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: daily life, Sunday Snapshot

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