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Day 3 {hǎo bù hǎo}

10.26.16

I knew it would be a stretch. But, I really wanted to try it. Drawing with two hands at the same time is hard, but it’s really good. Simply put, it makes both sides of your brain work together, a dialog that helps us more fully express and understand emotions and thoughts and has even shown to increase measures of intelligence and processing.

We showed the children pictures of trees from all over the world–including some from our own yards and those of some of their friends from the orphanage who have already been adopted. Then, we asked them to draw one of them using both hands at the same time.

Some said they couldn’t. Some said it was too hard. Some simply said no.

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But we said hǎo bù hǎo, just try it. Yes, it’s hard, but just try it. See what happens when you try something hard.

And, most of them did.

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And, it was good. As their brains were making firing away and making connections, we were also making connections. And, I stood back in awe, wanting a recording of the scene happening before me to be forever recorded in my own brain.

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Maybe this week that started rough with lots of surprises and some new structure and rules that seemed at first would hold us back wasn’t going to be so bad after all.

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Filed Under: China, Orphans, The Sparrow Fund

Day 3 {lunchtime}

10.26.16

At 10:45am everyday, here’s what you’ll see on the fourth floor.

The nanny chants 撤走 rhythmically to help them walk without falling. They do a little anyway. And, everyone (Chinese and American alike) giggles when they do because the cuteness is entirely overwhelming.

Down to the third floor they go, riding an elevator down to minimize those cute stumbles.

They sit down around small tables in small chairs and wait to be served.

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The nannies bring out a big pot and dish lunch into metal bowls. Then, each one as they are able, grabs their spoons and digs into their rice dish or noodles in a broth with tiny pieces of chicken or pork and vegetables. And, everyone is pretty happy.

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When they are done, they potty and then climb right into their own crib, remarkably climbing into the correct one that has their name on it. There they all rest for the next 2 hours while the nannies do the same on the floor mats in the room beside them.

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Day 2 {beautiful words}

10.25.16

We weren’t sure it would work. But, it did. And, it was beautiful.

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If I shared a hundred pictures, it would still fall short. The beauty of the process of children adding color to the very words of our Father on a page was like experiencing a glimpse of heaven.

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Day 2 {friends}

10.25.16

There are little words I could muster to communicate the level of respect I have for this man.

He raised my daughter before she was mine. And, now, nearly 7 years after he dressed her in puffy new clothes and said goodbye to her, he raised his glass to me and said “Welcome home.”

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I only cried once with him; what did he expect when he gave me something special to bring to his Chen Mei Yue.

And, now, here I sit. Marveling at the Father’s work and how I got invited into it.

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