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A Hardy Giveaway

7.9.11

I went from Cow to Queen in less than 24 hours.

Check out what I ate for breakfast…sorry, I know I’m being terribly cruel.

(And, that would be Lydia’s head in the bottom corner as she desperately tried to snag one before I snapped a picture.)
My too-sweet-for-words friend Jenna sent this to me to celebrate the anniversary of our crazy conversations back and forth, trying to find a little boy’s file who was waiting for his family, a little boy who became her son. 
I remember that weekend so clearly. I had been emailing Jenna for a long time as we had both been waiting for our Chinese children for what seemed like forever (both of us starting our adoption journeys in 2007). By July 2010, I was home with Lydia with my arms and heart full. And, Jenna still waited. I saw on a yahoo group that some boys from New Day Foster Home were on the shared list and were waiting…and waiting. I clicked on some links and saw that one of the boys was a little heart baby boy they called “Evan.” And, I knew I needed to email Jenna. 
The rest of the story is not mine to tell. But, you can go here to read more their decision to say yes to Cooper and here to read about their post-referral panic, a post that I think is a really good one for waiting families to read. And, just follow the links on the sidebar to read about their process in making him theirs, a process that was one of God directly speaking to them and guiding them. And, me? Jenna has given me way too much credit. Really, I just got to have a front row seat to watch what God was doing in this family to prepare them to parent the little boy He had had for them all along. And, it doesn’t get much better than that. 
Jenna is hosting a giveaway right now; she’s fun like that. She gets to give stuff away; and she’s doing it this time in support of The Sparrow Fund and the refugee women we support in Kenya. Head on over to this post and enter to win one of two pieces of your choice from the Etsy store The Nest. And, give Jenna some love for me, Queen for the day.
Now, off to eat another strawberry.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption, Kelly

Moo. Moo.

7.9.11

New Years. Valentine’s Day. Easter. Mother’s Day. Father’s Day. Cow Appreciation Day….Yup, we aren’t ashamed to celebrate it yearly.

On my way down to MD to visit my parents on Wednesday, I had a moment of “oh no!” when I got an email reminding me of Cow Appreciation Day which was today. How could I not have marked this on my calendar? There we were with suitcases in tow and no black and white, no yarn tails, no cat or zebra headbands to pretend are bovine. Ashlyn even has a cow patterned dress she could have worn this year.

But, that didn’t stop us.

Lydia was not so sure, but she caught on quickly. This next picture was taken literally a nanosecond after the one above.

The shift manager was a bit of a Cow-Appreciation-Day grinch and would only give my children the 4-piece meals and us the sandwiches free since our costumes were not head to toe realistic. I’m thinking the high school girl there in a plush cow costume complete with horns and bell set the bar a bit too high.

So sorry for these folks who didn’t get the email message and had to pay for their lunches.

After 3 days of a mini-vacation at my parents complete with Mr. Popper’s Penguins, Cheeseburgers in Paradise, playground and sprinkler play, setting up Mom’s new ipad2, and watching shows on my parents’ humungous tv, we headed home this evening after a quick dinner.

About 90 minutes into the trip, the kids were starving. So….

Wait….

Got it.

Yup. I’m a brave bovine indeed.

A n d,   I ‘ m   a b o u t   5  p o u n d s   h e a v i e r.

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Filed Under: daily life

In Over My Head

7.6.11

Etsy.

Need I say more?

Easy peezy, right? Open an Etsy shop for The Sparrow Fund this weekend where we can sell the jewelry from Mary in Kenya. I’ll put pics of the stuff on there, some description of the jewelry, Mary, and our nonprofit. Totally easy.

Hours later…not so easy.

See Etsy has all sorts of Dos and Don’ts for stores that are a collaborative effort (rather than me simply selling things I made myself only) and for stores claiming to sell things for a charity (guess a lot of people have used that claim falsely as a marketing ploy…geesh). So, okay, gotta read all the rules and make sure we’re good to go.

Then, gotta write up a profile and our own store policies and procedures and a welcome announcement and shipping and payment info and a message to buyers at checkout…oh my. Starting to feel a bit overwhelmed.

I started loading pics on there — one of the jewelry and a few from Mary. Thought that was cool. Spent a good bit of time figuring out what to write in the description. Then, I realized I had to name each piece. Just putting “Paper Bead Bracelet in Red” wasn’t going to cut it. So, I got creative…which I confess was sorta fun…until I realized I have a lot to post and my creativity tank is getting a bit more shallow with each post.

But, as I was still loading some items, I made a sale! Oooo…fun! My very first sale — for the Living Water in Kenya bracelet! (Told you I was naming creatively) Okay, feeling encouraged to keep going.

Several hours later, got 30 items posted and ready for more buyers…but barely any page views happening.

So, I decide to message a handful of “etsy store experts” who volunteer to help new shops by taking a look at their shop and giving feedback, etc. Couldn’t hurt, right?

Oh, boy.

Love your pictures. Your pictures with the wood background aren’t doing anything for your pieces; use a light background. Like the pictures of the women. Don’t use the pictures of the women; customers want to see the jewelry only and more of it. The jewelry market on etsy is saturated; do more to stand out. Prices are good. Prices are too low. Love your artsy titles. Redo your titles to be more descriptive. Explain your organization better and why these African women have anything to do with you. Your descriptions are good. Love what you’re doing. Good luck.

Took all they said seriously — they’ve sold thousands of items between them. So, more hours today were spent taking more pictures on a light background — and, honestly, I think I like the wood background better. And, edit and write more and edit more.

This will get easier, right?

Anyone got any creative names for the pieces I have pictured in this post? There might be something in it for you if you come up with good ones…

www.thesparrowfund.etsy.com — send it to your mom, your kids’ swim coach and piano teacher, write it on a post-it for your neighbors, leave it on a napkin for your waitress when you go out to eat…I don’t care who you give it to, but spread the word. I’ve got lots of these to sell…and more coming!

Oh, and click on these links. If you are a blog stalker (do I have any of those?), click them both once a day. Higher rankings on those lists bring more people by, and I’m resorting to drawing strangers in just to get them to see this jewelry…and possibly name it for me…before they BUY IT. Think of it as your little virtual post-it to a neighbor…



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UPDATE: 20 minutes after posting this, got an email confirmation for a sale of 2 pieces! A big ole “oh yeah!” for Carol in TN who bought the Aganpanthus in Kenya necklace and Savannas in Kenya bracelet…yup, creativity people. Apparently, the expert help may have helped!

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: The Sparrow Fund

4 cheers from 4 for the 4th

7.5.11

Fun times. 
Except if loud noises scare you. 
She looked like this…
until the fireworks started. Then, she was buried in Mark’s chest, hiding her eyes. 
When it was all over, she popped up, “All done. Bye bye, fireworks.” And, that was that. 
The rest of us loved them. 4 cheers for fireworks on the 4th from our 4. 

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Filed Under: why can't they just stay little forever

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