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The advent story {Our advent stories}

12.2.12

I remember going to bed with anticipation every night from November 30th until Christmas. Sometimes, the anticipation was just too much to handle, and I’d cheat a bit. A big felt calendar covered the back of my bedroom door with numbered pockets. And, every morning before school, I’d get to unwrap a little treat that was stuffed into those pockets by my grandmother. Pretty pencils, stickers, a fun toothbrush, hairbands, just little things leading up to gift 24 which would be a handmade Christmas ornament.

That’s what advent is about–not dollar store treats and ornaments, chocolates behind cardstock doors, or even wreaths with lit candles. Advent is about anticipation. 

My kids have pocket-filled felt calendars in their rooms now. Based on the conversations today, they get the anticipation thing. I wouldn’t be surprised to find some tissue paper shreds on the floor as the anticipation overwhelms one little girlie who can’t stop herself from cheating a bit. But, what are they anticipating?

from The Jesus Storybook Bible

I want them to anticipate Jesus, the story of the incarnation. I want to anticipate Him.

I searched. I pinterested. I blog surfed. And, I found some really neat family advent stuff.

Enter feeling of being overwhelmed.

Too many crafts. Too many requirements. Too many supplies. Too much for me.

I don’t want crafts and more things to fill my to-do list. I want Jesus. 

Late last night, I found something I can do. One reading a day from The Jesus Storybook Bible. That’s it. No glue, no homemade dough ornaments, no sequins, no stress. Just a story.

There are a lot of stories in the Bible, but all the stories are telling one Big Story. The Story of how God loves his children and comes to rescue them. It takes the whole Bible to tell this Story. And at the center of the Story, there is a baby. Every Story in the Bible whispers his name. He is like the missing piece in a puzzle–the piece that makes all the other pieces fit together, and suddenly you can see a beautiful picture.

The anticipation is overwhelming. I can’t to unwrap this story.

Jesus Storybook Bible Advent Reading Plan
Jesus Storybook Bible 10 day Advent reading plan

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: holidays, Traditions

Last Train Home {Giveaway}

11.29.12

I’m quiet tonight as a few scenes from Last Train Home continue in my mind.

Every year, as Chinese New Year approaches, 130 million people in China who have left their homes to work in cities return home, creating the single largest migration in the world every single year. Last Train Home, created by Chinese Canadian Lixin Fan, focuses on two of those 130 million people–Zhang Changhua and Chen Suqin. They left their two children as infants in their rural village in Sichuan Province to be cared for by an elderly grandmother and set out for Guangzhou with the hope of giving their son and daughter a better life than they had experienced themselves.

The stunning contrast between the crowded, riotous train station as they and many others literally push their way through to leave their factory work and dormitory living to journey home and the peaceful, magnificent landscapes they can see from their train window left me stunned. Chaos and beauty–true of the physical world as well as their relationships.

Though these parents gave all they literally could for the sake of their children, their relationships are critically broken with a wall between the father and daughter in particular that you can nearly reach out and touch as you watch them on the screen in front of you on the other side of the world captured in time. Their pain is intense. Somehow, it became even more real to me with the English subtitles as I was forced to focus on expressions and tones rather than simply words.

As their 15-year-old daughter wrestles with her own desire for independence and the hole left in her heart from absent parents, I realized I was literally holding my breath while I watched, wanting to see something happen that wasn’t going to happen while feeling somewhat embarrassed that I was getting such an intimate view of their brokenness. It isn’t fair. Her mother told her daughter she had not yet tasted the bitterness of life; I think she’s known it all along.

This is one family’s story, one intimate and intense enough to leave you holding your breath. Multiply their story by the 130 million who share similar journeys as migrant workers and this movie becomes epic in impact, no less necessary that Schindler’s List or Hotel Rwanda as we consider the reality of the world outside our own small borders.

I want you to see this. I want you to own it and share it with others. I want more people to understand the lives of Zhang Changhua, Chen Suqin, and Zhang Qin and the 129,999,997 others their lives represent. So, I’m giving away a copy of the DVD here.

a Rafflecopter giveaway

*note* this movie is not appropriate for young audiences. There is one particular scene with language and domestic violence. 
Giveaway is for the DVD and shipping to the Continental United States. If winner cannot provide a mailing address within the Continental United States, he/she will have the option of paying for shipping for the DVD.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: China, giveaways, Reviews

My Grown-up Christmas List

11.26.12

In case you are looking for some Christmas gift ideas for me, here’s just a few that come to mind…

1 – An answering machine
2 – A boombox or walkman
3 – The party game Trivial Pursuit
4 – Gift cards to Blockbuster or any other video rental places
5 – A yearly subscription to T.V. Guide
6 – A mixed tape of all your favorite songs
7 – A Milli Vanilli cassette tape would be great
8 – A thighmaster
9 – A cool colored Trapper Keeper to organize all my papers
10 – Hairspray – a lot of it
11 – A pair of Reeboks
12 – some new banana clips to pull my hair back
13 – a gift card to Hair Cuttery for a perm
14 – Atari
15 – Some scrapbooking supplies

What are you asking for?

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: holidays

Black Friday is one day. Now, shop with purpose

11.24.12

Yeah, I was there. I went shopping at 9pm last night and got some deals. It was madness and fun. I confess. As I looked around at all that stuff though, I couldn’t help thinking about all the money being spent and all the junk filling the aisles and how a big arrow with the word “DEAL” pointing to some trinket makes people fill their carts.

But, the day is nearly over now. Black Friday and crazy deals to get people in the door to wow them into spending money is almost done…sort of. I’ve got a lot of my boxes checked with things I needed to buy at those places, mind you. But, there’s still a good bit of wiggle room with some of those remaining boxes on my list. And, I’d love to wisely shop for those folks…you know, shop with more than one purpose in my mind. It’s not just get the gift; it’s get the gift and do some good at the same time.

That’s shopping with purpose. Sounds pretty cool, huh?

If you’re into the idea too, here are some suggested places to get you started. Feel free to add links to others you know of so we can check ’em all out and multiply the joy this season.

Feel free to click on over here and grab the code to share these sites on your own blog too.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: holidays

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