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First matter of business—China

10.8.13

Seemed so strange Sunday night as we made lunches, readied children for bed, and prepared backpacks and little ones for a new week. Daddy would still get up early and take Evan to school, but instead of driving into the office from there, he was coming back home to a new office.

He’s going to have to get used to the pitter patter of Lydia while he works (which is way understating the noise her little body is able to produce). And, he’s going to go through a 10 day boot camp so that he does…because I’m headed to China…in about 12 hours actually. With a team of about 10 women, we’re going to visit schools where we have teachers, meet students they have been connecting with, pour into the teachers, bring them some things from their U.S. wish lists (who would have thought Chex cereal, Craisins, chocolate chips, and Clif bars were so desirable), and show these women on the team who have never been to China some of the incredible work happening there.

Sorta cool how he’s the full-time staff now, and part of his job is sending me to China.

Off to finish packing my bags and making sure I can get that canned pumpkin and muffin mix in a 50 lb. bag. Hoping to post from there. Follow along as I travel back to China for the first time since we brought home our pitter-pattering daughter. I have great expectations for the next 10 days.

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The best birthday gift in the world {the day my husband left his job}

10.4.13

Nearly 18 months ago, I lay beside my husband in bed nearly asleep. He was wide awake, still on China time, with his thoughts spinning. “I’d love to do this full-time. But, there’s no way,” he told me. I dreamed with him a little but deep down, I thought he was right.

The next day when someone asked how his two weeks in China had been, I shared how he had used his skillset and giftedness in new ways and was energized, how he would so love to leave the finance industry to do that work for real. She said to me, as if she was consoling me, “Yeah, everyone feels like that when they first get home. Don’t worry. It’ll wear off.”

It didn’t wear off. I’m so thankful it didn’t wear off.

The last 18 months have all led up to this day. We’d take a few steps and see those street signs that said “ONE WAY ONLY.” We tested the call, doubted the call, asked others to confirm the call, struggled through our fears and the unknowns. Putting the last 18 months into words that form only one sentence seems wrong. And yet, just like that, here we are, the day that my husband stood up from his chair and zipped up his bag to come home. He took one more look around his workspace to make sure nothing was left behind, much like that one last walk through before you move out of an apartment you knew was just a temporary residence, never really a home. Some coworkers shook his hand; some gave him a nod; some likely barely looked up from their screens in front of them to bid goodbye. No earthly fanfare as he leaves the industry that God, as only He can, used to train and equip and prepare for something else. But, in this house, we’re all about fanfare. Actually, we’re celebrating today, tomorrow, next week, and everyday thereafter.

As Ashlyn told me this morning, October 4th is my birthday, yes, but I’ll have 100 birthdays, but he’ll only have one day in his life like today. And, this day is the best gift in the world.

Even the place he took me lunch day greeted us with some fanfare (see below sign).

changeable sign

Bring on the adventure.

new home office{his new office (aka basement) when he’s not out and about around here or across the world}

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Decaffeinated

9.30.13

decaf coffee

A 4-cup pot each morning with 1/4 of it caffeinated. Some cream and splenda, and I’m happy wife and mommy.

But, I’m going to China in less than 9 days, and my “luxury” hotel room there is not going to have a Bunn coffeemaker. I know, I know, I can take instant coffee packets (that cost a small fortune mind you…but worth every penny if they’d do the trick for me). But, those instant packets are either full decaf or fully not and still need creamer, and I’m so not a fan of nondairy powdered creamer. Rather than make my hotel room a science lab, trying to mix the instant grinds to get the perfect 3/4 and 1/4 balance of decaffeinated and caffeinated, and then having to stomach come white powdery stuff in there, I’m doing it. I’m ridding myself of caffeine. Yeah, it’s only a 1/4 caffeinated so laugh if you will. But, I gotta tell you, my head is killing me, and I’m not so cheerful. That caffeine is my happy drug of choice, apparently, even if there’s only a smidgeon of it in there.

Here’s to 4/4 decaffeinated coffee in the morning in preparation for the tasty hot water or, better yet, hot water with autumn leaves or something floating in it that I will enjoy in no time. Wonder if leaves are caffeinated. What am I saying? I’m sure they are.

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Filed Under: China, daily life

Encore

9.28.13

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Filed Under: daily life

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