Exactly one year ago this minute, I was holding my breath. A woman who had become a dear friend over the months we had shared a a home sat at my kitchen table, clutching her side and trying to look like she wasn’t as far along as she was. The next 90 minutes were like an episode of Amazing Race with the end goal being a brand new baby girl.
We fought against a family planning policy that limited this family to two children or one son {meaning, if the first child was a girl, they were allowed to have a second child to try again for a boy}. We fought against visa limitations that make it hard for women and children to leave the country. We fought against our own selfishness and self-protection and inclination to say mine mine mine with our home and our food and our things.
And, we won. With help from a lot of people, we won. And, as a result, one of the most beautiful little creatures ever created entered the world…here…in the land of the free and the brave…to a mama who is one of the bravest people I know.
Today, that beautiful little creature turns one.
And, she’s just as marvelous as she was then.
In October, two days after Grace turned 7 months old, China announced a big change to their family planning policy that had been in effect for three decades. As of the start of 2016, families across the nation would be allowed two children regardless of the children’s gender. Unfortunately, the law is not retroactive. So, Grace is still considered an illegal birth. Despite the fact that she holds U.S. citizenship, in order to register her in China for her ID card so that she can go to school, receive benefits allowed to their citizens, and even buy train tickets, her parents are still being told they will need to pay an exorbitant fine not required for second children born only 9 months after her. We will press on praying for more changes, better changes, and for this child who He’s going to use for big, big things. He already has.