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I am not a surrogate

10.17.12

This is a surrogate–a person appointed to act for another, a substitute. 

This is what I am: 
A parent–a person who brings up or cares for another (in my case, 4 others). 
A mother–nurturer, caregiver, cheerleader, advocate, teacher, nosewiper, lunchmaker, clotheswasher, songsinger, bookreader, playmate, captive audience member, storyteller, memorymaker and memorykeeper, one held responsible for a child’s wellbeing. 
Yes, I wasn’t her original parent. But, I’m certainly not a substitute mother just as she is not my substitute daughter. 
We’re the real thing. 

Hello there, this is my daughter. 
So nice to meet you. 
I’m her mother. 

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: adoption, Lydia

Comments

  1. Jenny Marrs says

    10.17.12 at 6:41 pm

    Precious!!!! :)

  2. Terri says

    10.17.12 at 7:07 pm

    I get it and AGREE!

  3. Christy says

    10.18.12 at 6:55 pm

    Definitely! You two are quite photogenic, by the way! :)

  4. Nicole says

    10.18.12 at 7:47 pm

    AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!

    I love this.

  5. Mandy Campbell says

    10.18.12 at 8:10 pm

    LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!

  6. Amy says

    10.19.12 at 12:20 am

    Very well said! Love this!

  7. Sis says

    10.20.12 at 5:32 pm

    I Love this…So true. She is growing up so fast!

    ~Sis

    http://adoption-thecrookedroad.blogspot.com

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