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Man training

3.19.12

It’s something we’ve talked about for years. We’ve said we’d do it. And, this was our chance.

A Raudy kid’s 10th birthday = a trip away = fun and significant conversation

And, we’re about to have our first 10 year old, people.

[pause for dramatic effect]

And, that 10 year old apparently can’t learn about manhood by heading to Disney World for a long weekend with Mom. (I swear I tried to make that sound like it would be really successful. Alas, I ultimately lost that one.)

Instead, given that he’s all into Wonka this and Wonka that, there only was one good option.

Mark took Evan out early on Saturday morning to run some errands one of which required a stop at the gas station where Mark returned to the car with a big ole Hershey bar which just so happened to have this in it when Evan tore it open.

The next 36 hours involved lots of smiles…and lots of sugar.

(apparently, Hershey staff feared that Evan might just steal their everlasting gobstopper recipe)
My saint of a husband had the pleasure of enjoying the chocolate factory ride no less than 8 times. I believe Gabby, Harmony, and Olympia are their dear friends now. 

He even manned up with a hair cap with said 10-year-old-to-be to learn about cacao beans around the world and how chocolate is made.

But, apparently, there is something to be said about sugar overload and silliness.

Because when you do things like this…

and this…

This…

and this…

Little hearts and minds open up to talk about things like who we are and who God is and that being a man means rejecting passivity, accepting responsibility, leading courageously, and expecting the greater reward, principles Mark set out to teach our up-and-coming man.

I don’t know what God has planned for this man he’s entrusted to us for a time. 
But, it sure is fun having a front row seat sitting beside my soulmate as it unfolds.

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: why can't they just stay little forever

Comments

  1. Lari says

    3.19.12 at 11:46 pm

    Happy Birthday! 10 is a significant milestone. We do a night away too…it’s just a guy’s night they play board games, watch movies and just hang out…and talk about the importance of loving Jesus and serving Him. The plan was for hubby to take the boys and me the girls…no girls so far so I’m a little jealous. ;) Grateful for Godly fathers who take the time to do this!

  2. living4him5 says

    3.20.12 at 1:13 am

    Such a sweet post! I especially love the last picture. :)

    Blessings,
    Amy

  3. The Waggoners says

    3.20.12 at 1:35 am

    Happy Birthday, Evan! Did your Dad let you do the make-your-own candy bar activity? Our family had a ton of fun there in January and it looks like you did too!

  4. Angie says

    3.20.12 at 4:31 am

    Precious! Happy birthday, Evan! I know that trip will be full of so many memories he will never forget! I pray he continues to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord! Blessings, buddy!

  5. Jenna says

    3.23.12 at 2:58 am

    LOVE this post, Kelly. I love the idea of taking your child away for their 10th birthday! What a GREAT idea….I’m totally stealing it. Thankfully, I have a year to plan! :)

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