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It’s true

4.22.11

Dear nannies,
When we received updated pictures of the little girl in your care who was about to formally become our daughter, we were disappointed to see that you had shaved her head. The pictures of her at about 10 months old that we saw right as we sent in our letter of intent to adopt her had the sweetest little wisps of hair coming in.

Then, about a month later, you sent us new pictures and her head was completely bare.

As a perhaps typical American mama, I was a little sad to see my soon-to-be daughter with no hair since I had many hair accessories that I was excited to see on that pretty head. But, I understand that there are several reasons you had for shaving her head. Some of those reasons are practical; others are traditional. I learned that many traditional Chinese shave the heads of their babies because they believe the hair then grows in thicker and more beautiful. I did not believe this myself. I had never heard of it before and did not believe it had any scientific merit.

Well, I just wanted to write to you now and include a current picture of our daughter who we named Lydia to tell you that perhaps there is truth to that belief after all.

Sincerely,
Mei Yue’s American parents

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Posted by Kelly the Overthinker
Filed Under: Lydia

Comments

  1. Michele says

    4.23.11 at 2:40 am

    Ok, that almost made me pee my pants! Hilarious!!! No hair or crazy hair, she is a beauty!!

  2. Petrie says

    4.23.11 at 2:56 am

    Too funny! Almost makes me miss the mullet!

  3. Petrie says

    4.23.11 at 2:56 am

    Too Funny! Almost makes me miss the mullet!

  4. groovy mama says

    4.23.11 at 3:06 am

    HA HA!!! good one!
    Donna

  5. Jerusha says

    4.23.11 at 3:31 am

    Tee-hee! Yeah, she’s gorgeous, even as a baldy.

  6. nateandkatesmom says

    4.23.11 at 12:14 pm

    Oh my goodness! That’s too funny!

  7. Julie says

    4.23.11 at 12:24 pm

    LOL! Totally not what I was expecting at the end. Thanks for the laugh.

  8. Cheri says

    4.23.11 at 12:31 pm

    That is so funny! They did that to my daughter to no avail. She still has thin hair.

  9. The Payne Family Blog says

    4.23.11 at 1:26 pm

    Classic!

  10. Julie says

    4.23.11 at 2:19 pm

    Hahaha! Jeff was reading over my shoulder and goes “That’s not her real hair, is it?” LOL!

  11. Nancy says

    4.23.11 at 3:02 pm

    That’s IT! I’m off to shave my own head RIGHT NOW!
    Nancy

  12. Heather says

    4.23.11 at 7:17 pm

    I like the new doo! She’s rockin’ it!

  13. Stephanie says

    4.24.11 at 1:03 am

    Hilarious! That sure is a head of hair! (I’ll have to tell my husband to shave his head.)

  14. Nicole says

    4.25.11 at 12:05 pm

    That is so cute!
    Why do they do this!!!!! Russia does the same thing!
    I do not believe it either!
    Have a blessed Monday!
    Nicole

  15. IlliniAmy says

    4.25.11 at 2:24 pm

    That is awesomely hilarious. Great work!

  16. Sharon says

    4.26.11 at 7:10 pm

    Sooooo stinkin’cute!!!! Love it!

  17. Football and Fried Rice says

    4.27.11 at 10:23 pm

    LOVE IT!!! You sincerely need to have Helen send this on :) CRACK me in half!!!

  18. a blog full of weldons. says

    4.28.11 at 12:19 am

    ahahahaha!! this rocks!!

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